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littlewonder -> RE: When is a guy short? (7/31/2012 7:24:14 PM)
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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins
the thing with weight guys is this, it's something you can do something about most of the time. or like me you were always skinny until health problems hit, and then you're not. there was nothing i could do about my weight, and i still struggle now to try and control it. now what worries me about people who bang on about wanting the skinny person is what if s/he puts weight on?
do you suddenly stop loving someone just because they put weight on? or if you like the larger person, what if they lose weight?
where as, with height you are what you are. there is nothing you can do about it. weight is a much more superficial preference than height in that respect. i like my guys to be slim to athletic, but if a guy i loved put weight on i wouldn't stop loving him for it.
needles
I am one of those people. The past few years I gained about 25 lbs and Master was not thrilled with it. Neither was I. But that doesn't mean he doesn't still love me so we both do what we can to make sure I get the weight off again and I only have about 10 more lbs to lose to be back where I was when we first met. If Master started gaining a lot of weight, I would probably politely mention it to him and we would sit down and have a talk about it and he probably would want to lose it as well and realize he's getting older and at our ages, neither one of us wants to be unhealthy or out of shape.We both want to be able to enjoy our "old age" together for as long as possible. lol
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