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RE: Low Income Submissives - 6/7/2006 5:30:13 PM

Rayne58

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Having to give up financial control to another is one of my hard limits. It's never gonna happen.

My mother never worked outside the home after she married my father and he gave her a set amount for housekeeping each week. She never signed a cheque or used a bank card until he got too ill to look after things. She had to learn very quickly, luckily she had me and a lovely woman at the bank to help her.

I refuse to be that dependent on someone else. In our relationship Master and I each have our own bank accounts. I have His PIN number, He doesn't have or want mine. Sometimes He is too ill to go to get money out of the ATM. I have access to internet banking and have brought Him in to the 21st century by paying our bills online (He always used cash before). He gives me His half in cash. He has a cheque book but hardly ever uses it, and doesn't have a credit card (I do). I am serving Him by taking care of all this, I tell Him when the bills are paid and He just says "OK"

One less thing for Him to worry about!

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RE: Low Income Submissives - 6/7/2006 7:01:39 PM

timeoutgurlie

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I think a girl needs to be self sufficient before she is owned, and she needs to have something to fall back on when she is owned, just incase something goes awry, she should be able to take care of herself regardless of what her life style is really, all humans in general should be doing this.

That said, I believe it's the owner's responsibility to take over all aspects, including finances. I'm not the kind of slave who wants to have to juggle so called 24/7 service, and a career. This isn't to say I refuse to work, but will only do work that benefits our relationship and fits into my service as I define it, ex: working for him if he owns his own business or is in an upper management type of position, which incidentally is the only kind of employment I will accept.

I cannot be with a man who lacks the ambition, drive and motivation to excel in business. I myself, even at my age, am in charge of my own business venture, which is quite an accomplishment. The only other females I know in my age range who are entrepreneurs have to get naked, I remain fully clothed and make triple the income they're making by taking off their clothes. This didn't happen by accident, I didn't just stumble upon it, I earned and created everything I have and will not be with a man who can settle for less.

Master and I have discussed it, I will sell my business after we have been together long enough to reasonably forsee us together for the long haul, and I will then be a **REAL 24/7 slave**.

If you have to go to work for (what is usually, but can even exceed) at least 8 hours per day, add in time for sleeping and personal hygiene and all, you're definitely not spending even half of your days providing service. That, for me, just wouldn't cut it.

I didn't fall for him because of his high paying job, but I definitely wouldn't have been able to pursue this relationship with him if he didn't have it.

**Edited to add, for all those who are easily spun into a frenzy, when I say real, and actually my entire post is my own opinion, in my own definitions. To me personally, it is not real, that isn't to say that other couples who are both working are fake. I just don't personally choose to serve in the same way others find contentment with.**

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RE: Low Income Submissives - 6/7/2006 7:14:28 PM

feastie

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As long as each contribute and the bill collectors aren't callin, no one is hungry and there aren't a fleet of trucks outside turning off services, who the hell cares who makes what?

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