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Firebirdseeking -> RE: Very new to this - horrible first time experience... (7/10/2012 6:33:52 PM)
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OP: you need to put that little girl AWAY when she is out for a coffee date with an adult man. You need to act and think like an adult woman, not like a 10 year old girl who seeks approval. I do not mean this to sound condescending, I was once similar to you. I had to learn to put that part of me somewhere else when I was chatting on line with a man, or on the phone, or out for a coffee date; otherwise, you are way too vulnerable and you are not making good, adult decisions. You told this guy too much, and the little girl in you had expectations that he would be there for you, and that your relating would continue. He was out on a coffee date, straying a bit from a relationship that was about to become exclusive. You had different expectations. Just because you open your self to someone, dont expect he will love and cherish you, or even want to see you again. Like I said, put that little girl in a safe place and send your adult woman self out on the date.
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