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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:30:38 PM   
Endivius


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and a blowjob surely? no-one wants a steak without a blowjob do they?




Hell's yah. She's gotta have her protein too!

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:31:04 PM   
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As far as submissive men go they are not real men at all and if I give them my time they should be grateful.


If you and I were to meet, you'd be grateful to me that I hadn't eaten you alive within ten minutes. And even more grateful that I'd offered you my submission, in the unlikely event that that should happen. You wouldn't have a chance, girlie.


She's in your neck of the woods...

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:32:06 PM   
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See, I could do that, but then he's got to spend more time in the kitchen prior to the strap on scene, which means I'm missing time beating his ass.

The sandwich food is always there.




I'm the steak and potatoes kinda guy. I can watch sportscenter while I wait.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:33:39 PM   
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and a blowjob surely? no-one wants a steak without a blowjob do they?

Trust Me.  If the strap on comes out, I'm getting a blow job.  Some rules are so pure they don't need to be written.




Amen to that. Sunny Quote of the Day IMO.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:34:44 PM   
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It has gotta be getting real close to steak and blowjob day anyhow, innit?


Alas, that was March 14.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:35:17 PM   
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She's in your neck of the woods...



Nup. She's not even in my world.


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:37:20 PM   
Endivius


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It has gotta be getting real close to steak and blowjob day anyhow, innit?


Alas, that was March 14.



Every day is steak and blowjob day here. Maybe you need a different calendar?

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:38:00 PM   
Deliena


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It has gotta be getting real close to steak and blowjob day anyhow, innit?


Alas, that was March 14.


really? I thought it was every day? ;) if the Queen can have two birthdays then.....

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:44:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Endivius


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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It has gotta be getting real close to steak and blowjob day anyhow, innit?


Alas, that was March 14.



Every day is steak and blowjob day here. Maybe you need a different calendar?


Yeah, I think she is some wierd ass religion, cult of Kali or something.


everyday dont gotta be steak day, but by god, you want me to go out into the world and fight the dragons.....

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 2:51:20 PM   
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Alas, that was March 14.

Somebody owes Me a belated present.


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:02:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		You're young OP and seem to have a very idealized view of relationships. People strive to do what they can, as you get older you find out that you aren't perfect and need to grant a pass now and then to the people you care about just as they give one to you on the times that you falter. You seem to have a very entitled and black and white view of relationships.

I honestly can't see someone being able to be as stellar as you seem to expect, but you'll find that out. Perfection isn't humanly possible, and every person comes with their own set of individual quirks, baggage, and view of the world- you can never really get things to line up 100% between two people where they both view things exactly the same and carry things out perfectly for each other. That's where compromise, grace, and respect come into play.

You seem convinced you are a special little snowflake, I sincerely hope you find the perfect take-out menu human who will take on the daunting task of being flawless according to your standards.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:23:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		The Lack of Blowjobs and Oral service would be a complete deal breaker for me. I'm a heartless bastard after all. LOL

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:25:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just for the record, I only agreed with her point of view as far as the "some aren't looking for BDSM". The rest of her statement...well she gets what she deserves.



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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:25:20 PM   
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Well cripes I'm a domly dom and I need all that stuff too. Don't lots of folks want that from a relationship?



You've hit the nail on the head LadyHib.... are we getting set up for some kind of fucked up state-the-obvious-athon?


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:29:18 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Big hug lilkat...

And yes, that's a very sensible list you've put together.

I would say though, that the things you've listed are the things that any partner in a relationship is likely to need from the other.

That said, it's jolly good you've had a think about it and are clear on what you expect (and have a right to expect I might add) from a Dom.

I trust you would expect to give the same in return too - So it seems like you'll do ok.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:30:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		After reading this thread and the OP's profile. I'm seriously considering adding Blow Jobs on my list of 7 things I need from a submissive.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:33:30 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: Gothinisity
As far as submissive men go they are not real men at all and if I give them my time they should be grateful.


If you and I were to meet, you'd be grateful to me that I hadn't eaten you alive within ten minutes. And even more grateful that I'd offered you my submission, in the unlikely event that that should happen. You wouldn't have a chance, girlie.


I love it when you're all fierce and stuff! Makes me right swoony.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:34:17 PM   
Gothinisity


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Status: offline 		I will not. Everyone is allowed their own opinion, my point was more aimed at the fact that I won't date a submissive male because I just can't see them in that way. More over confirming what I was saying about the site being used as a dating site.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:43:58 PM   
crazyml


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Everyone is allowed their own opinion


You are absolutely right. And you are totally free to express your opinion that submissive men aren't real men. Just as others ought, as I'm sure you'd agree, to be free to express the opinion that only a total jackass would make a statement like that.




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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 3:45:51 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: crazyml


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Everyone is allowed their own opinion


You are absolutely right. And you are totally free to express your opinion that submissive men aren't real men. Just as others ought, as I'm sure you'd agree, to be free to express the opinion that only a total jackass would make a statement like that.





You said that more gracefully than I, crazy. Which is why I ignored the silly bint in the first place.

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