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Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 8:00:01 AM

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Why do some submissives and slaves list themselves as being little,when they are actually a BBW?
It kind of makes it hard to find who your are searching for!!!

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 8:01:04 AM

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I think "little" refers to a scene not a shape

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 8:04:10 AM

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A 'little' is someone who is into age play and, you guessed it, they like to be the younger one.

Littles come in all shapes, sizes, ages and genders.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 8:04:21 AM

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BBW - physical
little - a regressed state of childhood

They have nothing to do with each other.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 8:43:47 AM

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Well there are little BBW's and then there are big BBW's. Its all a matter of perspective

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:16:20 AM

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BBW refers to physical shape

a "little" refers generally to an ageplayer

for example I am a BBW physically.. I am also a "little", my owner is also my Daddy

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:29:36 AM

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Maybe needs rephrasing.
When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!
Why do they do that???

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:32:36 AM

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Oh yay...........another fucking fat thread.

What's it been........one week? Two?

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:39:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BamaDominates

Maybe needs rephrasing.
When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!
Why do they do that???

Or perhaps...

When a dom or master says he's hung like a gorilla's forearm, and he's actually hung like a hamster, it makes it hard to find what you are searching for!

People lie. It's a fact of life.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:39:44 AM

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Search by weight?

Nothing hard about that.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:41:27 AM

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I don't know any BBW's, including myself, who are not upfront about this. I doubt anyone would say they were of slender build, when not. Why lie about something that would be detected upon first meeting? You have to be very insecure to do that, but again, I have met many men who lied about their height, age, status, etc. so I could be wrong.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:42:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: BamaDominates
When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,
Why do they do that???

Beats me. Why do some men claim to be Dominant?

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:53:05 AM

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BBW is a broad statement, it could mean different things to different women, I call myself a BBW, but I know another woman my size that just call herself chubby. BBW may have started out as a term for one size, but now cover several sizes, it's what you considered to be BBW.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 9:59:27 AM

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People are attracted to what they're attracted to, I get that. But what boggles me.....the men that seem to get the most hung up on this size issue are ones that really have nothing to offer to begin with. They're unemployed...or unattractive...or overweight themselves...or uneducated...or not really dominant so much as having some deep-seated grudge against women that they need to take out on someone and a naive sub will take it happily. That's not always true, of course, but you do see more of these complaints from men that don't have enough to offer to attract the type they're looking for.

And for the record....I make sure it's known that I'm a bigger girl. Not only is anything else misleading, but I don't want to see that look of disgust upon meeting (assuming anyone ever wanted to meet!) and deal with their polite withdrawal from contact. Maybe I'd have more interest shown if I concealed that, but it probably wouldn't go anywhere.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 10:06:31 AM

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Quit having such a concrete idea of what you are looking for that it stifles you. My concern wouldnt be "OMG hes not actually tall so i dont want him" as "holy hell he is a liar". That is a bigger deal imo.

I am initially attracted to tall very thin men but N is not either of those things. If it disgusts you horribly then ask to see them early on and if they don't, then move on.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 10:19:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BamaDominates

Maybe needs rephrasing.
When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!
Why do they do that???

They do it just to fuck with your brain, confuse the hell out of you so much that you run the risk of looking foolish asking a bunch of people about it. You've been punked!

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 10:28:39 AM

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quote:

Maybe needs rephrasing.
When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!
Why do they do that???

I'm upfront about there being more of me to love.

Of the 12 or so men I've met via this site, 11 added an inch or two to their height, including the men who were 6'3"!

This is rampant on okcupid as well: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/

More troubling is when I'm hours into a date with someone when he confesses he's married and lives with his wife and children

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 10:33:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BamaDominates

Maybe needs rephrasing.
When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!
Why do they do that???

The women I know who are large go to long lengths to make sure everyone knows what they look like, I've never known a female to say they are small and slender and are not. Which doesnt mean much since I've never looked for a woman before. If this is happening to you, I guess I'll say I'm stumped as to why.

As far as looking, I can only speak as to interacting with men, and have been lied to as far as age, marital status, height, weight, job, etc. It's the internet, if these women never intend on meeting up with you then maybe they feel like pretending they are thinner? Or, in the manner of the men I"ve met that have lied to me, maybe they are thinking you won't care once you meet them?

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 11:32:14 AM

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For me my name has nothing to do with age play an everything to do with height. I am just barely 5'0" tall so i am a little one. I have been called that before So i decided why not use it as my screen name? I am not trying to hide anything my weight is on my profile.

If you don't likw BBWs just don't date em.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 1:16:00 PM

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Everyone is entitled to their own physical preferences of body type, height, weight, coloring etc. when it comes to finding partners - for play, for relationships, etc. I will never appeal to someone who wants blonde/blue, but I'm also not going to criticize them for having that preference, and I'm also not going to spend a lot of time fretting that I'm not blonde/blue (or whatever it is that someone else seeks). It just is what it is. I search for those with whom I am a match AND for those who match what I seek.

I do think it is helpful to everyone when people are honest about their basic physical characteristics.

However, at the end of the day, in my experience, some people, of whatever gender, sexual orientation, role, etc., often embellish a little when it comes to describing themselves. Do what you can to filter this. You can make things more explicit in your profile about what you seek, you can ask specific questions when you correspond with someone, etc., to try to ascertain whatever things you feel matter to you. I understand it might make your search a little longer, but I'm not sure what else to suggest because some people will always embellish.

But at the end of the day I have to agree with the sentiment that if you don't like BBWs then just screen for them, and don't date them.

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