RE: ballbusting safely?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: ballbusting safely?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: ballbusting safely?

Page: << < prev 1 2 3 [4]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: ballbusting safely? - 7/11/2012 12:05:08 PM

TNDommeK

Posts: 7153
Joined: 3/13/2010
Status: offline

It's one of My favorite things to do to a sub.

But MIP is right, if you are wanting your clips to be a bit better, sound effects and a bit of acting might work. But then Hibby is right as well, a real sub will be able to spot that out. I would say, do both. Use effects and practice to get better.

_____________________________

Goddess of Duck Lips and Luxurious Hair
The working Fin Domme
Professional con artist, swindler, trixster, extortionist

Our snark-nado needs more cowbell

(in reply to Surrender777)

Profile

Post #: 61

RE: ballbusting safely? - 7/11/2012 6:58:11 PM

LookieNoNookie

Posts: 12216
Joined: 8/9/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessLily91

I up to this point have only played with my own sub in any sense of D/s play. However, I ama bout to open a clips4sale store and there will be ballbusting in it. With my sub, of course (of course). I might also meet and play with other subs...but that brings me to two questions:

1. A lot of people are asking me to kick my sub harder and more viciously. Is there a technique or method to upping teh intensity but maintaining the safety of his genitals? No. I don't know that he actually cares or not, haha (his future children will) But I worry anyways. Maybe that goes away after awhile, I don't know.

2. Many slaves say they want to do realtime, no limits. But I hear some of them like the fantasy, but can't do it when we meet. How do you gauge a sub's limits to keep the play going for both parties?

Thanks!

(in reply to PrincessLily91)

Profile

Post #: 62

RE: ballbusting safely? - 7/13/2012 12:36:36 PM

YupImThatOld

Posts: 3
Joined: 4/14/2012
Status: offline

A big part of whether any ball busting will cause damage is not knowable to either party. Explanation: I recently discovered I have varicoceles (left nut). From my research, 10-15% of guys are predisposed just due to the way their nuts are built. Google it....
I have been doing ball stretching for years, with no real noticable owies. Yeah they ached a little after extended stretching or heavier weights, but it always went away. Same with getting them whipped. Hurt for a while, then fine.

Well, I guess all the years of "moderate abuse" have caught up with me - I'm at the point I really can't even tolerate tight underwear. So the lesson is: even if the ball busting doesn't seem to do any permanent damage, there is a chance that in fact it IS. Play it safe.... I

(in reply to MisstressAureus)

Profile

Post #: 63