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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 7:05:41 PM   
Lucifyre


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Endivius

I don't understand why buttsecks isnt on the list. I mean that's gotta be number 1 right? And shouldn't ironing be numba 2? Clearly this list is missing some things. And where is my daily massage? That's not on the list either. Something's fishy here.

Yes, I would have to agree.  I posted just two days ago that the vital thing after a strap on session is get your ass out of bed and go make her a sandwich.  Can't we at least all agree on that?




if i bringz u a sammich to bed will u give meh buttsecks?

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 7:11:38 PM   
Lucifyre


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You seem convinced you are a special little snowflake, I sincerely hope you find the perfect take-out menu human who will take on the daunting task of being flawless according to your standards.


But she IZ a speshul snowflake dontchaknow? Her pussy spits out gold coins and rains down sunshine whenever she whips the little fucker out! Men are blinded by her beauty! Women are in awe of her aura! Children stop and stare and drop thier ice cream on the sidewalk!!!

Besides, she only charges 350 bucks an hour...whatta deal!

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 7:21:09 PM   
Lucifyre


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Status: offline 		oh, and as far as the OP's post goes....that entire post was hijacked off K&P on FL.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 7:22:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Alrighty then !! Yet another first time poster telling us how it should be.

I thank you for that input, and welcome you to the discussion side of CM. Although I admit I found your first post hugely condescending and think your "7 things" read like a relationship primer for pre-adolescents with some BDSM crap tossed in there.

But you know, whatever floats your boat.


Now LISTEN you!

This chicky has been on CM for all of 14 days....AND she's 23!

WTF do YOU know?

Hmmmmm?

She could be the second cumming you know!

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 7:25:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre
if i bringz u a sammich to bed will u give meh buttsecks?

You did read the part about the unwritten rule, right?

If not, you'd better go look and find out just exactly what you'll be having for the appetizer.


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 7:40:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
This chicky has been on CM for all of 14 days....AND she's 23!

WTF do YOU know?

Hmmmmm?

She could be the second cumming you know!

FR-

i agree with the general sentiment, this applies to vanilla just the same.

LookieNoNookie got me thinking...

Now, I have a problem with you young lady...

i was going to compliment you on your fabulous writing skills, especially at such a young age. but i see that you plagiarized this from someone else. it's fine to quote someone else, but when you don't attribute it to them, and you give the impression that you wrote it (your silence and context did that), then it's called Plagiarism.

now, if you're that person (who wrote it), it's time to speak up and set me straight.


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 7:53:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		FR~ Peon, I died laughing when you said "fartess". Still laughing!! But alas, your opinion doesn't matter unless you are paying 350 an hour. Wait, I'm a fin Domme and I'm talking to you..am I doing it wrong? Let the young girl tell us how to do it correctly. After all, I haven't been doing this since I was 20 or anything.

Seriously, sweetie, you have a chance to redeem yourself. Aside from all the snark, while it may be true, there is a hidden message here. Take advice from other pros or fins that don't sound like you do on their profile, or say asinine (sp?) things like you did. Maybe it's not too late.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 8:35:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Karmastic
it's fine to quote someone else, but when you don't attribute it to them, and you give the impression that you wrote it (your silence and context did that), then it's called Plagiarism.

now, if you're that person (who wrote it), it's time to speak up and set me straight.

^^^ This


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 9:04:33 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Well, for being 23 yo, you got a good start. I think you'll find that list growing in time.

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 10:39:42 PM   
Lucifyre


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre
if i bringz u a sammich to bed will u give meh buttsecks?

You did read the part about the unwritten rule, right?

If not, you'd better go look and find out just exactly what you'll be having for the appetizer.



and

quote:

Trust Me. If the strap on comes out, I'm getting a blow job. Some rules are so pure they don't need to be written


uh huh! *nod nod*

You also mentioned something about ass beatings...

What's the downside?

< Message edited by Lucifyre -- 6/5/2012 10:40:33 PM >

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 10:47:36 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/5/2012 11:11:48 PM   
Lucifyre


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I love you.



I only have one strong request though...

I'll do that thing you want me to wth the strap on...BUT....only if after you take it off I can do it again with what's behind it

<blatant flirt> ;)

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 2:21:38 AM   
crazyml


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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Sub Frenzy sort of knaws on my nerves a little.




Oh I hear ya!

My objection was to what I perceived as a rather arrogant (and silly) generalisation... Now when it comes to specifics... We could swap "nutjob" stories over a beer or two I suspect ;-)

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 3:30:49 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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I came back to this thread after yesterday, and wow, it has gone all over the place and back again.

First, yes, she did say it was what she needed (my bad), but since she plagiarized the whole thing, that minor error pales in comparison. (Yes Karm, plagiarism being yet another one of my "things.")

As for the findomme hating male subs, well if you had to spend your "work" time being a fetish delivery device, perhaps you'd have contempt for your clients, as well. No, I'm not saying I agree with her attitude, just that I can understand where it comes from.

I do agree that many male "subs" aren't all that subly once they get their rocks off, but then there are many who serve with a kind of grace and style that the Goth person will never know.

And, I've got my eye on you, Lookie, don't *make* me take out my ruler !!



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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 3:54:13 AM   
amaidiamond


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Status: offline 		To be fair at least the FinDomme hating male subs is honest about what sort of person she is / attitude she has, that and pictures on the profile mean I know who to avoid if we are at the same event.

Sometimes it's best to know you wont mesh with a person before you try to chat to them at a munch

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 4:19:46 AM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

FR~ Peon, I died laughing when you said "fartess". Still laughing!! But alas, your opinion doesn't matter unless you are paying 350 an hour. Wait, I'm a fin Domme and I'm talking to you..am I doing it wrong? Let the young girl tell us how to do it correctly. After all, I haven't been doing this since I was 20 or anything.

Seriously, sweetie, you have a chance to redeem yourself. Aside from all the snark, while it may be true, there is a hidden message here. Take advice from other pros or fins that don't sound like you do on their profile, or say asinine (sp?) things like you did. Maybe it's not too late.


To be clear, I was talking about Gothinsity rather than the OP.

The 'goths' that I've come across have always been a bit strange, to me. They've looked ever so alternative, but have been surprisingly square and straight underneath. Odd.


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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 4:54:15 AM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Using FR

I came back to this thread after yesterday, and wow, it has gone all over the place and back again.

First, yes, she did say it was what she needed (my bad), but since she plagiarized the whole thing, that minor error pales in comparison. (Yes Karm, plagiarism being yet another one of my "things.")

As for the findomme hating male subs, well if you had to spend your "work" time being a fetish delivery device, perhaps you'd have contempt for your clients, as well. No, I'm not saying I agree with her attitude, just that I can understand where it comes from.

I do agree that many male "subs" aren't all that subly once they get their rocks off, but then there are many who serve with a kind of grace and style that the Goth person will never know.

And, I've got my eye on you, Lookie, don't *make* me take out my ruler !!




:)

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 5:18:42 AM   
Deliena


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Status: offline 		Sorry how did we get to Goths being the bad guys? I went to sleep and missed something..... *pouts* some of us are alright, some of us are posing twats, much like the rest of the world imo ;)

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 6:30:31 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		I was tempted to say that you're exceptional Deliena, but the truth is that in addition to the fact that you're exceptional, I've met some really decent Goths in my time.

If you can just get them to stop listening to The Cure for five mins....

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RE: 7 things a submissive needs from a dominant - 6/6/2012 7:09:55 AM   
Lucifyre


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ORIGINAL: crazyml

I was tempted to say that you're exceptional Deliena, but the truth is that in addition to the fact that you're exceptional, I've met some really decent Goths in my time.

If you can just get them to stop listening to The Cure for five mins....



WTF? The Cure is Gothy music now? Sheesh when I was in high school...wait, there was no "goth" when I was in high school.
Oh fuck it nevermind I already know I'm old SHOOSH!

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