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trundled -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:19:55 AM)
I'm fine staying faithful tell me what is it like having absolutly nothing better to do than attempt to phsycoanalize ? I am having an absolute blast listening as it turns out this is so much better than i thought . I havent talked this much in monthes r/t is what You make it i was simply put with the best person in the world no need to look no need compare i got what i wanted before yappy ever went on the pay for this pay for that kick lol

RedMagic1 -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:40:04 AM)
"Hi. We've never met, and I don't want to tell you anything about me, but will you please play with my penis?" That line usually works when I try it on women. You must just be having bad luck.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:52:16 AM)
It works for me, trust me !! BTW: I would have never given that translation of the op's post. I was more like: WTF?

risktaker9 -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 8:35:07 AM)
When you are a woman, the world is absolutely full of penises, ya practically trip over them. Guys are always offering them up. It's got to be the fastest way to turn a woman off is offer them your dick and nothing else. Guys keep thinking it's the magical wand of enlightenment and don't realize 10 more guys are in line behind them offering the same freaking thing. Which is why women get testy when they keep running into the same penis-centric view over and over. Every guy wants his played with in the manner that he specifies, it never changes. What captures our attention is what comes with the penis as far as the man himself or what else is on the menu. So OP....why should we want to play with yours? The chance to be 'mean' is about as common as breathing. On my side, if I have anything to do with a penis I want it in my hands - what the heck would I do with something I can't even have fun with? You came in and asked others to play with your penis and when it wasn't received well tried to do some spin of major proportions. Dead mistresses, german custom made penis implements, being too old, saying this is all fun and games now....wtf? i have to congratulate you on literally making a mountain out of a molehill.

Bhruic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 9:08:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan Ok, sure...I'm awake and bored so I'll bite. What's in it for those of us who are generous enough to help you get your freak on? Do you plan to pay us? Send us gifts? Clean our houses or mow our lawns? This is your first post, so one here knows you from Adam. You mean nothing to us so where's the fun for us? Why should we help you? I think what is being offered is inherent in the original post. I think there are a lot of people that would get some pleasure in extending the OP's chastity. I personally think that kind of exchange is more in the spirit of D/s than money, or mowing the lawn... but that's just me perhaps. That said... I also am not in the habit of clicking on unknown links.

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 9:17:04 AM)
LOL... I bet eyes from heaven are looking down, ever so proud that he remains faithful to her memory all while inviting perfect strangers to play head and lock games with his penis. Damn right I would be proud... so proud I would finally gain that goddess status and proud to strike him with lightening, right on that little... um... device. I love a good start to a Friday! [;)]

poise -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 9:18:23 AM)
I clicked the roulette option, which either added additional time or took some away, and which kept me from being directly responsible for your pleasure or your pain. You're welcome!

kalikshama -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 9:38:03 AM)
There's an option for taking time away??? /clicks on link/ Nope, only adding time or roulette >_< OP - you're in luck - your time would have evaporated had there been a direct way to take time away.

tsuta -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 10:30:57 AM)
... seriously i don't really understand why people are being mean.. the guy just asking a simple thing. If you don't want to do it that's fine but why feel the need to be harsh to the guy? personally i won't click because i'm uncomfortable with the idea but hey, i don't feel any need to bash him.

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 11:26:58 AM)
tsuta, if you think he actually came for 'nice', I would have to disagree. He came to be humiliated and involve strangers with his kink. He opened a door he had to know... especially with his experience and age, that would provide what he most likely wanted. What respectful, experienced submissive that respected his own deceased dominant, would act in such a way? The kind that likes to be humiliated.

risktaker9 -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 12:15:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsuta ... seriously i don't really understand why people are being mean.. the guy just asking a simple thing. If you don't want to do it that's fine but why feel the need to be harsh to the guy? personally i won't click because i'm uncomfortable with the idea but hey, i don't feel any need to bash him. You say you didn't give the OP what he wanted because you were uncomfortable, so you feel that others are supposed to take the same uncomfortable feeling and just be quiet? Have you ever entertained the idea that some learning could be done? Do you know how amazingly often guys pop in here to offer up their penises? So often that it becomes repetitive to the extreme. Even for those of us who like penises it might be nice to chat about other things than some individual's penis and what he likes to do with it. He didn't come for a chat or to begin a discussion on this discussion board...he came to satisfy his penis and ask strangers to jump in and get him off, and we're all just supposed to ignore that attitude of entitlement and be nice to the penis-obsessed gentleman? I figure it as he committed a faux pas of biblical proportions for assuming that an entire group of strangers cared about satisfying his sexual needs. We're not talking about a chat about innocuous things. There is a regular poster here that asks all kinds of personal questions about health, home maintenance, brands of shampoo, etc and is always treated kindly even when it's done constantly. When you come in leading with your kink and expecting people to care about getting you off it gets presumptuous and intrusive, if someone bites back so to speak I think that's fair. My Mom used to say if you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. I figure that's a good rule of thumb for many areas in life. However, when someone goes over the line of personal space and gets into yours and is attempting to use you for something he/she wants, that's fair game to let them know how you feel. I don't see anything mean about that. To use another common sentiment...he started it. Therefore he gets what he gets.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 12:20:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsuta ... seriously i don't really understand why people are being mean.. the guy just asking a simple thing. If you don't want to do it that's fine but why feel the need to be harsh to the guy? personally i won't click because i'm uncomfortable with the idea but hey, i don't feel any need to bash him. THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!! like, huh, wtf is up here? i hesitated to add time, dunno why it bothered me. i clicked roulette, sucks can't tell the result. i think i get what you're doing, u want to try and max out as much time as u can. quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit tsuta, if you think he actually came for 'nice', I would have to disagree. He came to be humiliated and involve strangers with his kink. He opened a door he had to know... especially with his experience and age, that would provide what he most likely wanted. What respectful, experienced submissive that respected his own deceased dominant, would act in such a way? The kind that likes to be humiliated. oh, and on second thought, re the snark and being mean...OP, if you're into self-instigated flagellation, u apparently came to the right place. these guys got u pegged pretty well. so, was it good for you? lights up cig

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 12:26:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: risktaker9 quote: ORIGINAL: tsuta ... seriously i don't really understand why people are being mean.. the guy just asking a simple thing. If you don't want to do it that's fine but why feel the need to be harsh to the guy? personally i won't click because i'm uncomfortable with the idea but hey, i don't feel any need to bash him. You say you didn't give the OP what he wanted because you were uncomfortable, so you feel that others are supposed to take the same uncomfortable feeling and just be quiet? Have you ever entertained the idea that some learning could be done? Do you know how amazingly often guys pop in here to offer up their penises? So often that it becomes repetitive to the extreme. Even for those of us who like penises it might be nice to chat about other things than some individual's penis and what he likes to do with it. He didn't come for a chat or to begin a discussion on this discussion board...he came to satisfy his penis and ask strangers to jump in and get him off, and we're all just supposed to ignore that attitude of entitlement and be nice to the penis-obsessed gentleman? I figure it as he committed a faux pas of biblical proportions for assuming that an entire group of strangers cared about satisfying his sexual needs. We're not talking about a chat about innocuous things. There is a regular poster here that asks all kinds of personal questions about health, home maintenance, brands of shampoo, etc and is always treated kindly even when it's done constantly. When you come in leading with your kink and expecting people to care about getting you off it gets presumptuous and intrusive, if someone bites back so to speak I think that's fair. My Mom used to say if you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. I figure that's a good rule of thumb for many areas in life. However, when someone goes over the line of personal space and gets into yours and is attempting to use you for something he/she wants, that's fair game to let them know how you feel. I don't see anything mean about that. To use another common sentiment...he started it. Therefore he gets what he gets. very interesting, i never saw it that way. i don't see clicking a link as being used to satisfy someone's sexual urges. i just see it as one anon dude helping another anon dude (check out my name, heh heh). no big whoop. i had to wonder if you were totally serious or if i was too dumb to get any troll jokes. else you sound kinda entitled, no offense. like this is your space, and he's invading it, rather rudely. sorry i'm a newb here too, and don't know all the forum practices & memes and such. i don't take it too seriously either, it's the interwebs after all. ps - no one had such concerns when a woman came to the board side of this site to do the same conceptual thing (satisfy her sexual needs, seeking men). i smell a double standard here.

tsuta -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 2:14:02 PM)
maybe i'm naive and a bit clueless but i really don't see how putting a link and saying, if you want to, you can make my chastity last longer, equate to asking people to "play/please his penis". I mean it's a chastity device, not a vibrating "fleshlight". But i dunno, maybe i'm not reading into this far enough. Or maybe some people here are reading into this too far. I said i was uncomfortable with the idea of participating, myself, because well this isn't my kink (not surprising i mean, i'm a sub) and anonymousness isn't my kink either, but there are people who are into making people chaste, and there are people who are into anonymous/online play/sex, and well, maybe not impossibly, people who are into both those things and i'm guessing the guy tried his luck and posted this, in case people like that would see it. i mean just coz it's not your kink doesn't mean that the intention of the OP are force his penis into people's face. You have the choice to participate or ignore. There's no need to flame the guy. Well it's just my opinion. When i see bullying that i feel is unnecessary, i don't like it and i'm puzzled by it. Maybe i'm too blind/naive and just havent hanged around this forum enough or i'd agree with you and say that you're all right to bash the guy, maybe he's just some douche who's wanking while reading the verbal humiliation but you don't really have any proof of that. Maybe he's really just some guy who asked people if anybody would feel like clicking a link to make him feel some kind of pseudo dominance on his life shrug. I guess i understand where some of you are coming from, now, with those replies. I didn't think of it that way. Bah anyway i don't think i'll argue this more now.

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 2:24:11 PM)
So it is okay for someone to come here and try to use people here to get off on... but it isn't okay to have varying responses to their attempt to use us?

OsideGirl -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 2:27:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsuta maybe i'm naive and a bit clueless but i really don't see how putting a link and saying, if you want to, you can make my chastity last longer, equate to asking people to "play/please his penis". I mean it's a chastity device, not a vibrating "fleshlight". It's a chastity device keeping control of his penis....which is his kink. He's trying to get a bunch of strangers to be his kink delivery system. I don't see how you could think it isn't about his penis.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 2:40:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsuta maybe i'm naive and a bit clueless but i really don't see how putting a link and saying, if you want to, you can make my chastity last longer, equate to asking people to "play/please his penis". I mean it's a chastity device, not a vibrating "fleshlight". But i dunno, maybe i'm not reading into this far enough. Or maybe some people here are reading into this too far. I said i was uncomfortable with the idea of participating, myself, because well this isn't my kink (not surprising i mean, i'm a sub) and anonymousness isn't my kink either, but there are people who are into making people chaste, and there are people who are into anonymous/online play/sex, and well, maybe not impossibly, people who are into both those things and i'm guessing the guy tried his luck and posted this, in case people like that would see it. i mean just coz it's not your kink doesn't mean that the intention of the OP are force his penis into people's face. You have the choice to participate or ignore. There's no need to flame the guy. Well it's just my opinion. When i see bullying that i feel is unnecessary, i don't like it and i'm puzzled by it. Maybe i'm too blind/naive and just havent hanged around this forum enough or i'd agree with you and say that you're all right to bash the guy, maybe he's just some douche who's wanking while reading the verbal humiliation but you don't really have any proof of that. Maybe he's really just some guy who asked people if anybody would feel like clicking a link to make him feel some kind of pseudo dominance on his life shrug. I guess i understand where some of you are coming from, now, with those replies. I didn't think of it that way. Bah anyway i don't think i'll argue this more now. well said, 100% agree to those who say it's about his penis, fine, who cares? not like there's a big cock pic in your face, it's just a freakin link, with no graphics. all the other indignation is in your head. all puns intended! [image]https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/7/7d/Rooster_portrait03_dec08.jpg/220px-Rooster_portrait03_dec08.jpg[/image]

justasubslut -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 2:40:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: risktaker9 You say you didn't give the OP what he wanted because you were uncomfortable, so you feel that others are supposed to take the same uncomfortable feeling and just be quiet? Have you ever entertained the idea that some learning could be done? Do you know how amazingly often guys pop in here to offer up their penises? So often that it becomes repetitive to the extreme. Even for those of us who like penises it might be nice to chat about other things than some individual's penis and what he likes to do with it. He didn't come for a chat or to begin a discussion on this discussion board...he came to satisfy his penis and ask strangers to jump in and get him off, and we're all just supposed to ignore that attitude of entitlement and be nice to the penis-obsessed gentleman? I figure it as he committed a faux pas of biblical proportions for assuming that an entire group of strangers cared about satisfying his sexual needs. We're not talking about a chat about innocuous things. There is a regular poster here that asks all kinds of personal questions about health, home maintenance, brands of shampoo, etc and is always treated kindly even when it's done constantly. When you come in leading with your kink and expecting people to care about getting you off it gets presumptuous and intrusive, if someone bites back so to speak I think that's fair. My Mom used to say if you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. I figure that's a good rule of thumb for many areas in life. However, when someone goes over the line of personal space and gets into yours and is attempting to use you for something he/she wants, that's fair game to let them know how you feel. I don't see anything mean about that. To use another common sentiment...he started it. Therefore he gets what he gets. Personal space on a public forum?

Lucifyre -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 2:57:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsuta Well it's just my opinion. When i see bullying that i feel is unnecessary, i don't like it and i'm puzzled by it. Maybe i'm too blind/naive and just havent hanged around this forum enough or i'd agree with you and say that you're all right to bash the guy, maybe he's just some douche who's wanking while reading the verbal humiliation but you don't really have any proof of that. Maybe he's really just some guy who asked people if anybody would feel like clicking a link to make him feel some kind of pseudo dominance on his life shrug. I guess i understand where some of you are coming from, now, with those replies. I didn't think of it that way. Bah anyway i don't think i'll argue this more now. Get used to it. The bullying seems to run rampant. Sadly, "your kink is ok, it's just not my kink" is not a phrase that tends to get used much but snarkiness is.

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 3:27:06 PM)
Girl goes into a bar and walks up to a man and sits next to him and says: My name is Mandy, I want to talk about my pussy. Boy goes into a bar and walks up to a woman and sits next to her and says: My name is Nick, I want to talk about my penis. You are going to get very different responses most of the time. Few men experience something like this. Women on the other hand hear it all the time, especially on a site like this. Again you are going to have very different responses simply because of how some men view women and treat them and their different outlooks. If a man put up with women treating them the way women are treated, some might like it, but in the amounts women are treated this way, they are most often going to resent a man wanting to talk about his penis or having anything to do with it. If the men are allowed to come begging for some attention in any way that deals with their penis, then women should be allowed to show a bit of disrespect and snark if they want to. Who knows... as many that come to be humiliated, some may come to snark and that is just as much a kink as begging for sexual favors. Either way I look at it... fair game. You don't come to a site with women and act like a horny penis focused person and expect to be treated well. If you do... well, as you can see, it doesn't work so well. It is what it is.

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