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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/19/2012 8:19:13 PM

DomMeinCT

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YW. My intention wasn't to put you in a panic, but understand that there's risk involved. Hell, if it floats your boat, you could cam with a mask or a veil. And make sure that big portrait of your kids isn't in the background, right?

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/19/2012 8:39:17 PM

oregongirl

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OK, I have forgotten how to take down my pics from CM. I went to edit profile, and delete the profile pic, but what about the two others? I have gotten way over my head with all of this, not thinking things through. How do I take down my pic without taking down my entire profile?

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/19/2012 9:15:55 PM

mynxkat

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Simply go to edit profile, and down where the pics are there's a drop list that start with main profile pic. Select Additional Pic #, check the delete box, and update.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/19/2012 9:33:24 PM

oregongirl

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Thank you. I have done that. I hope all my pics are gone.

If I hide my profile, can I still come back here and ask questions to this site, the message board?

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/19/2012 9:42:41 PM

CaptJosh

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Good gravy that's a good point about the screen cap software. I forgot to even mention it earlier. It's another reason to be very careful on the net about camming with people. Of course, one needs to also be as careful offline as on, even in Sin City itself. After all, as Jeff Dunham's Walter puppet says, "What happens in Vegas stays on Youtube."

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/19/2012 9:52:19 PM

oregongirl

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I hope I can sleep tonight after discovering all of this.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/19/2012 9:53:27 PM

lizi

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quote:

ORIGINAL: oregongirl

Thank you. I have done that. I hope all my pics are gone.

If I hide my profile, can I still come back here and ask questions to this site, the message board?

Yes, if you hide the profile you can still post on the message board.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 5:48:33 AM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: oregongirl

Thank you. I have done that. I hope all my pics are gone.

If I hide my profile, can I still come back here and ask questions to this site, the message board?

Please be advised that hiding your profile is going to hinder your search efforts,
as no one will even know you exist except for those that read you here on the forum.

I would suggest making your profile available, and instead of using your pictures, use images that
appeal to you, or that say something about you. For example, I think I'm a classy broad,
but instead of using my pictures to show my classy broadness to the world, I use other images.
And DomMeInCt thinks she is a mouse lemur, and lo and behold, she has the cutest picture ever!

And now, men that are truly interested in you will have to earn your trust before you send
them any pictures of yourself! Win Win!
If you need any help in finding images, feel free to contact me.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 6:49:51 AM

kalikshama

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oregongirl - Poise has helped lots of people here with pictures; I'd be totally comfortably getting help from her.

Do get an IM and email address that do not contain identifying information.

My experience has been that men who are overly sexual right off the bat stay that way. If you are looking for a LTR, I suggest hold off camming until you're in one.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 7:18:01 AM

oregongirl

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poison, thanks! You've got mail :)

kaili - what kind of identifying information, like an IP address? Anyone can create an alias email addy and I have done so myself just for the purpose of corresonding with new people I encounter.

DommeinCT: I appreciated you giving me a warning. That's why I came here in the first place, so thanks!

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 7:48:10 AM

JeffBC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: oregongirl
poison, thanks! You've got mail :)

Poise???? poison? Well... perhaps. But what a sweet, sweet way to go.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 8:05:55 AM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

Poise???? poison? Well... perhaps. But what a sweet, sweet way to go.

That's right. I may appear all fluffy and demure on the outside,
but deep inside, I'm bad ass.

Kapow!

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 8:06:57 AM

oregongirl

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Oops! Sorry for that huge typo Poise! And thanks JeffBC for the heads up on that, lol. Some typos can be pretty funny. I used to an excellent typist. I still am if I focus on what I'm doing and slow down.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 9:35:22 AM

poise

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Please don't worry about offending me with a typo, Oregongirl.
If I had time to fret over that, I'd be living a rather dull life.
As it stands, I kind of like it, and heck, it got Jeff's attention..... :)

*ponders a name change*

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 9:46:29 AM

JeffBC

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So you're going to go with:

FluffynDemure

Excellent choice!!

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 9:57:19 AM

kalikshama

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quote:

kaili - what kind of identifying information, like an IP address? Anyone can create an alias email addy and I have done so myself just for the purpose of corresonding with new people I encounter.

Just have an addy and IM that does not include your first and last name and make sure the text part is blank or anonymous as well; for example: "kalikshama <[email protected]>" as opposed to "My Real Name <[email protected]>"

Also, don't use your kinky addy for facebook or linkedin :)

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 10:01:35 AM

LafayetteLady

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I haven't read the other replies.

You have started out in the right direction. When someone asks you to do something you find uncomfortable or "sketchy" say no, block and move on. It takes time to wade through all the assholes before finding the guy that is right for you.

Just keep going as you are and don't lose faith.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 10:31:23 AM

CaptJosh

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And suddenly I can't resist the urge to quote a Mel Brooks movie...

DARK HELMET: Who who made that man a gunner?
CROSSEYED OFFICER: I did, sir. He's my cousin.
HELMET: Who is he?
COLONEL SANDURZ: He's an asshole, sir.
HELMET: I know that. What's his name?
SANDURZ: That is his name, sir. Asshole. Major Asshole.
HELMET: And his cousin?
SANDURZ: He's an asshole too. Gunner's Mate, First Class Phillip Asshole.
HELMET: How many assholes we got on this ship anyway?
ENTIRE BRIDGE CREW: YO!
HELMET: I knew it, I'm surrounded by assholes.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 2:13:28 PM

oregongirl

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CaptJosh: Your joke made me laugh out loud

Thanks. (and love your sig)

LafayetteLady: Thanks for your encouragement. I think I have met the most caring people right on these message boards!

kalikshama: Thanks for that advice....I will double check on on my "kink email addy" to make sure my name is not in next text when it displays. I think I just have my first name, however, I can take that away too. Guess best way would be to send an email to myself to see how it looks, for I do not have myself in my contact list on of the free email clients.

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RE: Online Dom wanting me to cam first before get to kn... - 3/20/2012 2:24:37 PM

Endivius

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymzh7YAlZng

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