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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/15/2012 7:17:32 PM   
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I expressed to my wife that I would give this a try because I know that it is something that she wants and will make her happy. It was basically my gift to her for our anniversary. I told her that I would make the sacrifice for her and give this a try it to make her happy. She was elated and excited about the whole thing, and expressed to me how making this sacrifice for her is something really meant a lot!


Shazam. That's what it's all about now. Kudos to you n yours.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/16/2012 5:30:52 PM   
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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/16/2012 5:39:12 PM   
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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/16/2012 5:42:51 PM   
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Yeah, there is definitely that extra oomph when I do have an orgasm that's for sure, but it sure isn't easy getting there. lol I haven't really been able to make it more than a few days so far without one, but I know she wants me to go a little longer. It's going to be tough! When I don't get to have an orgasm all I do is think about it all day and walk around with a hard-on!! Pretty distracting!! Oh well, I guess we will see how it goes.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/25/2012 2:31:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		So, the other night we were playing around. We were in the middle of one of our "sessions" as I have begun to call them and I experienced something strange. She was teasing me by stroking me to the edge of orgasm and then stopping, but I was so sensitive from not cumming and being teased that I came. Well, I sort of came because some cum oozed out, but I didn't experience an orgasm like I normally do. It was a strange kind of feeling all together that I haven't really experienced before. At first my wife was kind of dissapointed in me because she thought I had an orgasm, but I explained to her that I didn't really think I had an orgasm and explained what I actually felt, so we did some research online. Turns out that I was right, I didn't really have an orgasm, but more of like a draining effect without an orgasm. My wife was super intrigued by this concept, so she naturally wants to try it again. While doing the research a lot of other information came up. Information about "milking," which from what I understand, is kind of like what I experienced with the draining effect without an orgasm. Some of the things didn't sound bad, but others didn't sound like much fun! Anyway, tonight we are going to try and replicate the other night, so we will see.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/25/2012 2:34:39 PM   
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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/25/2012 5:31:12 PM   
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or do I put my foot down


If you do put your foot down, wear boots and put it it on her throat while she is squirming on the floor and telling her, "no" she can't cum.

Just a suggestion.



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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/29/2012 1:56:57 PM   
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So, my wife was able to replicate the events of the other night! Man, it was hard (No pun intended)!! It was hard for me to endure the constant stroking and stopping, and to tell you the truth, I didn't think i was going to be able to make it. I wanted to just grab myself and finish myself off, but my wife kind of talked me through it. She told me how hot it was making her and how wet she was getting, which was kind of erotic in a way, so I held on and let her do her thing. Finally, after a while of her stroking and stopping, some cum oozed out. It didn't shoot out like normal, but instead oozed and trickled out. It was definitely a feeling that I haven't experienced before and afterwards I still felt horny like I didn't have an orgasm, but i wasn't as sensitive as before. Difficult to explain.

The whole thing was a surreal kind of feeling to tell you the truth. The part of her stroking me until I was basically squirming around and pleading for her to let me cum and her basically trying to sooth me and talk me through it was an experience like I never felt before. I felt a sort of vulnerability that I have never felt before!

Anybody else experience something like this??

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 8/29/2012 3:26:39 PM   
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The whole thing was a surreal kind of feeling to tell you the truth. The part of her stroking me until I was basically squirming around and pleading for her to let me cum and her basically trying to sooth me and talk me through it was an experience like I never felt before. I felt a sort of vulnerability that I have never felt before!

Anybody else experience something like this??


Not yet, but it sounds hot and I hope I get to try it soon! What you described is exactly the reason I'd like to play around with male chastity. Kudos to you for being willing to give it a go.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/23/2012 1:41:36 PM   
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Is that a fantasy that you plan on exploring with your partner? Are you married?


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ORIGINAL: Davidburke379

The whole thing was a surreal kind of feeling to tell you the truth. The part of her stroking me until I was basically squirming around and pleading for her to let me cum and her basically trying to sooth me and talk me through it was an experience like I never felt before. I felt a sort of vulnerability that I have never felt before!

Anybody else experience something like this??


Not yet, but it sounds hot and I hope I get to try it soon! What you described is exactly the reason I'd like to play around with male chastity. Kudos to you for being willing to give it a go.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/24/2012 8:01:51 AM   
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Yeah, I owed it to my wife to at least give it a try.

Is that a fantasy that you plan on exploring with your partner? Are you married?



I am single but it is a fantasy that I plan on exploring, yes.

So now that it's been a month or so since you started, how are you feeling about the chastity?

Spy


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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/25/2012 2:14:24 PM   
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Yeah, I owed it to my wife to at least give it a try.

Is that a fantasy that you plan on exploring with your partner? Are you married?



I am single but it is a fantasy that I plan on exploring, yes.

So now that it's been a month or so since you started, how are you feeling about the chastity?

Spy



Well, I am not currently in chastity. When I agreed to give this whole thing a try one of the things that I was really skeptical/worried about was being in chastity, so my wife said that as long as I could control myself and she would have control on when I get to have an orgasm, I wouldn't have to do the chastity thing. However, controlling myself has become rather difficult, especially since my wife has gotten very, very good at the whole teasing thing. it is definitely harder than i anticipated. My wife has been encouraging me to go into chastity, and she is very much for it, so it might just be a matter of time before I am in chastity. We will see. I am still rather nervous/anxious about being locked up, but I promised my wife I would follow through with all of this and if the chastity will help keep me honest in that sense, then I am going to have to give it a try.

Would you want your partner in chastity or would you trust him in a situation like mine?


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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/25/2012 2:27:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like the "if you cum you've got to eat it" rule, I think it's really hot and helps add a deterrent to the male against wanting to cum. Maybe see how it works for the two of you?

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/25/2012 3:11:17 PM   
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I like the "if you cum you've got to eat it" rule, I think it's really hot and helps add a deterrent to the male against wanting to cum. Maybe see how it works for the two of you?


Yeah, that would definitely be a deterrent for me alright!! That would definitely work for me while in her presence, but I was referring more to when she isn't around and the temptation is very high.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/25/2012 3:56:27 PM   
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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/26/2012 8:54:31 AM   
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Ah sorry Only suggestion I have for that is a chastity belt if you can't help yourself...


I take it you follow your own advice and make your partner eat his own cum if he cums without permission? is that effective?

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/26/2012 10:46:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		fairly... there's also a fair bit of whinging about it, but hey, if girls are expected to swallow, there's no reason boys can't do the same. It's less gross even since it's your own and not some stranger's right?

In all honesty, I usually let them off after one or two good solid licks to save myself having to sit with them for hours like a parent forcing a kid to finish his peas. Is it effective at stopping them from cumming? Not always. It is a biological imperative after all; but show them that you mean it and next time they will believe you and hold off that much harder.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/26/2012 4:39:36 PM   
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fairly... there's also a fair bit of whinging about it, but hey, if girls are expected to swallow, there's no reason boys can't do the same. It's less gross even since it's your own and not some stranger's right?

In all honesty, I usually let them off after one or two good solid licks to save myself having to sit with them for hours like a parent forcing a kid to finish his peas. Is it effective at stopping them from cumming? Not always. It is a biological imperative after all; but show them that you mean it and next time they will believe you and hold off that much harder.


In my opinion it is gross either way, whether it is a strangers or your own! I guess you can compare it to somebody feeding a girl her own pussy juices. Most girls probably wouldn't like that, even though it is their own.

yeah, I see your point about proving that you are serious! But like you said, sometimes you just can't hold back!! I see myself having that problem very soon. Like I have said in my previous posts, it wasn't that hard in the beginning, but it is definitely getting harder to hold back! How long do you make your partner go without cumming? Do you have him in chastity?

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/26/2012 6:05:36 PM   
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Well, I am not currently in chastity. When I agreed to give this whole thing a try one of the things that I was really skeptical/worried about was being in chastity, so my wife said that as long as I could control myself and she would have control on when I get to have an orgasm, I wouldn't have to do the chastity thing. However, controlling myself has become rather difficult, especially since my wife has gotten very, very good at the whole teasing thing. it is definitely harder than i anticipated. My wife has been encouraging me to go into chastity, and she is very much for it, so it might just be a matter of time before I am in chastity. We will see. I am still rather nervous/anxious about being locked up, but I promised my wife I would follow through with all of this and if the chastity will help keep me honest in that sense, then I am going to have to give it a try.

Would you want your partner in chastity or would you trust him in a situation like mine?


Personally, I wouldn't want to be with someone I couldn't trust, and wouldn't use it in place of trust. So I don't think I'd like to have somebody in chastity on a long-term basis. But for a few hours, maybe a few days, with lots of teasing involved ... I'm sure I'd enjoy that.

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RE: A bit apprehenisve! - 9/26/2012 6:09:33 PM   
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In all honesty, I usually let them off after one or two good solid licks to save myself having to sit with them for hours like a parent forcing a kid to finish his peas.


Thanks for a good laugh and a great visual.

Spy

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