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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 6/30/2012 12:45:39 PM

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Simply the word "slut" on it's own, to me, means that one either enjoys lots of sex or sex with lots of people.
Of course, in context it means plenty of other things. I thouroughly enjoy being called a slut when we're in the bedroom, along with other names.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 6/30/2012 7:38:10 PM

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I think a lot of people judging it are missing out on the irony.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 6/30/2012 7:43:37 PM

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I admit when I was younger, yup I was a slut. I would fuck as many men as I wanted, slept around, got a reputation, etc....so yeah, I was a slut by the very definition of it. Was I proud of it? Not at all. But at that time I didn't care because most of the time I was drunk and/or hurting on the inside.

These days though I can say I'm definitely not a slut even if I'm on a bdsm site for the simple fact that for me M/s is a lot more than just sex. Sex is just part of our normal, monogamous relationship.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 6/30/2012 7:46:59 PM

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littlewonder I agree. I don't dig the term at all when directed at me but it's ok if some women want to use it I don't judge it but I don't ever want to use it even in a sexual way towards myself it's demeaning in the place that I am now monogamous and in a committed relationship.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 6/30/2012 7:52:03 PM

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A high sex drive, a craving for sex in what ever forn it comes. And they would would be the "reciever/bottom/submissive.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 6/30/2012 8:05:10 PM

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That's not to say Master doesn't call me "slut". He likes the word for me because he knows I will do anything for him no matter how degrading or humiliating...but it's for him and him alone.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/2/2012 11:19:43 AM

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A woman who has totally ditched society's 'expectations' about what a good girl should do and has discovered the pleasure that her body can cause and feel is on her way.
When she decided to completely disassociate herself from what 'other people' think and go her own way. Then, she can become a slut.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/2/2012 11:33:35 AM

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Slut or slattern is a term applied to an individual who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. The term is generally pejorative and most often applied to women as an insult or offensive term of disparagement, meaning "dirty or slovenly."[2] However some women have demonstrated saying they're proud of being "sluts", and have given it a positive connotation.[3][4]

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/2/2012 7:45:44 PM

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I'm reminded of a joke from way back...

The cry of the wild slut, "Cock-A-Doodle Doo, Any Cock'll do"

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/6/2012 1:57:13 AM

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To me it means they are using a term which is overused and has lost its original meaning, and the fact that this question has come up means that those who use the term might do well to define his or her term better.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/8/2012 6:34:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

we all know the basic definition of slut - likes to have a lot of sex with many partners.

The funny thing is, in my plays, I've been called slut so much that after reading this, jolts me lol.
I mean, I totally forgot the actual meaning of the word. My x-master used it like a compliment. Also I take it to mean a woman who LOVES ALOT of sex, but not necessarily ALOT of different dicks.

But yea..., I guess it's suppose to mean a woman who loves alot of dick.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/8/2012 6:40:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

That's not to say Master doesn't call me "slut". He likes the word for me because he knows I will do anything for him no matter how degrading or humiliating...but it's for him and him alone.

That's cuz there's a world of difference between A slut and MY slut :-p

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/8/2012 9:14:41 PM

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It means I ain't going in there without wearing 3 condoms :-)

I'm not going to read every page of this discussion. Not sure I'd have the patience....But that was damn funny. I nearly fell off my chair.

As far as to answering the OP's question goes.....

As a sub, when I see Dommes that post words calling subs "sluts", "whores", "piggies", ect, as a personal challenge if they are regaurding them to hopeful submissives.

I then look past those words, and (for a few minutes) look into if I would have the chance to corretly serve the Domme. If the answer is yes, then I start conversation.....

....all the while knowing, I do think a little higher of myself than those "terms of endearment". Therefore, I put my energies to please them into proving I am better than being a "slut".

Editted....Meant to quote Kana, not OsideGirl.

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RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to ... - 7/8/2012 9:37:07 PM

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Generally enjoying sex, and sex positive. Or, they're banking off the negative connotations e.g. being a dirty little slut.

Words for enjoying sex, having lots of it, having multiple partners... There are supposedly about 220 for women; 1 of which is positive(Sex kitten). In my crowd, people seem to be trying to add slut to that short list of positive descriptors lately.

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