Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip?

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Shaiyax -> Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:28:30 PM)
Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact? x Shaiya

GreedyTop -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:35:43 PM)
shouting at him loudly? (ETA) If this is an indicator of what you find acceptable as ways to humiliate him... Please keep in mind that if you are shopping, there will likely be children, parent, grandparents, folks who are religious, etc in the area. Is your kink so important to you that you are willing to non-consenually involve other people>??

Baroana -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:38:53 PM)
Loud shouting, to me, is a sign of not being in control. I think you'll just be humiliating yourself with that.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:42:51 PM)
There is something really lovely about calm and controlled. What is that old saying? If you want to get someone's attention, whisper. I gotta say, a man whispered something in my ear a few weeks ago, and it still makes me blush.

OsideGirl -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:45:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop Please keep in mind that if you are shopping, there will likely be children, parent, grandparents, folks who are religious, etc in the area. Is your kink so important to you that you are willing to non-consenually involve other people?? This ^^^^^

poise -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:45:50 PM)
Pretend you forgot your wallet? [:-]

Shaiyax -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:46:31 PM)
I'm glad that's been pointed out to me, I wasn't too keen on drawing that much attention to myself in the first place so whispering seems like a better option. I'm still left cold by ideas on how to publicly humiliate him without actually involving the public too much in the game

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:48:29 PM)
What things does HE find humiliating? That sort of thing varies incredibly. Maybe it's something as simple as carrying your handbag.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:50:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Shaiyax Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact? x Shaiya Lingerie department, have him ask for control wear or shape wear in his size, if he is skinny have him wear a pillow under his clothes. Nothing really gender bending or anything that could upset other shoppers or the shop assistant... Or just send him into every supermarket you see, tampons and other female hygiene products, or get him to buy those stuff where you put dentures in and all the pills and stuff to keep them in place and tell him he can't speak to them, has to keep his mouth closed...

OsideGirl -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 5:52:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus What things does HE find humiliating? That sort of thing varies incredibly. Maybe it's something as simple as carrying your handbag. Just being subservient to a woman in public is enough for a lot of guys.

PeonForHer -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 6:00:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Shaiyax Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact? x Shaiya Me, in your position (and as a sub who knows what would be kind of a turn-on) - I would involve others, though only very slightly. Just tell him to do X or Y, within earshot of a few other people. (E.g. 'Pick up my bags. Hurry up!' ) Especially other males of his own age. Watch him to see if he's embarrassed; watch the onlookers to see if they smile (or at worst, don't care). If you get both reactions, you know you've got the balance right. Hell, other women around you might even find it entertaining to watch - good! And I think Lady C's on the right track: anything involving him in the lingerie department will be embarrassing for him. Even being in a lingerie department is embarrassing for me, never mind performing services in it for a bossy partner.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 6:00:55 PM)
Yes, in whatever way 'subservient' means for him, if it's walking a step behind you with eyes downcast, carrying packages, bringing shoes for you to look at while you sit and drink your latte.. there are a lot of ways that are fun without making the general public uncomfortable or drawing undue attention.

BlackTigerDragon -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/17/2012 8:22:58 PM)
Change your or their name to Richard. Then if you get separated you will be looking for your Dick. Actually I want to do that. Don't steal >:(

ElginSub -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:00:44 AM)
I can only give you the humiliations that were given to me. I always carried her purse and bags, walked 1 step behind, opening all doors. wearing womans shoes , tennis shoes with pink laces. Womans slaks, light make up to eyes andlips. nail polish, worn with a womans sandel was really embarassing. having lunch and being left the crust or remnants of her food to eat. Asking a woman employee the correct size for me to wear. wear womans jewelry watches or charm bracelet, earings, necklace. call him by a womans name and have him respond. if there are nail salons that are visable to all shoppers have him get a pedicure for the both of you. Hope that this helps. wish I was going with You.

GreedyTop -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:04:05 AM)
Elgin, these are great suggestions!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:12:29 AM)
Those are good ideas, Elgin, though I would not use them personally. OP, think about how much attention from strangers you want. I don't know what kind of area you live in, in a big city people dressing differently than the norm might not stand out too much. Remember that YOU are also going to be under scrutiny, not just your playmate. How are you with judgmental looks, and possible outright comments diected at YOU.

ElginSub -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:30:38 AM)
Most of the time the stores and shopping places are not close to where we both reside, maybe a day trip or a hour away, or walking around downtown chicago. where there are many different people. Boys town around Wrigley field has much to see LOL. Depending on her mood and what i have done to to make her want to humiliate me. i was taken to a gas station one time wearing a short skirt, thigh high stockings, heels, a top, and bra. no wig and stood there putting gas in the car and washing the windows. i have also been in stores wearing a bra without padding but if looked closely the straps could be detected. Also even low heals can be heard when walking on a floor to draw attention. It is totally up to my mistress on wha is to be done. being loaned out to clean a friends house or aprtment i am to obey.

Kana -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:32:54 AM)
quote: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? Have him be seen in public squandering his hard earned loot on an unoriginal Mistress who can't even come up with her own ideas. That should be humiliations galore.

OttersSwim -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:33:07 AM)
You know, I have to say that from a Transgendered point of view, this really just feels squicky. To my view, being out in public as you have suggested really promotes that sideshow, freakshow, aspect of gender presentation and invites people to form negative views of gender expression. As a person who desires to dress in public, not for any concepts of humiliation but just to be their authentic self, and who does not completely pass...it is hard enough just as it is, really hard. Can't tell you not to do it, but really, it is not helpful in my view to the overall public acceptance of those who express gender without any concept of kink or sexual fetishization.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? (8/18/2012 10:35:50 AM)
Thanks, Otters, I feel the same way, I just didnt want to get ranty and judgmental.

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