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ORIGINAL: PrincessLily91

I up to this point have only played with my own sub in any sense of D/s play. However, I ama bout to open a clips4sale store and there will be ballbusting in it. With my sub, of course. I might also meet and play with other subs...but that brings me to two questions:

1. A lot of people are asking me to kick my sub harder and more viciously. Is there a technique or method to upping teh intensity but maintaining the safety of his genitals? I don't know that he actually cares or not, haha. But I worry anyways. Maybe that goes away after awhile, I don't know.

2. Many slaves say they want to do realtime, no limits. But I hear some of them like the fantasy, but can't do it when we meet. How do you gauge a sub's limits to keep the play going for both parties?

Thanks!

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Is there a technique or method to upping the intensity but maintaining the safety of his genitals?

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Use the strongest deep heat you can find on his balls and then tap him lightly with your fingers or give them a little flick, it will increase the intensity greatly.

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ORIGINAL: PrincessLily91

I up to this point have only played with my own sub in any sense of D/s play. However, I ama bout to open a clips4sale store and there will be ballbusting in it. With my sub, of course. I might also meet and play with other subs...but that brings me to two questions:

1. A lot of people are asking me to kick my sub harder and more viciously. Is there a technique or method to upping teh intensity but maintaining the safety of his genitals? I don't know that he actually cares or not, haha. But I worry anyways. Maybe that goes away after awhile, I don't know.

2. Many slaves say they want to do realtime, no limits. But I hear some of them like the fantasy, but can't do it when we meet. How do you gauge a sub's limits to keep the play going for both parties?

Thanks!

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ORIGINAL: CougarRick

Are most dommes into this? How many subs actually agree to this?

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ORIGINAL: PrincessLily91

I up to this point have only played with my own sub in any sense of D/s play. However, I ama bout to open a clips4sale store and there will be ballbusting in it. With my sub, of course. I might also meet and play with other subs...but that brings me to two questions:

1. A lot of people are asking me to kick my sub harder and more viciously. Is there a technique or method to upping teh intensity but maintaining the safety of his genitals? I don't know that he actually cares or not, haha. But I worry anyways. Maybe that goes away after awhile, I don't know.

2. Many slaves say they want to do realtime, no limits. But I hear some of them like the fantasy, but can't do it when we meet. How do you gauge a sub's limits to keep the play going for both parties?

Thanks!

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

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Is there a technique or method to upping the intensity but maintaining the safety of his genitals?

Yes, there is. Electro. All the lulz w/none of the damage. Doesn't look as impressive on camera as a good roundhouse kick, but will reduce grown men to crocodile tears with the twist of a dial or the push of a button. You haven't heard a man beg and plead 'til you've made him ride the lightening.

Smartstim.com for more information about electro. There's way too much to go into here, but I can try to answer specific questions. You're welcome to pm me on the other side. Good luck!

Yer killin me tonight.

Between talk of deep heat by Lady Constanze...and THAT SENTENCE by you, I've got a roaring buzz.

I cannot play tonight. My boy is snoozing on the couch after a long hard day of helping a friend's family move. Yep, stairs were involved and the U-Haul was, I believe, a 26 footer. Filled to overflowing. Am dying to scene now, aargh. Nope, I don't have any icy hot stuff, and no lovely e-stim toys yet.

*whimpers softly*