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bitchdog4master -> ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 10:17:30 AM)

Question, can someone explain to me the "Daddy Dom" How does he differ from a Dom. What will he expect from me beside the obvious-submission.
What should I expect/or not from him? I always thought "Daddy Dom" pertained to incest fantasy but, apparently I was wrong.

Thank you



DarkSteven -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 10:25:47 AM)

IMO, a Daddy Dom has a more caring approach. The dynamic may include age play, in which the lg will color, sit on Daddy's lap, etc. Many choose to consider the lg to be sexually off limits when she's little, and some like to break that taboo by including sex then.



OsideGirl -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 10:35:05 AM)

We don't age play, but he's a Daddy Dom. For us, it's a less formal, more warm and fuzzy relationship.



Killerangel -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 10:40:24 AM)

If you're speaking about wanting to know how someone in particular is using it then it's usually best to go to that person and ask since everyone has their own definitions. In general yes, it can include age play or not, but Daddy's seem to be a group of men who are more interested in the caring side of Domination.

To me, it seems that the men defining themselves as Daddy's are looking to be supportive, indulgent, stern, and loving. Some seem to not want to cause any physical pain except maybe a spanking as a punishment, I've seen it described as a softer D/s relationship by people who proclaim not to want all that 'pain crap'. Think of a proud father who keeps the discipline in the family but adores his Daddy's Little Girl. Some like more punishment and sternness in the mix, and some like more the chance to indulge their sweetie. I'd have to say I've seen it used more as an excuse almost to be compassionate, considerate, and easygoing than to be the disciplinarian.



SailingBum -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 11:20:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: bitchdog4master

Question, can someone explain to me the "Daddy Dom" How does he differ from a Dom. What will he expect from me beside the obvious-submission.
What should I expect/or not from him? I always thought "Daddy Dom" pertained to incest fantasy but, apparently I was wrong.

Thank you


It could be that or a million other things. You at 50 something should realize everyone has a differing view on things including politics and daddy doms. I'd expect this type of question for a 15 year old

BadOne



DarkSteven -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 11:54:45 AM)

I forgot to mention that sometimes it's an excuse for geezers my age to hit on 20something girls. And spank them frequently.

It can also include diaper play sometimes.



Karmastic -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 12:45:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I forgot to mention that sometimes it's an excuse for geezers my age to hit on 20something girls. And spank them frequently.

LOL! since when do we need an excuse?



frazzle -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 3:58:39 PM)

You are not wrong. mostly it is incest.
Would you really want to call the person you're having sex with daddy???
Would you want to have sex with someone who expected you to call them daddy???

What half of them mean, is someone who is caring.

Ive met sadistic bastards who are caring and it didnt mean they wanted to be my "daddy", it just meant that yes they enjoyed hurting me and didnt need an excuse.



kalikshama -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:15:08 PM)

While I find the concept icky FOR ME I think this sweeping generalization is silly.

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You are not wrong. mostly it is incest.
Would you really want to call the person you're having sex with daddy???


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frazzle -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:16:31 PM)

Note you didnt highlight the second line!!!!!



RedMagic1 -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:16:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: frazzle
You are not wrong. mostly it is incest.
Would you really want to call the person you're having sex with daddy???

Seriously WTF????

First off, please provide a link that demonstrates any correlation between incest and calling a consensual partner any name whatsoever.

Second, I would totally get off on calling my sexual partner daddy, and I'm a het male who only bangs women. That is absolutely on my Scene Bucket List.



frazzle -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:21:33 PM)

Well sorry not even going to bother looking for a bunch of statistics that prove what ever you want them too. but having sex with someone you call daddy!!!




frazzle -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:23:08 PM)

yes i know that under bdsm everything is meant to be acceptable, but some of it isnt.



kalikshama -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:23:19 PM)

Admit you pulled that "most" figure out of your ass and we'll move on.



RedMagic1 -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:23:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: frazzle
Well sorry not even going to bother looking for a bunch of statistics that prove what ever you want them too. but having sex with someone you call daddy!!!

Would it be ok with you if I called someone a heteroinflexible judgmental vanilla?



frazzle -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:26:09 PM)

i'd prefer "do me sub with her own opinions" LOL



RedMagic1 -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:27:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: frazzle

i'd prefer "do me sub with her own opinions" LOL

Ok you win.[:)][:)][:)]



DarkSteven -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:27:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

First off, please provide a link that demonstrates any correlation between incest and calling a consensual partner any name whatsoever.



I believe that frazzle is referring to incest play, not actual incest.

That said, incest play is a part of D/lg play for some people, but I'd estimate maybe 10%.

Incest play turns my stomach. Of course, actual incest is illegal and not sanctioned by the lifestyle.



frazzle -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:32:45 PM)

Sorry DS, i wasnt referring to incest play.

Having sex and calling someone daddy/mummy during amounts to the same thing for me. The littles thing is even more, lock up and throw away the key.

Its your kink aint mine, but im never going to accept it. Didnt mean yours personally.



ModTwentyOne -> RE: ?? Daddy Dom's (4/17/2012 4:36:08 PM)

Let's remember not to put down the kinks of others. No one is forcing anyone to respond to this topic.




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