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RE: Misuse of a submissive - 3/9/2012 7:17:24 PM

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I think there are a few here that need to focus on the subject material and stop commenting about each other. Before you post, ask yourself is what you are about to post truly relevant to the OP or slight thread drift. If you have any derogatory opinions about another poster, keep them to yourself.

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RE: Misuse of a submissive - 3/10/2012 10:52:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a
and I guess I missed it or you never said.... Is the person in question having a problem with this situation? If not.. then you'd best back off

I'm still curious if the op has ever met this 'woman' or if they just chat online. Because my gut feeling is that the 'woman' is actually a man writing his fantasies.

You may note that the op has never responded to anyone asking why he didn't call the police when he saw this happening. I think it's because he's never seen it. Or met the other person and can't admit he's been made a fool of.

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RE: Misuse of a submissive - 3/11/2012 9:53:02 AM

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The whole thing doesn't make sense.

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RE: Misuse of a submissive - 3/13/2012 4:39:07 PM

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she should..shit or get off the pot. unless she is caged every second and held prisoner, she can leave. if she doesnt, then she doesnt want to. there are shelters, friends houses etc that she can go to if she isnt happy where she is. if not, then it really must not be that big of a deal to her. now, if you are concerned about her safety then as a friend you tell her, then leave it alone. it isnt up to you what she chooses. if she persists on complaining but does nothing about it, then you as a friend can either listen to it constantly or politely tell her "if you arent going to change the situation Id rather not discuss it" she has to respect that. and you have to respect her choices

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RE: Misuse of a submissive - 3/25/2012 1:46:10 PM

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i really can't understand how this sub doesn't know that others are joining in?!how could this be possible?
in any way if she hasn't complained is none of Your business if she has her Master should be the FIRST ONE to know....if he doesn;t care then advise her to take care of herself for her own well-being

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RE: Misuse of a submissive - 3/25/2012 4:09:05 PM

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Sounds like either you just don't like it, but the s-type does...OR not. Why not just talk to her, and listen to her, watch her reactions, and read more than just her words. If it seems okay, then she's okay.

Also, 'normal' aftercare, to you, may not be what others do for aftercare. Remember that.

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