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RE: Hard limits? - 12/16/2006 8:03:38 AM   
acctonthelook


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Status: offline 		Kyra and Alandra are very lucky to have found a Master like KnightofMists. They are a well emotionally and physically developed, trusting trio. I hope to find one day too, such a positive, emotionally balanced D/s relationship as they have found. Well for me, without the trio part.  LoL  I would get to jealous!  LoL  I'm NOT that developed to NOT feel insecure.  LoL

I have found all of their posts wonderful, insightful, honest, educational, caring, strong in feeling (at times) but still I love and envy what they have found together!  More should aspire to what they have truly developed!

Thanks Knight, Kyra and Alandra, over the years you have helped me immensely so many times!

As for the OP!  I also have hard limits, but mostly I'm finding that many Masters don't really listen...which develops an instant lack of trust when they brush it off with "we'll see", almost as if I have no clue what my hard limits are.  I respect a Master/ Dom when they say ok, ok for now, well let's take one step at a time, etc. upfront!! 

In a 24/7 D/s relationship (which is what I seek) being understood when " I " ask, to have a hard limit tested" because the trust has developed and he has earned it within me.  I plainly feel "safe" for my Master to test it, but just getting to know a Master/ Dom is not when I want to hear "we'll see".  Trust takes time, testing comes in time... as Kyra has expressed when Knight feels she may be ready.  They all communicate so well that I'm sure he would discuss it out of respect for his slaves but I'm sure not always is something up for discussion.  I don't know because it's their relationship.  Just what I see from on the boards, they all have high regard and respect clearly for eachother!  We should all be so lucky!

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RE: Hard limits? - 12/16/2006 8:06:00 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		i have received numerous emails providing negative feedback on the list of my hard limits...can't please everyone...

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RE: Hard limits? - 12/16/2006 8:06:13 AM   
acctonthelook


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Status: offline 		I feel the same way!  Well put!

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RE: Hard limits? - 12/16/2006 10:45:08 AM   
MzMia


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ORIGINAL: SmokeyM

Hard limit is something that is totally off limits. Soft limits are something that can be talked about and tested. Of course you should always revamp your limits every six months to a years time. Over time your tastes may change and things taken off or added to your hard / soft limits.
~ Smokey


I agree with this post, hard limits are activities that you REFUSE to participate in.
That is why I always say  IF "forced bi" is not a hard limit THAN it can't be forced.

Hard limits to me are also activities that go against your moral codes and your own personal belief system.

< Message edited by MzMia -- 12/16/2006 10:47:49 AM >

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RE: Hard limits? - 12/16/2006 11:11:32 AM   
whisperedsighs


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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

It's a measure of your hotness on a date ... how long you can keep that lump in your date's pants, while he watches you eat a something smothered in ranch dressing.


Falls out of chair laughing at that image!  I like this definition!

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