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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/6/2012 2:34:53 PM   
SlaveRobert66


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ORIGINAL: QueenRah

I wish you the best of luck, Robert.

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Thank You QueenRah. I am a true sub/slave that just wants to make one woman's life easier and happier. I can do without the punishments IF the Lady prefers. It is all about the Lady and putting Her FIRST. Her Wants , Needs and Desires.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/6/2012 2:48:23 PM   
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Maybe you want to do a search here with the keywords Mystress World....

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3379450/mpage_1/key_Mystress%252CWorld/tm.htm#3379549

http://www.collarchat.com/m_983472/mpage_1/tm.htm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2463049/mpage_1/key_Mystress%252CWorld/tm.htm#2463049

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2026168/mpage_1/key_Mystress%252CWorld/tm.htm#2047954

http://www.collarchat.com/m_968684/mpage_4/key_Mystress%252CWorld/tm.htm#1670820

Obviously we never heard of it and know nothing of it, if I wouldn't be so lazy I could possibly pull up a lot more threads about it, but you can do your own search.

So finding some scam website that pulls the wool over the eyes of guys a bit ridiculous makes us "haters"?

Nobody minds if you like Mystress World, only if it is so very great and very real, why don't you go there and sign up for a bit more, what are you doing here?




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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/6/2012 3:06:55 PM   
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Ma'am , I took the MW lessons a few years ago. I am no longer enrolled in MWU. I never felt I was being scammed. Apart from the $300 tuition that was all I ever paid. I'll easily spend 300-400 on a date so the price was not bad to me.

I obviously was wrong in my previous statement about collarme members not knowing about MW. I apologize.

MW is a University. Collarme is a dating Site. I am here now for dating and hopefully will become involved in a Female Led Relationship.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/6/2012 3:10:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66


MW is a University.



That's like saying all you need to know about being in a relationship can be learned from watching porn clips.


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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/6/2012 3:10:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66


MW is a University.


Seriously dude, that's like calling a molehill a mountain.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/6/2012 3:41:01 PM   
SlaveRobert66


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All I can say is that I enjoyed the lessons and assignments. MW connected me with a Lady whom I served for one year. (She released me when She moved out of state) I understand that every woman is unique and many will not agree with MW. That is FINE. I am adaptable to change and to be molded into whatever kind of boy that my future owner wants.

One thing that has definitely been overlooked about me (on this thread) is my Devotion , Sincerity and Eagerness to Serve.

I created my own website and set up the videos just so that any interested Sadistic Woman could see that I am who I say I am. I don't cry out the "safe word" after 2 or 3 lashings , instead I say Thanks and beg for more. I have proved that I can take all that a Sadistic Woman wants to unleash.

I have tried to explain that a FLR is more than the kink. I am happy serving by doing all of the domestic duties and other non-kink activities. I am a Southern Gentleman. I want to make a woman's life easier.

My video intro was not created to show my "Meat". I made the Intro to show off my technical abilities and again , that I can take the Discipline. I have references available .

I tried to create a Profile that would completely describe me so that an interested Lady could form a decent opinion as to whether or not I would be a good match for Her. That was my goal. Simply to find a Woman to Serve.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 6:18:23 AM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66


MW is a University.


Sorry, but I was under the impression that universities are institutions that offer higher education and degrees, I can't just claim that the local high school is a university or enrol in a private course and claim that I got a university degree!

As for CM being a dating site, I was always under the impression that it is just a community.


quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66

All I can say is that I enjoyed the lessons and assignments. MW connected me with a Lady whom I served for one year. (She released me when She moved out of state) I understand that every woman is unique and many will not agree with MW. That is FINE. I am adaptable to change and to be molded into whatever kind of boy that my future owner wants.

One thing that has definitely been overlooked about me (on this thread) is my Devotion , Sincerity and Eagerness to Serve.

I created my own website and set up the videos just so that any interested Sadistic Woman could see that I am who I say I am. I don't cry out the "safe word" after 2 or 3 lashings , instead I say Thanks and beg for more. I have proved that I can take all that a Sadistic Woman wants to unleash.

I have tried to explain that a FLR is more than the kink. I am happy serving by doing all of the domestic duties and other non-kink activities. I am a Southern Gentleman. I want to make a woman's life easier.

My video intro was not created to show my "Meat". I made the Intro to show off my technical abilities and again , that I can take the Discipline. I have references available .

I tried to create a Profile that would completely describe me so that an interested Lady could form a decent opinion as to whether or not I would be a good match for Her. That was my goal. Simply to find a Woman to Serve.



Look, I'm a sadist who enjoys edge play, I'm not playing professionally anymore, when it comes to playing professionally, yes, references matter, but playing just for my enjoyment, I don't need references, I need chemistry, I need to like somebody, if you show me videos, it comes over as "Look, that's what I've done and what I expect, live up to my previous experiences" - that does turn me off. Also it makes you look (maybe unfairly so) as if you are an exhibitionist. You have to cater to the audience you want to attract, if you want to attract women, you best tailor your sales pitch so it will get their interest. If you are stuck with the videos, how does that show that you are willing to be what she wants to be? It looks as if you are looking for a repeat of what you had.

It's more for you than just the kink, great, but then don't have kink videos up. How about you take a video of yourself where you just tell them about you and that your desire is to become what a possible owner wants you to be? I think that approach would have much more success. You could say you do have videos available, and show them when somebody asks for them.

Also you saying that you spend $300 on a "date" gives the impression that you're looking for pro dommes, and sorry, you don't have dates then, you have appointments and sessions.

Finding somebody could take quite some time, why don't you volunteer for videos (I think Lady Cheyenne is always looking for volunteers) or check with the dommes in your area who have C4S if they need volunteers? It might even lead to you being collared by one of them.

What I am trying to tell you here is that with videos, you are applying to the wrong audience, maybe FL and somebody who is looking for a video slave!


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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 7:44:03 AM   
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Robert, every time I come back to this thread I have this reaction.



You have gotten 5 pages of input from LIFESTYLE dominant women. Who, I have to say, have been exceedingly patient with you. But, from everything I've read that you've written on here, you are completely disregarding what they've had to say, unless it is in direct alignment with YOUR ONE TRUE WAY.

Dude, you are coming across as just another fetish monkey in a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnggggggggggg line of fetish monkeys. Using your experience with pro-dommes as your calling card and resume.

What you are NOT GETTING, is that the calling card and resume doesn't mean jack shit to 99.9% of the LIFESTYLE dominant women. You keep blathering on and on, tryng to convince an audience that simply doesn't value the things you value. Either change your measure of value or go somewhere else where your values are shared.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 8/7/2012 7:45:13 AM >


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 8:00:56 AM   
SadisticMs2


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You just can't help some people.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 8:10:59 AM   
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Robert, I feel as if you are still not getting it.

You are all ready for the discipline, for the punishment; you can take it - you say over and over. You say exactly what you want Her to do for you - take over your life. For this, you offer what you currently have - money, a house, a hot tub, a fitness center, and you say you will do all the work. Stuff...

What you do not offer...again...is a relationship.

You might find some freeloading woman willing to take you up on your offer. You are unlikely to find a lifestyle Dominant Woman willing to go in with you.

In real life, in relationships - people rarely get together because of stuff. They get together because they connect on a mental and emotional, heart and mind level.

Your experience, your money, your kinky desires, and your stuff - it is really all window dressing to what's really inside.

And that's what I feel you are not showing. What do you offer in relationship to a Lady beyond your stuff and your ability to take punishment and provide stuff? Who are you as a completely vanilla person?

Again, in -any- relationship, kinky or vanilla, you have to connect on an interpersonal level first - kinky stuff will sort itself out.

If I wrote your profile, I would simply say that "I have had some interesting experiences in the kinky world to this point." Give a timeframe of years involved, and get into my love of guitar and what music I like, and what I hope to achieve in my life, my career, my relationships...what I bring to a relationship beyond my stuff, how I participate in my local kink community, etc.

Anyhooo...I don't think you are showing that and I believe that an essential part of showing a picture of your overall life and who you are as a person first.

Hope that helps!



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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 8:36:33 AM   
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I honestly think he doesn't get it, but I blame MW for a lot of that. Didn't we have a similar outfit here? Guys who asked for stuff that was a bit against what most lifestyle women were interested in always got the reply "We train our *slaves* specifically in that" yadayada, SlaveAcademy or something like that, pretty much the same set up as MW, online training and all. The guys are told they are good slaves as long as they pony up the "class fees", they get supplied with some "diplomas" that are about as valuable as toilet paper, but they get told over and over again that this stuff is important and they need it to connect with dominant women, it's a bit the Scientology of the BDSM world.

In the end some guys get it that what they were told wasn't quite the only weal and twue way and the women they are trying to approach react a bit stroppy because it takes ages to unlearn all that BS, that simply doesn't translate to what dominant women find attractive in subs. Some of them go back to the "academy" and live a happy make belief online existence, others get it. But if you don't want to get it, well, don't complain about lack of success, though I am pretty sure there are enough gold diggers out there who are more than willing to take financial control until the coffers are empty...

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 10:42:21 AM   
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Thanks. Otters. I hope someone pays attention to your post :)

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 2:50:59 PM   
SlaveRobert66


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I have paid attention everyone and I do appreciate the advice. My video intro is gone along with the link to my web site. I will re do the profile tomorrow when I have more time. A few of us are getting together tonight for a little guitar picking and maybe finish a couple of tunes ! Thank You All , very much. I now know what I did wrong and how far I still have left to go. I promise I will get better. MW is now forgotten History to me. I will erase my mind of that old training and become a clean slate once again !


You are all AWESOME !! Thanks Again !!

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 7:38:53 PM   
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MW is now forgotten History to me. I will erase my mind of that old training and become a clean slate once again !


I think he gets it now, folks. Our work here is done.

Robert, enjoy your musical evening and good luck with your tunes.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 8/7/2012 10:30:43 PM   
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Mr. Robert,

Reading your profile it seems like you are trying to replace what you had instantly. It can be daunting for a stranger (who is a normal, well adjusted kinkster) to take over your entire life overnight. I would appreciate you being forthright, but you may want recognize that you expect this to happen over a few months or years.

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