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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 7:22:40 PM   
peachgirl


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Status: offline 		I dunno...why is it when a man says he's 5'10" he's usually shorter than 5'7"?

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 7:35:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		When my father was dating women online, he told me that on his online profiles he was listing himself as 5 foot 8, I burst out laughing and looked at him and said you know you aren't that tall right. He insisted he was, I told him that he was the same height as me, and I am 5 foot 2. Then he still insisted he was 5 foot 8 and told me that's why he wore his hiking boots on his date, for the added height.

I am short and fat myself. I do not like the word BBW for my own reasons, but I have never hid that I'm fat. Why would I want to lie about it, and then end up communicating with a fat hater, rather than someone who was alright with it?

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 7:40:23 PM   
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you are sooooooo right


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People are attracted to what they're attracted to, I get that. But what boggles me.....the men that seem to get the most hung up on this size issue are ones that really have nothing to offer to begin with. They're unemployed...or unattractive...or overweight themselves...or uneducated...or not really dominant so much as having some deep-seated grudge against women that they need to take out on someone and a naive sub will take it happily. That's not always true, of course, but you do see more of these complaints from men that don't have enough to offer to attract the type they're looking for.

And for the record....I make sure it's known that I'm a bigger girl. Not only is anything else misleading, but I don't want to see that look of disgust upon meeting (assuming anyone ever wanted to meet!) and deal with their polite withdrawal from contact. Maybe I'd have more interest shown if I concealed that, but it probably wouldn't go anywhere.



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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 7:49:50 PM   
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On the internet add 2-10 yrs to age depending on vanity of poster, minus 3 inches form penis, 3 inches from breast , add 20 lbs , subtract 2 inches from height and understand fit means being able to get off a couch and walk to the bathroom....CAMs dont lie. too the original poster. you probably told someone a penis size at some point. Now go get a ruler and from the top measure and see how much you added


If i could magic 3" off my breasts I sooo would...


Hell yes, would make bra buying a lot easier...

Heck, my weight usually fluctuates 10 lbs depending on my menstrual cycle and how much water my body draws, it's all about perspective, when I buy designer gear, I'm M to L (because their size is a very small size 0), when I buy regular clothes I'm a 2 to 4 depending on cut and brand, for a guy who is surrounded by runway models all day long, I'm possibly obese, in daily life I'm just normal sized, if I should venture into Walmart or McDonalds, I'm tiny, yup, I could possibly lose 10 to 20 lbs and still not be underweight, for some guys I might be too big, for others too small, or too curvy, or too chest heavy - guess what, they can fuck right off, if that's all that concerns them - I don't really want to know them. A guy freaking out because the woman has a bit more or less padding - hope he does run into a woman who runs off at the first sign that he can't perform on command or keep it up for hours...

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/7/2012 11:44:17 PM   
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When a sub or slave says she is of a small, slender build, and she is actually a BBW...



I can't say I've EVER seen that?!!  What I have, seen, however is...




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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 6:36:27 AM   
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I dunno...why is it when a man says he's 5'10" he's usually shorter than 5'7"?


Let's not even go there....

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 6:40:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: peachgirl

I dunno...why is it when a man says he's 5'10" he's usually shorter than 5'7"?

Sooooooooo if I'm claiming 5'7, that means??????

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 6:40:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BamaDominates


When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!



Why do male Doms give a hair color when they're bald?


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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 6:50:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: BamaDominates


When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!



Why do male Doms give a hair color when they're bald?


Pubes and armpit?

ETA does back hair count?

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 7:03:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: BamaDominates


When a sub or slave says she is of a small,slender build,and she is actually a BBW,it makes it hard to find who you are searching for!!!



Why do male Doms give a hair color when they're bald?


Pubes and armpit?

ETA does back hair count?


Depends on how much back hair.


But seriously, the number of guys that lied about things before we even met was astounding.

~ I have brown hair - He had NO hair
~ I go to the gym 4 times a week - I think he hung out at the snack bar and watched the aerobic classes
~ I'm 40 - He was at least 50 with a bad face lift
~ I'm single - He was not only married, but was (unbeknownst to him) trying to date my girlfriend
~ I'm tall, dark and handsome - I was taller than him
~ I'm an IT guy - He was a janitor at a power plant
~ I'm an attentive partner - He was a fricken' stalker and his ex had a restraining order
~ I'm single - brought his current submissive to the first meeting and made her sit a booth alone at the other end of coffee shop.

The OP makes it sound like it's the territory of women, when I've seen far more men in the BDSM community do it.


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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 8:14:38 AM   
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*ponders if it really was a bad thing to tell the budding masochist who was rather heavy for her height that the first pain she would come to know under my care was the pain of hunger


Not if you're a registered dietician or nutritionist. Yes if you have no training. Which you obviously don't.

Because starving people causes more fat cells not less, and causes the metabolism to become more efficient instead of less. Exactly opposite of what's needed.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 10:17:08 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		How about the "dominant" guys who Cmail me for a chat, only to then confess their submissive side (never mind that I say friends only) and would I like to play with them, as their dom profile is only a "rouse" to keep the "time wasters and liars" away.... Oh the irony of it...

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 11:48:41 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Petite isn't a weight designation but a height one. It means you're short, under 5'4". You can buy clothes in plus sizes petite, average or tall.

Little can refer to ageplay or to height also.

Personally I prefer vertically challenged.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 2:33:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Tiny . . . little etc.

I like big butts and I cannot lie. I makes me want them to back that ass up because I think fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go 'round.

As some say, it's in their attitude because sexuality is 90% in your presentation. Some fat chicks are dead on sexy like these girls. But I have an alt theory. It may refer to the tightness of their pussy, not their physique. That fatter they are, the less room for their vaginal cavity right? The walls of their snatch are smooshed together making it tight and tiny. There's nothing like a nice phat ass, puffy mons and tight tiny little snatch. Phat bottom girls are awesome. Just thinking about being able to reach under her skirt and grab a handful of the big jigglies or the meaty mons gets me all riled up. Take any chick with some junk in her truck, bend her over, tie her up and you have a great experience just waiting to happen!



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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 2:37:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		The girl on the far left is HOT.  The middle ones seem more comical and the far right not my taste.

I do like your theory though.

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 3:10:47 PM   
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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 3:11:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		To me, exaggerated girly parts, as in bigger parts, just makes a girl more girly. I like girls all shapes and sizes really, but I truly appreciate the each physique stereotype for it's own qualities. I am have a big macho personality and a girly girl of any shape or size fits well as my counterpart. . . . and yes, that chick in the upper left is extremely hot!

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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 3:24:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Can you magic the 3" on to mine?

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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond


quote:

ORIGINAL: Dom4subssub4doms

On the internet add 2-10 yrs to age depending on vanity of poster, minus 3 inches form penis, 3 inches from breast , add 20 lbs , subtract 2 inches from height and understand fit means being able to get off a couch and walk to the bathroom....CAMs dont lie. too the original poster. you probably told someone a penis size at some point. Now go get a ruler and from the top measure and see how much you added


If i could magic 3" off my breasts I sooo would...


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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 7:55:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

Can you magic the 3" on to mine?

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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond


quote:

ORIGINAL: Dom4subssub4doms

On the internet add 2-10 yrs to age depending on vanity of poster, minus 3 inches form penis, 3 inches from breast , add 20 lbs , subtract 2 inches from height and understand fit means being able to get off a couch and walk to the bathroom....CAMs dont lie. too the original poster. you probably told someone a penis size at some point. Now go get a ruler and from the top measure and see how much you added


If i could magic 3" off my breasts I sooo would...

I'd donate if I could. I'm tired of the back ache.


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RE: Little vs. BBW - 5/8/2012 9:55:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: peachgirl

I dunno...why is it when a man says he's 5'10" he's usually shorter than 5'7"?



OKcupid, the vanilla dating site, did a study on this once. It found on average that people claim to be two inches taller than they are. Oddly, women are as likely to do this as men. People exaggerate their income by 20%. The more attractive the photo, the more likely it was to be out of date. A third of the hottest photos on the site were more than a year old.

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