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RE: Very New but Intrigued - 9/20/2012 2:47:21 AM

tiemetight247

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i have no good advice. i am with a liar/cheater that i hate but love. wtf is wrong with me?

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RE: Very New but Intrigued - 9/20/2012 5:07:40 AM

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I think you should start your own thread...and consider exploring this question with a therapist.

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RE: Very New but Intrigued - 10/3/2012 12:11:47 AM

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I too am very new to this whole thing and the reality is that you don't have to give up the "girls can be anything" way of thinking, in fact you shouldn't because if you can be anything that means that you can be a submissive also. I have what is called a DaddyDom. He knows how to put me in line with gentleness and understanding. He has led me into opening up to all my fantasies. You can still be a strong independent woman and yet submit to your man.

Your behavior is not deviant it is perfectly normal in this society if it wasn't do you think there would be so many groups out there that cater to it?

I agree with the other posts you need to talk to your husband. Let him know what is going on with you. Not that you are cheating but that you are not happy with your life as it is and ask him to explore these things with you. If he isn't able to be your sex partner maybe he would enjoy being your Master and watching you with others that can please you sexually. If you just want out of the marriage then honey you need to get out. You can still tend to the needs of your children without him. Trust me more damage then good came out of my staying married to my ex.

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RE: Very New but Intrigued - 10/3/2012 1:17:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiemetight247

i have no good advice. i am with a liar/cheater that i hate but love. wtf is wrong with me?

Best answered, I would think, by an old saying.

Water rises to it's own level.

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RE: Very New but Intrigued - 10/3/2012 8:47:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DonnysStar

I too am very new to this whole thing and the reality is that you don't have to give up the "girls can be anything" way of thinking, in fact you shouldn't because if you can be anything that means that you can be a submissive also. I have what is called a DaddyDom. He knows how to put me in line with gentleness and understanding. He has led me into opening up to all my fantasies. You can still be a strong independent woman and yet submit to your man.

Yeah, apparently not:

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ORIGINAL: DonnysStar

I heard my Daddy telling another girl that it has been a while since he's had a fighter. I have always wanted to fight but am afraid if I resist or fight he will stop thinking that I don't want it. But I want him to get rougher with me. I know it is in him and he has said that he would love to have that again. So how do I do this without appearing to just be giving in?

How do I tell him I want to take it to the next level of roughness without actually telling him. I want it to be natural and I feel like if I say something then he will think I am just giving it to him because he said something or that he will do it only for me?

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