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BitaTruble -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 4:54:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic it's the interwebs, and u can't take it too seriously (/glibness) True, but not everyone lowers their standards simply because they are on the web. The OP invited comment and he got comment. Personally, I have thought about going and clicking on the link multiple times.. making it sort of a 'life's mission' to make sure this guy gets what he's looking for. I'm all philanthropic thata way. I mean, I could, in theory, add 12 days to his sentence for every single day I spend clicking. In a pretty short frame of time, I could get this guy locked up for life. He'd be left with either being buried in chastity or having to call a lock-smith after a few years. Could be fun. Something to think about in any event.. just to be helpful of course. Don't gots a mean streak in my whole durn body after all! [:D]

fluffypet67 -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 5:11:44 PM)
Why doesn't he just logon with a different ID and increase his time himself if it is a contest?

risktaker9 -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 5:37:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucifyre Get used to it. The bullying seems to run rampant. Sadly, "your kink is ok, it's just not my kink" is not a phrase that tends to get used much but snarkiness is. He's got a kink here to discuss and to be respectful of? Or he's outright asking for intimate interaction? In the title he appears to realize he's asking for a favor, which would imply that he's aware that he's asking others to play with his genitals. It's not my understanding that the participants in this forum are supposed to provide that service to others, although they are asked to be respectful of kink. For instance, if this thread were about male chastity devices, it would be a completely different animal and the responses would have been different as they have been in the past. Look up some older threads.

risktaker9 -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 5:50:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic well said, 100% agree to those who say it's about his penis, fine, who cares? not like there's a big cock pic in your face, it's just a freakin link, with no graphics. all the other indignation is in your head. all puns intended! Yup, it's about his penis and the title of his thread seems to say he knows it's all about him as he acknowledges he's asking for favors in how he worded the title. Last I checked, this is a discussion board, not CL. The other side is for the sexual hookup thing if you choose to use it for that. Why do I care? Because I find it insulting to be asked yet again to get some stranger off because he wants it. That's my opinion, I don't expect everyone to share it, but I can express something of importance to myself as long as I follow the rules of this site. It doesn't seem as I have violated them yet or maybe that's still coming. If I were to hazard a guess why, it's because I'm not dissing his 'kink', I'm dissing his request for others to perform it on him. If that is wrong for me to do I'll gladly stop.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 5:57:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shadowbright quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic all exquisitely well said, but it faltered a bit at the end. remember this thread is about a guy asking anon peeps to click a link. not to be sensationalized or mis-characterized as some guy being rude to my daughter, or anyone person in particular. it's the interwebs, and u can't take it too seriously (/glibness) The OP is asking strangers to play with his genitals. That is the sole reason that this thread exists. If that is not rude to you it might be rude to someone else, which was Lockit's point. Your opinion that to feel otherwise is sensational and not to be taken seriously once again is yours, people may have their own. also well said, but you're confusing "sensationalizing it" (which i think s/he did with the your daughter thing), with "being rude". well, they're both subjective things reasonable minds can differ on - i've never suggested otherwise. it's all good.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:04:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Well karmastic, I can see you value sensitivity to the issues of women... as most are that you claimed had a double standard. I guess you can't expect much from men who have so few standards. Thanks for the evaluation of my post... but until you impress me... its worth the ink its posted with. i don't know what u mean about the other men...i only try to speak for myself. but thanks (i guess) for the back handed compliment that i recognize men can't speak from a woman's pov any more than the other way around. it befuddles me when people try to transform a simple disagreement of what's rude into, or make it all about our plumbing. and i guess, thanks and you're welcome. i didnt mean to ruffle your security or feathers, nor would i suggest my post (or opinion) is worth more than others, or tell someone their posts isn't worth the virtual ink it's written on. that's just kinda childish, and shows me you're insecure and couldn't take constructive criticism. and that isn't a cue for un-constructive criticism.

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:05:42 PM)
Look buddy, asking how you would feel if someone treated your daughter like this, was trying to give you a bit of sensitivity training. I wasn't sensationalizing anything. I was trying to see if you had a decent human bone when it came to the treatment of women. When you decide to evaluate my post and put your own meaning to it.. keep it to yourself or expect that I will correct you. Got it darlin? [:D]

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:09:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Well karmastic, I can see you value sensitivity to the issues of women... as most are that you claimed had a double standard. I guess you can't expect much from men who have so few standards. Thanks for the evaluation of my post... but until you impress me... its worth the ink its posted with. i don't know what u mean about the other men...i only try to speak for myself. but thanks (i guess) for the back handed compliment that i recognize men can't speak from a woman's pov any more than the other way around. it befuddles me when people try to transform a simple disagreement of what's rude into, or make it all about our plumbing. and i guess, thanks and you're welcome. i didnt mean to ruffle your security or feathers, nor would i suggest my post (or opinion) is worth more than others, or tell someone their posts isn't worth the virtual ink it's written on. that's just kinda childish, and shows me you're insecure and couldn't take constructive criticism. and that isn't a cue for un-constructive criticism. LOL... You haven't said anything constructive. Basically we disagree on how the op was perceived and received. His opening post isn't his only post and that about sums up what might be missing, but since you need to go on the ego thing... I'll let you inflate.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:10:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic it's the interwebs, and u can't take it too seriously (/glibness) True, but not everyone lowers their standards simply because they are on the web. The OP invited comment and he got comment. Personally, I have thought about going and clicking on the link multiple times.. making it sort of a 'life's mission' to make sure this guy gets what he's looking for. I'm all philanthropic thata way. I mean, I could, in theory, add 12 days to his sentence for every single day I spend clicking. In a pretty short frame of time, I could get this guy locked up for life. He'd be left with either being buried in chastity or having to call a lock-smith after a few years. Could be fun. Something to think about in any event.. just to be helpful of course. Don't gots a mean streak in my whole durn body after all! [:D] bravo, then u should do it! i'm not sure what you disagreed with. u don't have to lower your standards, just ignore the post. the ones who answered to snark OP didn't lower their standards by clicking the link. you kink is okay with me, or how does that tolerance thing go? they lowered their standards by showing an incessant need to snark any1 that rubs them wrong. it's all good, since this board is about meeting needs and such. it's ironic that their snark fed OP's penis desires, as many have alluded to here. the reality is, every1 who's posting here does it cus they're meeting diff needs, enjoying it. i go back to the your kink is your thing is okay with me thingy.

shadowbright -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:10:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic also well said, but you're confusing "sensationalizing it" (which i think s/he did with the your daughter thing), with "being rude". well, they're both subjective things reasonable minds can differ on - i've never suggested otherwise. it's all good. I don't think Lockit sensationalized anything with the daughter comment, which is partially why I commented on it in my posting. I found her comparison in that to be a logical addition to the thread, if you did not that's fine, but please don't tell me I am confusing things when you don't actually know that. Yes, they are both subjective things, with that in mind it's rather strange that you'd assume to think that you can speak for others regarding personal opinion.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:14:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: risktaker9 quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic well said, 100% agree to those who say it's about his penis, fine, who cares? not like there's a big cock pic in your face, it's just a freakin link, with no graphics. all the other indignation is in your head. all puns intended! Yup, it's about his penis and the title of his thread seems to say he knows it's all about him as he acknowledges he's asking for favors in how he worded the title. Last I checked, this is a discussion board, not CL. The other side is for the sexual hookup thing if you choose to use it for that. Why do I care? Because I find it insulting to be asked yet again to get some stranger off because he wants it. That's my opinion, I don't expect everyone to share it, but I can express something of importance to myself as long as I follow the rules of this site. It doesn't seem as I have violated them yet or maybe that's still coming. If I were to hazard a guess why, it's because I'm not dissing his 'kink', I'm dissing his request for others to perform it on him. If that is wrong for me to do I'll gladly stop. you stated your opinion very well, and i would never even remotely suggest you shouldn't. that would really suck for all of us, since i'm sure we all enjoy discussing it.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:23:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Look buddy, asking how you would feel if someone treated your daughter like this, was trying to give you a bit of sensitivity training. I wasn't sensationalizing anything. I was trying to see if you had a decent human bone when it came to the treatment of women. When you decide to evaluate my post and put your own meaning to it.. keep it to yourself or expect that I will correct you. Got it darlin? [:D] it's sensationalism, pure and simple. that doesn't have anything to do with "putting my own meaning on it", since me saying you sensationalized it isn't related to a dispute over it's meaning. we're all adults here in an adult themed site, so fuck yes it's sensationalistic to even suggest that my daughter could be reading this. and dis-empowering for anyone's daughter to suggest if she's an adult, she cannot handle such a thread by ignoring it. and let's not forget offensive to tell me you're training me on male sensitivity, when nada about what i've posted has to do with my penis, your vagina, or anyone's plumbing. get fucking real here please!

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:27:04 PM)
[:D][:D][:D][:D]

MissImmortalPain -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:28:39 PM)
A masochist meets a sadist. The masochist says "Please hurt me!". The sadist says "No!"and walks away. ^ That is a very old joke but the reason behind why I didn't click the link. The members of this board were told to be mean. I am a sadist so I figure being mean would be better played by not giving you want you asked for. I would also like to suggest that if you truely wish to honor the domme you say you still care deeply about. If you are locking yoursef up in her name only. Then buy a good cage, and a good lock. Lock it on and flush the keys, or toss them into a river, or something along the same lines. If you are not doing it in her name, if this is just kink for you, post about it in your journal not on the boards. Because had I seen something like this in a journal, and I was bored, I would have been likely to click it and help you out....ermmm or in depending on how you look at it.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:30:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shadowbright quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic also well said, but you're confusing "sensationalizing it" (which i think s/he did with the your daughter thing), with "being rude". well, they're both subjective things reasonable minds can differ on - i've never suggested otherwise. it's all good. I don't think Lockit sensationalized anything with the daughter comment, which is partially why I commented on it in my posting. I found her comparison in that to be a logical addition to the thread, if you did not that's fine, but please don't tell me I am confusing things when you don't actually know that. Yes, they are both subjective things, with that in mind it's rather strange that you'd assume to think that you can speak for others regarding personal opinion. what part of the actual words i wrote (versus an emotionally charged perception of them) did i try and tell you what's in your mind? i offered my opinion that s/he sensationalized it. then you mischaracterized that as me taking a stand on rudeness (which i didnt even do). so i corrected you, saying you're confusing rudeness with sensationalism.

Karmastic -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:36:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit [:D][:D][:D][:D] lmfao! shizzam, so THERE! rotf! [8D]

LadyPact -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 6:52:40 PM)
Some threads are like herding cats. For those who don't understand the difference, there really is a divide in the concept between YKINMK and I am willing to be involved in your kink. For those who don't get it, let Me explain. Whatever it is that people are out there doing on a Friday night, I honestly don't care. It hasn't been brought into My world. I don't have to see it. There was no shoving it in My face. I'm not connected to it, or even aware of it in any way. Just because I'm a believer in YKINMK doesn't mean I want to be exposed to every kink out there. Unless I am willing to be a part of it, keep it out of My backyard. Gentlemen, allow Me to explain one thing more. We have entirely different perspectives about sexual pleasures. To Me, the idea of controlling somebody's dick just isn't that big of a deal. That doesn't even require an interest in BDSM. Why? Because you guys chase pussy and I reject offers of dick every day. Once you pass that boundary, and bring it into My world, I have the right to speak up against it. Just because YKINMK doesn't mean I can't accept what you are doing. It just means I don't want it brought into My world. If that happens to be on an internet forum, that's not My problem.

BitaTruble -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 7:14:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic i'm not sure what you disagreed with. Perhaps because there was nothing in my post which was disagreeable. You said that people shouldn't take the interwebs too seriously. Why not? Unless you have a different standard for behavior offline as you do online? quote: just ignore the post. Rather defeats the purpose of a forum, don't ya think? You are just as free not to post and to ignore the words as anyone else, you yet choose not to do so.. well, so do I. I didn't bash the guy. Not even close. You are inviting one of the few who took things in a good humor and suggesting they (me) ignore posts to which they (I) can contribute positive thoughts. You sure you want to go with that line of thinking? quote: the ones who answered to snark OP didn't lower their standards by clicking the link. How do you know? How do you know that even clicking that link 'would' lower their standards? Are you privy to the standards of all the posters here or just throwing stuff out to see what sticks? quote: you kink is okay with me, or how does that tolerance thing go? How do you know? Do you know what my kink is? Maybe it really wouldn't be okay with you. quote: they lowered their standards by showing an incessant need to snark any1 that rubs them wrong. it's all good, since this board is about meeting needs and such. it's ironic that their snark fed OP's penis desires, as many have alluded to here. Well, then I think you should do something about all those snarky people. What do you propose? Death by stoning? It is 4/20 after all. quote: the reality is, every1 who's posting here does it cus they're meeting diff needs, enjoying it. i go back to the your kink is your thing is okay with me thingy. Did you get something out of my post that would lead you to believe that YKIOK isn't also my thing? You are saying that because it's the 'interwebz' don't take things seriously. What if serious is my kink? Aren't you doing a bit of pot, kettle, black there? Who are you to determine for everyone else what sort of experience the internet is for any given individual? Are you different offline than online so for you it's not serious? Just a question. Do lower standards exist for the web or not? There's a question for ya. If they are, indeed, lower then wouldn't it behoove forumites who want quality to call out posts that fail to measure up to forum standards so that we get quality over quantity as often as possible. If they are 'not' inherently lower then you have to ask yourself.. "would it be acceptable for this guy to walk into a bar with this rather bizarre request." If I want to take things seriously because that's my thing, you don't allow for that. Why is my serious kink not okay? Why are you being so mean and trying to tell me to ignore or not to post? Who the hell are you? The internet police? You're mean. Go click the link.. it's perfect for ya.

orchid77 -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 7:16:30 PM)
Oh Bloody hell people...it is not the end of the world

Lockit -> RE: A strange favor from a newbie (4/20/2012 7:20:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orchid77 Oh Bloody hell people...it is not the end of the world Nobody said it was. No one is acting as if it is. We are debating/discussing/whatever a few topics on a public forum. Don't worry. When it is the end of the world, we'll all be in our basements playing one last time. You won't even have to worry about us making a big deal out of it on a forum. [:D]

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