DNAHelicase
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This entire line of debate makes no sense to me. If you (the general you, not anybody in particular) believe life begins at conception, I can't understand how you can have an exemption for certain cases. I see most things in shades of gray, but on this particular topic I cannot understand how you can think it's ok to terminate a fetus conceived through rape or incest, but not ok to terminate a fetus conceived through consensual sex (leaving aside the myriad of grayness in that term "consensual"). And that is part of the reason why I think the abortion debate really ought to come down to yay or nay. There is no in between, there can be no exceptions for the people who truly believe a zygote ought to have the same rights as a person. It either does or it doesn't. Anybody who says abortion is wrong *except* in cases of rape has some ulterior motive other than sticking to his or her "beliefs". What those motives are may be up for debate, though it certainly seems to me that many of the people who espouse this view espouse many other views in line with keeping women in a position of less than equality to men. Further, when it comes to the health of the mother, if an abortion is the only thing that is likely to save her life, how does that square with personhood ideology? If you say that a fetus has all the rights of a person, but it's endangering the life of another person, doesn't that mean that that person has the right to defend herself? Or does it become a quagmire of ethics about who is more human, who has more right to live (in the knowledge, of course, that if the mother dies the fetus does, too, so nobody's rights have been protected)? What about in the case of rape, if being forced to carry this fetus is endangering the mental health of the woman to the point she becomes suicidal? Some states have laws that allow them to prosecute women who knowingly harm their fetuses; there's a particularly outrageous case in Indiana about a woman who took rat poison to kill herself because she was depressed when the father of the fetus left her ( a real winner, he suddenly announced he was married and decided to go back to his wife). She lived, the baby was born but died 3 days later, and she's being charged with murder. The whole debate seems ludicrous to me from so many, many angles. These are but a few. Getting to JanahX's questions: - would you feel blessed because "God" gave you the chance to give life? If I believed in a god at all, I think something like this would make me seriously question how any being that is considered "merciful" could inflict such a painful, mentally agonizing, daily, and permanent reminder on a person of what was probably her worst day ever. And I say permanent because even if I were forced to carry a fetus conceived in rape to term, I'm pretty sure I would think about it every day for the rest of my life if I gave the child up for adoption, and I would certainly think about it every day if I kept the child. - would you cherish your baby? Probably. I love kids and I believe all children ought to be loved and cared for, regardless of their backgrounds once they're here. However, I can't say for sure that I wouldn't have lingering resentment towards the child because of where it came from. - would you be set up to bring a child into the world? - would you have the money to bring a child into the world? At this time? Kind of. It would be a struggle, I would probably have to ask my grandparents for help and I would most likely need government assistance. I doubt my wealthy inlaws, who are pro-life, would give us a dime if they knew the child was not their son's biological child. I know them well enough to know how they feel about charity, children, personal responsibility (even if it's forced on you!), and all the other issues that would go into that. - would you pay to have the child and give it up for adoption? I really don't know. I have a strong code of ethics, and one of the things I live by is that if you take responsibility for a life, then you need to see it through. I've been in animal rescue for years and I've spent a lot of time and effort checking up on the pets I placed with people and I would always take them back no questions asked if ever the adopters decided they couldn't keep them. I don't know how that sense of responsibility would work with a child I gave birth to, but I imagine it would be pretty damn irresistible. - would you go on welfare to have the child and give it up for adoption? See above. - would you leave the country to have an abortion elsewhere? Almost certainly if I could afford it. I don't have a problem with abortions that are done before the fetus is truly viable outside the womb. - would you try to hurt yourself or the baby so it dies? If I couldn't afford an abortion outside the country or a relatively safe blackmarket one here, then I might try to kill the fetus with abortifactant herbs. - would you kill yourself? Probably not, but who knows what my mental state would be after a rape? I can only imagine that a rape and the bonus emotional trauma of dealing with a pregnancy because of it would fuck me up but good. I have a good support system, but I really don't know how badly it might shake me. Edited for a little clarity and a punctuation change.
< Message edited by DNAHelicase -- 9/11/2012 6:37:48 PM >
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