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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/5/2012 1:42:02 PM   
CeriseNin


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@CeriseNin- True. I was just curious to see other peoples ideas. Then mix anything I find interesting if the time arises.

She's your new slave - it's a new relationship for the both of you - and you're already looking for punishment ideas for her screw ups.

Does this really seem like a good idea to you, and that you're starting this shiny new relationship in a positive way?

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/5/2012 4:18:35 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		I disagree with the notion that he's setting her up for punishment. Let's be honest, mistakes are going to happen on both sides. It might sound rosy and perfect in a fantasy setting; the reality is that there will be a time when one of them will screw up. It's a normal part of a relationship, especially when first starting out. Asking for advice on punishment ideas is a reasonable request. It might seem like he's setting her up to fail, but it only seems that way. I have personally set my girls up to fail on occasion, for the purpose of showing them they cannot do everything perfectly all the time, and that they have limits for a reason and should be respected. It isn't about doing it to be cruel or expecting a bottom to fail just so you can smack them around. That would be abusive and not really healthy in my opinion. It wouldn't hurt for him to do some reading, there are plenty of books that would be a benefit to the both of them exploring things especially in a new relationship. There is a list of books in the FAQ section that has a lot of valuable information you can take in that has ideas for punishment, funishment, and (most importantly in my opinion) communication. Rather than harping on every tom, dick, and jane that comes asking for advice about something, how about we *gasp* try not thinking the absolute worst scenario every time someone asks a question. Just sayin'.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 6:50:46 AM   
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Hey. Feel free to suck a dick


Often in these newbie "Yo, internet strangers, how do I manage my relationship" threads by self proclaimed Masters I censor my thoughts and try to be helpful and as such I have bookmarked the BDSM booklist thread.

When I see responses like this I realize my initial impression was correct but will continue to be helpful in the hopes that I do reach someone, albeit not the OP.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 8:02:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

Hey. Feel free to suck a dick


Often in these newbie "Yo, internet strangers, how do I manage my relationship" threads by self proclaimed Masters I censor my thoughts and try to be helpful and as such I have bookmarked the BDSM booklist thread.

When I see responses like this I realize my initial impression was correct but will continue to be helpful in the hopes that I do reach someone, albeit not the OP.



I did find it entertaining that he thinks telling a submissive woman "to suck a dick" is insulting.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 8:23:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think the kid who is the op should apply the same punishment his mother does to him. Go clean your room. And I'd suggest grounding but not being allowed to see the op would be a reward, not punishment based on his rudeness.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 11:37:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't like this OP very much. I wish I had him in My grasp, a few minutes with soap in his mouth would do him some good, amoung other things.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 1:41:30 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Here's the issue I have with your question....

It's a bit like someone rocking up on a car enthusiasts forum and saying "Hey guys, I've just bought a corvette! Can anyone tell me how to drive a car"

Does she know you're having to ask this kind of question?

So... what exactly is it that you want to punish her for?

I mean, if you're training a slave and she doesn't understand your wants / needs.... do you think you should be punishing her, or should you be taking responsibility for your own failure to lead?

Are you asking about funishment... a little bit of spanky?

Throw us a bone here.... what do you actually want to know?

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 1:52:12 PM   
hausboy


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The girl has an inexperience Master.  Isn't the punishment enough?



That is the funniest damn thing. Ever.

I adore you Lady Pact.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 1:53:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I don't like this OP very much. I wish I had him in My grasp, a few minutes with soap in his mouth would do him some good, amoung other things.


Some might "enjoy" that, ya know.... just sayin'....

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/6/2012 5:58:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DaKid8


@OsideGirl- Hey. Feel free to suck a dick. I have my own thoughts and I am pretty smart.




Damn. Here I was being all voice of reason, and then you had to go and post this, making me look like as big a jackass as you. Thanks.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/7/2012 10:30:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Very true, however in his case I was thinking of using Dial, not Irish Spring. So, yea...punishment. Lol.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/7/2012 10:43:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DaKid8

I have a new slave and I need ideas on how to punish her.

Say to her, "Tell me five things you don't like." After she does that, choose one or two you don't like either, and use those. Then if she does something wrong and you punish her, you are punishing yourself as well. That way you are both trying to make sure she does everything right.

If you're in charge and she fails, you failed too.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/7/2012 11:03:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it's safe to say he's already left the conversation, looking other places for those punishment ideas. It's still nice to read your thoughts and see where people are coming from, without having these "issues" personally. Here's a Thanks for the info that wasn't added.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/7/2012 12:00:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		He was on these threads last night, but he didn't post. I'm guessing he didn't like the responses.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/7/2012 5:44:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		To the original poster, How about a simple over-the-knee hand spanking?

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/7/2012 8:55:30 PM   
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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/8/2012 3:24:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I asked for a simple thing. Punishment Ideas. You know nothing about me. At all. I know nothing about any of you. I was just looking for ideas.

@TNDommeK- Good luck with trying to wash my mouth out with soap and amoung other things. What good would it do if I was in your grasp? You could not physcially over power me and you damn sure could not mentally over power me. Just another example of talking shit over the internet.

@OsideGirl- People are assholes online so fuck it. Your a bitch fuck you , blah blah, cunt, blah blah, retard blah blah.

I really guess this thread was a waste of time.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/8/2012 4:02:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP, the only asshole on this thread is YOU. Your appalling rudeness to Osidegirl was completely uncalled for.

How can you call yourself a dom if you cannot master yourself?

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/8/2012 7:27:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well Said, MissKitty. The OP is, to use a heavily sarcastic expression that is easily older than I am, a real piece of work.

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RE: Punishment ideas? - 4/8/2012 7:31:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DaKid8

I asked for a simple thing. Punishment Ideas. You know nothing about me. At all. I know nothing about any of you. I was just looking for ideas.

@TNDommeK- Good luck with trying to wash my mouth out with soap and amoung other things. What good would it do if I was in your grasp? You could not physcially over power me and you damn sure could not mentally over power me. Just another example of talking shit over the internet.

@OsideGirl- People are assholes online so fuck it. Your a bitch fuck you , blah blah, cunt, blah blah, retard blah blah.

I really guess this thread was a waste of time.




Pack up your toys and go home, little boy. You aren't ready to play with the big kids yet until you can master your own emotional outbursts.

Punishment ideas are USELESS until you actually have someone to punish for SOMETHING. And judging by how you conduct yourself in public, you are an extremely untrustworthy boy who doesn't deserve the title of "Master" because you haven't even mastered yourself.

You're right, we don't know you. And frankly I doubt anyone here wants to. All we have is your words on a screen, and they don't put you in a favorable light.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 4/8/2012 7:33:19 AM >

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