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-=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to write... - 8/19/2012 11:51:41 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		. . . I didn't think I could remember or follow the 15 rules and demands she made about contacting her. Jebus . . . I want this, I want that, I want the other thing and if your are handsome, rich and just like Mr Gray, I will grace you with access to my 3 holes. Someone call the press, another horny housewife thinks she's a sub.

There are some really cute 50 Shades of Grey fans flooding the site lately but Holy Shit Batman, the demanding submissives that think just having 3 holes to use is some blessing, not a requirement, are starting to become a majority. I seriously got to stop visiting the other side on the way into the forums.

Have you noticed an influx of Doms & submissives with strange attitudes lately and suspect they are a result of the 50 Shades books?

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 11:54:35 AM   
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Have you noticed an influx of Doms & submissives with strange attitudes lately and suspect they are a result of the 50 Shades books?

The few times I have bothered to look at profiles on the other side lately...yes. It seems that all of them are huge fans of that flipping POS.
Sometimes, it seems worse than the porn fantasies that abound.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 11:57:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I sure have. And in general, I laugh at them and move on. Hell, I was even contacted by a C. Grey. That was...interesting. Every single thing he said was along the lines of excerpts that I have read from the book on Amazon, even though he maintains that C. Grey was his name before the books came out. Yea. And my cunt is made of 24k gold, with a diamond clit, sugar.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:02:36 PM   
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And my cunt is made of 24k gold, with a diamond clit, sugar.

LMAO
Fuck...warning next time...

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:05:31 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		I start to like the book, I still think the writing is piss poor, but yesterday morning after a long dog walk I sat down and had an espresso, one table further a bunch of women (not teenagers, they were very well dressed 30 somethings) were talking about one of the spin off soft BDSM books openly and wondering where to get blindfolds and handcuffs from... I don't think they will every be BDSM players, but if the general public read the book and tried a bit themselves, they possibly don't view us as those dangerous perverts, and it will be a lot harder to arrest people for consensually whooping each other's behind.

Oh yeah, and I had to bite my tongue to not turn around and say "Just use frickin' scarves, improvise..."

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:06:32 PM   
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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:08:54 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		I REFUSE to read those books. I much prefer the Millenium Series and like to think about tasers and hammers.

I hate fad books like 50 Shades - except I like to think about all the people that are out in fantasyland and then get whipped or flogged for the first time - and realize that it doesnt get them horny like they thought it was going to. (unless of course they are a masochist - and then .. well ya know)

I also wonder how many relationships have split up because of those books - I would probably guess quite a bit.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:09:58 PM   
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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:12:41 PM   
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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:18:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do not know about this site but in real life , I notice way more , so when the conversation goes a little deeper, I go with the " a little like the 50 shades book ". And they go "OOoooooooooo".

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:21:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Have you noticed an influx of Doms & submissives with strange attitudes lately and suspect they are a result of the 50 Shades books?


Do a search for:

Username: Fifty
Sort by: Joined

And every thing else left blank...

You'll get a list of 10 users who have started their nick with "fifty" in between '04 and '10; and 27 users who have started their nick with "fifty", most often even "fifty shades" starting in late '11.

And those are just the ones who don't have enough of an imagination to figure out a nick unrelated to the damn book...

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:22:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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And my cunt is made of 24k gold, with a diamond clit, sugar.

LMAO
Fuck...warning next time...


Yeah. A guy could get hurt on those sharp facets.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:38:03 PM   
HumbledProperty


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Status: offline 		Lately I was messaged by a guy with a Christian Screen name and he couldn't tell me why it was screen name, while messaging me he didn't tell me why he was a dominant, what he wanted so basically I took it as him thinking he wants to be dominant because of the book Trilogy. While its great people are being introduced to bdsm by the books, I disliked the portrayal of bdsm in the books -smirks- looking forward to see if any other Christians message me with not knowing what they are doing.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:40:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's a good observation about the books giving rise to a do-me sub attitude in many people, much like other porn has done since time immemorial. Only this time, it's women consuming the porn.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:46:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Baroana

It's a good observation about the books giving rise to a do-me sub attitude in many people, much like other porn has done since time immemorial. Only this time, it's women consuming the porn.



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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:52:02 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Absolutely. I'm really just waiting for how hurt some people will get thinking BDSM is like that book. It wouldn't surprise Me if we end up with a thread someday, from a crying OP, that the Dom she met got exactly what she didn't expect from the "got three holes" line. Somebody is going to be dumb enough to believe fiction, and it's going to change their life in a bad way.


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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 12:59:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX


I hate fad books like 50 Shades - except I like to think about all the people that are out in fantasyland and then get whipped or flogged for the first time - and realize that it doesnt get them horny like they thought it was going to. (unless of course they are a masochist - and then .. well ya know)


Just a (mildly) interesting aside - when I first got into bdsm I was sure I was a service sub. No freakin' WAY was anyone gonna smack me with anything harder than a feather.

Then my first Dom turned out to be a sadist. I discovered I rather enjoyed our sessions, and he described me as a 'seriously freaky masochist'...I was so proud!

Maybe reading 50 shades of shite might actually push some people to trying out pain play and bondage and all that good stuff, and realise it's what's missing in their lives?

Although I still want to nail Christian Grey's balls to the floor and hit him repeatedly with a cricket bat to the head.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 1:04:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

tragically this is so true, it's very difficult to deal with when my 68 yr old Mother wants to discus love eggs.



Oh god. I don't think I could handle that! I think about the most I can do it watch TV with my mom and discuss the cute guys. Sex toys, definitely offffff limit topic.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 1:07:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Have you noticed an influx of Doms & submissives with strange attitudes lately and suspect they are a result of the 50 Shades books?

No, but I read an article about a month ago that claimed that the is a huge increase in women signing up for SugarDaddy dating sites, as a result of 50 Shades.

I haven't read the books, but doesn't the man have everything, and use his considerable resources to "torture" the lady with orgasm after orgasm after orgasm? And, when she safewords at one point, he feels horrible about it and apologizes right and left? And she safeworded because it was painful but not erotic?

I know if I turned gay and wanted to date a man whose primary focus in life was giving me pleasure, sugar daddy dating sites would be the first place I'd look. Sounds like a great fit.

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RE: -=Great profile photo and interests. I wanted to w... - 8/19/2012 1:53:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Have you noticed an influx of Doms & submissives with strange attitudes lately

Now...how to go about this without breaking TOS? There's a new profile who thinks she has one hole more than three to be used. I never did like biology at school - was no good at it either but.....maybe I AM missing something....

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