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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 6:10:20 PM   
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Damn, a menopause baby? From a rape?


With my tubes tied, no less.

I took the liberty of backtracking my age a "tad" for the sake of this particular issue.

You know, in an ideal world, no female would ever have to make the choice to abort her child, but then in an ideal world, females wouldn't get raped, either.

These are some tough questions and I'm thankful I never had to face them for real.



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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 6:29:18 PM   
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Damn, a menopause baby? From a rape?


With my tubes tied, no less.

I took the liberty of backtracking my age a "tad" for the sake of this particular issue.

You know, in an ideal world, no female would ever have to make the choice to abort her child, but then in an ideal world, females wouldn't get raped, either.


These are some tough questions and I'm thankful I never had to face them for real.




Well really, it could happen, I'm not entirely past it...and thing is, as a woman of a certain socioeconomic class, there WOULD be an out for me, legal or otherwise. Not everyone is that lucky.



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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 6:34:22 PM   
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This entire line of debate makes no sense to me. If you (the general you, not anybody in particular) believe life begins at conception, I can't understand how you can have an exemption for certain cases. I see most things in shades of gray, but on this particular topic I cannot understand how you can think it's ok to terminate a fetus conceived through rape or incest, but not ok to terminate a fetus conceived through consensual sex (leaving aside the myriad of grayness in that term "consensual").

And that is part of the reason why I think the abortion debate really ought to come down to yay or nay. There is no in between, there can be no exceptions for the people who truly believe a zygote ought to have the same rights as a person. It either does or it doesn't. Anybody who says abortion is wrong *except* in cases of rape has some ulterior motive other than sticking to his or her "beliefs". What those motives are may be up for debate, though it certainly seems to me that many of the people who espouse this view espouse many other views in line with keeping women in a position of less than equality to men. Further, when it comes to the health of the mother, if an abortion is the only thing that is likely to save her life, how does that square with personhood ideology? If you say that a fetus has all the rights of a person, but it's endangering the life of another person, doesn't that mean that that person has the right to defend herself? Or does it become a quagmire of ethics about who is more human, who has more right to live (in the knowledge, of course, that if the mother dies the fetus does, too, so nobody's rights have been protected)? What about in the case of rape, if being forced to carry this fetus is endangering the mental health of the woman to the point she becomes suicidal? Some states have laws that allow them to prosecute women who knowingly harm their fetuses; there's a particularly outrageous case in Indiana about a woman who took rat poison to kill herself because she was depressed when the father of the fetus left her ( a real winner, he suddenly announced he was married and decided to go back to his wife). She lived, the baby was born but died 3 days later, and she's being charged with murder.

The whole debate seems ludicrous to me from so many, many angles. These are but a few. Getting to JanahX's questions:

- would you feel blessed because "God" gave you the chance to give life? If I believed in a god at all, I think something like this would make me seriously question how any being that is considered "merciful" could inflict such a painful, mentally agonizing, daily, and permanent reminder on a person of what was probably her worst day ever. And I say permanent because even if I were forced to carry a fetus conceived in rape to term, I'm pretty sure I would think about it every day for the rest of my life if I gave the child up for adoption, and I would certainly think about it every day if I kept the child.
- would you cherish your baby? Probably. I love kids and I believe all children ought to be loved and cared for, regardless of their backgrounds once they're here. However, I can't say for sure that I wouldn't have lingering resentment towards the child because of where it came from.
- would you be set up to bring a child into the world? - would you have the money to bring a child into the world? At this time? Kind of. It would be a struggle, I would probably have to ask my grandparents for help and I would most likely need government assistance. I doubt my wealthy inlaws, who are pro-life, would give us a dime if they knew the child was not their son's biological child. I know them well enough to know how they feel about charity, children, personal responsibility (even if it's forced on you!), and all the other issues that would go into that.
- would you pay to have the child and give it up for adoption? I really don't know. I have a strong code of ethics, and one of the things I live by is that if you take responsibility for a life, then you need to see it through. I've been in animal rescue for years and I've spent a lot of time and effort checking up on the pets I placed with people and I would always take them back no questions asked if ever the adopters decided they couldn't keep them. I don't know how that sense of responsibility would work with a child I gave birth to, but I imagine it would be pretty damn irresistible.
- would you go on welfare to have the child and give it up for adoption? See above.
- would you leave the country to have an abortion elsewhere? Almost certainly if I could afford it. I don't have a problem with abortions that are done before the fetus is truly viable outside the womb.
- would you try to hurt yourself or the baby so it dies? If I couldn't afford an abortion outside the country or a relatively safe blackmarket one here, then I might try to kill the fetus with abortifactant herbs.
- would you kill yourself? Probably not, but who knows what my mental state would be after a rape? I can only imagine that a rape and the bonus emotional trauma of dealing with a pregnancy because of it would fuck me up but good. I have a good support system, but I really don't know how badly it might shake me.

Edited for a little clarity and a punctuation change.

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 6:49:46 PM   
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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 6:52:44 PM   
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If you (the general you, not anybody in particular) believe life begins at conception


I, and the Roe v Wade Supreme Court, factor in viability. Eighty-eight percent of abortions occur in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roe_v._Wade

Roe v. Wade, 410 U.S. 113 (1973), is a landmark decision by the United States Supreme Court on the issue of abortion. Decided simultaneously with a companion case, Doe v. Bolton, the Court ruled that a right to privacy under the due process clause of the 14th Amendment extended to a woman's decision to have an abortion, but that right must be balanced against the state's two legitimate interests in regulating abortions: protecting prenatal life and protecting women's health. Arguing that these state interests became stronger over the course of a pregnancy, the Court resolved this balancing test by tying state regulation of abortion to the trimester of pregnancy.

The Court later rejected Roe's trimester framework, while affirming Roe's central holding that a person has a right to abortion until viability.[1] The Roe decision defined "viable" as being "potentially able to live outside the mother's womb, albeit with artificial aid", adding that viability "is usually placed at about seven months (28 weeks) but may occur earlier, even at 24 weeks."[2]

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 6:56:46 PM   
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Thanks Tazzy, very interesting. I learned that until 1869 Catholic law factored in ensoulment/hominization as well.

http://www.catholicsforchoice.org/pubs/cfc_archive/articles/TheHistoryofAbortion.asp

...In the fifth century A.D., St. Augustine expressed the mainstream view that early abortion required penance only for sexual sin. Eight centuries later, St. Thomas Aquinas agreed, saying abortion was not homicide unless the fetus was "ensouled," and ensoulment, he was sure, occurred well after conception. The position that abortion is a serious sin akin to murder and is grounds for excommunication only became established 150 years ago.

A brief chronology cannot do justice to the twists and turns of theological thinking through the centuries. It can, however, put the abortion debate within the Catholic church into historical perspective and show the importance of continued debate and of open hearts and minds.

The First Six
Christian Centuries


Early Christianity: Moving Away from Paganism

Pagan religions had a calm acceptance of abortion and contraception, including the use of barrier methods, coitus interruptus, and various medicines that prevented contraception or caused abortion.

Early Christian leaders, distinguishing Christianity from pagan beliefs, developed ideas about contraception and abortion, marriage and procreation, and the unity of body and soul. They taught that sex even for reproduction was bad and sex for pleasure heinous. Chastity became a virtue in its own right.

100 A.D.: The Debate Begins

One of the earliest church documents, the Didache, condemns abortion in a list of “grave sins” which includes other sins such as adultery, theft, lying, swearing, hate and hypocrisy. This document, written around 100 A.D., was lost for many centuries until it was found in the late 19th century.

At that time, the debate on abortion centered on two critical questions: 1) Is abortion being used to conceal the sins of fornication and adultery? and 2) Does the fetus have a rational soul from the moment of conception, or does it become an "ensouled human" at a later point? The matter of "hominization" -- the point at which a developing embryo or fetus becomes a human being -- would become one of the cornerstones of debate about abortion, and it remains a subject of debate even today.

St. Augustine: Early Abortion Is Not Homicide

St. Augustine (354-430) condemned abortion because it breaks the connection between sex and procreation.[1] However, in the Enchiridion, he says, "But who is not rather disposed to think that unformed fetuses perish like seeds which have not fructified"--clearly seeing hominization as beginning or occurring at some point after the fetus has begun to grow. He held that abortion was not an act of homicide. Most theologians of his era agreed with him.

In a disciplinary sense, the general agreement at this time was that abortion was a sin requiring penance if it was intended to conceal fornication and adultery.

Read more: http://www.catholicsforchoice.org/pubs/cfc_archive/articles/TheHistoryofAbortion.asp



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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 7:31:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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If you (the general you, not anybody in particular) believe life begins at conception


I, and the Roe v Wade Supreme Court, factor in viability. Eighty-eight percent of abortions occur in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roe_v._Wade

Roe v. Wade, 410 U.S. 113 (1973), is a landmark decision by the United States Supreme Court on the issue of abortion. Decided simultaneously with a companion case, Doe v. Bolton, the Court ruled that a right to privacy under the due process clause of the 14th Amendment extended to a woman's decision to have an abortion, but that right must be balanced against the state's two legitimate interests in regulating abortions: protecting prenatal life and protecting women's health. Arguing that these state interests became stronger over the course of a pregnancy, the Court resolved this balancing test by tying state regulation of abortion to the trimester of pregnancy.

The Court later rejected Roe's trimester framework, while affirming Roe's central holding that a person has a right to abortion until viability.[1] The Roe decision defined "viable" as being "potentially able to live outside the mother's womb, albeit with artificial aid", adding that viability "is usually placed at about seven months (28 weeks) but may occur earlier, even at 24 weeks."[2]


That's exactly what I believe. I don't understand the people who think it's ok to have an abortion in the case of rape or incest, but not for any other reason. If those people really believe that life begins at conception, that line of thinking is irrational. Why is it ok to "kill" the product of a rape but not any other? That whole argument befuddles me. The viability argument makes far, far more sense to me and it's what I support. However, it has its own set of questions: As NICUs become better and better at what they do, does that mean that we, the people who support abortion up to the point of viability, will have to move the goalposts every so often? Should "viable" include those infants born so premature that they can, technically, be kept alive but have zero quality of life?

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 7:35:13 PM   
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As NICUs become better and better at what they do, does that mean that we, the people who support abortion up to the point of viability, will have to move the goalposts every so often?


At this point in time, there is only so much that can be done to rapidly develop the lungs. Uterine stress can help.. steroids as well... but only so much can be given.



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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 7:55:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX

As we all know, if the R's are elected into office, Mitt & Ryan would press to have all abortion made illegal in the United States, including cases where the woman was raped.



Bit of a stretch there, JanahX. Maybe a broader range of social interaction would be in order.

Here are your possible responses.

quote:


- would you feel blessed because "God" gave you the chance to give life?
- would you cherish your baby?
- would you be set up to bring a child into the world?
- would you have the money to bring a child into the world?
- would you pay to have the child and give it up for adoption?
- would you go on welfare to have the child and give it up for adoption?
- would you leave the country to have an abortion elsewhere?
- would you try to hurt yourself or the baby so it dies?
- would you kill yourself?



I don't see my answer anywhere in the mix.

Get, or arrange an illegal abortion in the underground market that would immediately spring up to meet the need. Take away the club of the hyper-emotional context in the OP, reduce it to, "damn rubber broke," and the answer stays the same.


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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 8:43:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Thanks Tazzy, very interesting. I learned that until 1869 Catholic law factored in ensoulment/hominization as well.

http://www.catholicsforchoice.org/pubs/cfc_archive/articles/TheHistoryofAbortion.asp

...In the fifth century A.D., St. Augustine expressed the mainstream view that early abortion required penance only for sexual sin. Eight centuries later, St. Thomas Aquinas agreed, saying abortion was not homicide unless the fetus was "ensouled," and ensoulment, he was sure, occurred well after conception. The position that abortion is a serious sin akin to murder and is grounds for excommunication only became established 150 years ago.

A brief chronology cannot do justice to the twists and turns of theological thinking through the centuries. It can, however, put the abortion debate within the Catholic church into historical perspective and show the importance of continued debate and of open hearts and minds.

The First Six
Christian Centuries


Early Christianity: Moving Away from Paganism

Pagan religions had a calm acceptance of abortion and contraception, including the use of barrier methods, coitus interruptus, and various medicines that prevented contraception or caused abortion.

Early Christian leaders, distinguishing Christianity from pagan beliefs, developed ideas about contraception and abortion, marriage and procreation, and the unity of body and soul. They taught that sex even for reproduction was bad and sex for pleasure heinous. Chastity became a virtue in its own right.

100 A.D.: The Debate Begins

One of the earliest church documents, the Didache, condemns abortion in a list of “grave sins” which includes other sins such as adultery, theft, lying, swearing, hate and hypocrisy. This document, written around 100 A.D., was lost for many centuries until it was found in the late 19th century.

At that time, the debate on abortion centered on two critical questions: 1) Is abortion being used to conceal the sins of fornication and adultery? and 2) Does the fetus have a rational soul from the moment of conception, or does it become an "ensouled human" at a later point? The matter of "hominization" -- the point at which a developing embryo or fetus becomes a human being -- would become one of the cornerstones of debate about abortion, and it remains a subject of debate even today.

St. Augustine: Early Abortion Is Not Homicide

St. Augustine (354-430) condemned abortion because it breaks the connection between sex and procreation.[1] However, in the Enchiridion, he says, "But who is not rather disposed to think that unformed fetuses perish like seeds which have not fructified"--clearly seeing hominization as beginning or occurring at some point after the fetus has begun to grow. He held that abortion was not an act of homicide. Most theologians of his era agreed with him.

In a disciplinary sense, the general agreement at this time was that abortion was a sin requiring penance if it was intended to conceal fornication and adultery.

Read more: http://www.catholicsforchoice.org/pubs/cfc_archive/articles/TheHistoryofAbortion.asp





In regards to Augustine and Aquinas, don't forget that it was only upon quickening (fetal movement that could be felt by the mother) that you really had any "proof" that you were pregnant and it wasn't as if people were getting surgical abortions (they were using abortofacient herbs). They also weren't stating doctrine. He was talking about discipline. Abortion was always sinful, but how it was treated differed from today. Penance of that time was not a private matter, either. Penance was public in the early Church. By saying "oh, it was only penance" discounts just what that means in the Church.

Modern science, with the advent of ultrasounds, has certainly changed what we know of fetal development from the times of Aquinas and Augustine. We now know that there is a heartbeat before quickening (around 8 weeks), for example, and that the child is pretty much fully formed by around 12 weeks. He just needs some more time to grow.

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 9:08:45 PM   
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This is just my personal opinion. I speak for no one else and their concerns are not mine.

I would not abort. I would go through pregnancy and labor and then either put it up for adoption or maybe even talk to a few family members or friends who cannot have chldren.

Being that I've had my tubes tied for about 15 years now and going through menopause, it's pretty much a moot point for me. Yeah, it could still happen but highly unlikely.



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RE: Rape-babies - 9/11/2012 9:09:28 PM   
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Quickening is much later....

Usually, quickening occurs naturally at about the middle of a pregnancy. A woman pregnant for the first time (i.e., a primigravida woman) typically feels fetal movements at about 18–20 weeks, whereas a woman who has already given birth at least twice (i.e., a multipara woman) will typically feel movements around 15–17 weeks

Heart tones...

Starting at week 5 the fetal heart rate accelerates by 3.3 bpm per day for the next month.
The fetal heart begins to beat at approximately the same rate as the mother's, which is typically 80 to 85 bpm. The approximate fetal heart rate for weeks 5 to 9 (assuming a starting rate of 80):
Week 5 starts at 80 and ends at 103 bpm
Week 6 starts at 103 and ends at 126 bpm
Week 7 starts at 126 and ends at 149 bpm
Week 8 starts at 149 and ends at 172 bpm
At week 9 the fetal heartbeat tends to beat within a range of 155 to 195 bpm.

...........
Weeks 9 thru 13 - Gestational Age (Fetal Age - Weeks 7 thru 11):
The fetus has grown to about 3 inches in length and weighs about an ounce. The genitalia have clearly formed into male or female, but still could not be seen clearly on an ultrasound. The eyelids close and will not reopen until the 28th week of pregnancy. The fetus can make a fist, and the buds for baby teeth appear. The head is nearly half the size of the entire fetus.

Weeks 14 thru 16 - Gestational Age (Fetal age - Weeks 12 thru 14):
The fetus’s skin is transparent and a fine hair called lanugo begins to form on the head. The fetus begins sucking and swallows bits of amniotic fluid. Fingerprints which individualize each human being have now developed on the tiny fingers of the fetus. Meconium is made in the intestinal tract and will build up to be the baby's first bowel movement. Flutters may be felt in the mom’s growing abdomen as the fetus begins to move around more. Sweat glands have developed, and the liver and pancreas produce fluid secretions. The fetus has reached 6 inches in length and weighs about 4 ounces.

http://www.americanpregnancy.org/duringpregnancy/fetaldevelopment1.htm

But, you placed the age at 12 weeks.

http://www.webmd.com/baby/ss/slideshow-fetal-development

http://3dpregnancy.parentsconnect.com/calendar/12-weeks-pregnant.html

Now... Im going to shock a great many of you... possibly.

The majority of abortions are performed before 9 weeks... around 61%

78% by week 10

88% by week twelve.

http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_induced_abortion.html/





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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 3:18:15 AM   
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This entire line of debate makes no sense to me. If you (the general you, not anybody in particular) believe life begins at conception, I can't understand how you can have an exemption for certain cases. I see most things in shades of gray, but on this particular topic I cannot understand how you can think it's ok to terminate a fetus conceived through rape or incest, but not ok to terminate a fetus conceived through consensual sex (leaving aside the myriad of grayness in that term "consensual").


It all depends on how you frame things. In your hypothetical (life begins at conception), it is correct to say that rape/incest/consensual pregnancies would all fall under the same category. The only debatable "acceptable" abortion would be in cases of having to choose between the Mother's life or the fetus's life. That would be it.

quote:

And that is part of the reason why I think the abortion debate really ought to come down to yay or nay. There is no in between, there can be no exceptions for the people who truly believe a zygote ought to have the same rights as a person. It either does or it doesn't. Anybody who says abortion is wrong *except* in cases of rape has some ulterior motive other than sticking to his or her "beliefs". What those motives are may be up for debate, though it certainly seems to me that many of the people who espouse this view espouse many other views in line with keeping women in a position of less than equality to men. Further, when it comes to the health of the mother, if an abortion is the only thing that is likely to save her life, how does that square with personhood ideology? If you say that a fetus has all the rights of a person, but it's endangering the life of another person, doesn't that mean that that person has the right to defend herself? Or does it become a quagmire of ethics about who is more human, who has more right to live (in the knowledge, of course, that if the mother dies the fetus does, too, so nobody's rights have been protected)? What about in the case of rape, if being forced to carry this fetus is endangering the mental health of the woman to the point she becomes suicidal? Some states have laws that allow them to prosecute women who knowingly harm their fetuses; there's a particularly outrageous case in Indiana about a woman who took rat poison to kill herself because she was depressed when the father of the fetus left her ( a real winner, he suddenly announced he was married and decided to go back to his wife). She lived, the baby was born but died 3 days later, and she's being charged with murder.


The issue can't be a yea or nay issue until the debatable parts are acceptably defined. We, in the US, have not acceptably defined the debatable portions of this issue. At what point does a fetus assume full personhood? If not until birth, then it becomes legal to perform abortions right up until birth. If personhood is defined to be conception, the only gray area is when conception actually occurs. In all these cases, though, there is the ability to defend, if a pregnancy will cost, or presents a very high likelihood of costing, the mother's life, abortion should be an option for the parent(s).

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 6:04:41 AM   
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This is something I think truly is up the woman, I had been raped by my brother!

There would be no way in hell I could had given a baby to anyone let alone go through the whole pregnancy, knowing
it was by that monster, I thank god I did not have to go through being pregnant!!!!!!!

I have known some of my friends who have had abortion and they go through hell knowing and wondering what that
child would had been!

If anyone thinks that this was an easy thing to go through, they are so wrong!!!!!! The suffer years later, so much had been
written about how they "just did it for nothing" again a misunderstanding!

If only many people knew of the pain and heart ache,and to make it harder they are unable to have children!

I saw what you had written Tazzyygirl, it does make for a very interesting talk, wow as early as that!

But it would had not a bit of a difference to me being raped by my brother, it is sick to even think of it in that manner, when
it comes to rape and incest!

Life does not began ( when your carrying child of a incest or raped by a stranger) it is sick and what a nightmarish thing to make
anyone do!

So I do think that the people whom stand outside and call the women who come to the clinics , are stopped and made
to feel horrible , then I say to all of the people whom feel so bad towards these women!

Take one of them in your home help feed and cloth the young girls and YOU should teach then about the child your carrying '
then they can help rasie him or her make sure you have enough food and help baby and mom!

The screaming will stop, someone will take and make a difference!

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 7:47:01 AM   
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And that is part of the reason why I think the abortion debate really ought to come down to yay or nay. There is no in between, there can be no exceptions for the people who truly believe a zygote ought to have the same rights as a person. It either does or it doesn't. Anybody who says abortion is wrong *except* in cases of rape has some ulterior motive other than sticking to his or her "beliefs". What those motives are may be up for debate, though it certainly seems to me that many of the people who espouse this view espouse many other views in line with keeping women in a position of less than equality to men. Further, when it comes to the health of the mother, if an abortion is the only thing that is likely to save her life, how does that square with personhood ideology? If you say that a fetus has all the rights of a person, but it's endangering the life of another person, doesn't that mean that that person has the right to defend herself? Or does it become a quagmire of ethics about who is more human, who has more right to live (in the knowledge, of course, that if the mother dies the fetus does, too, so nobody's rights have been protected)? What about in the case of rape, if being forced to carry this fetus is endangering the mental health of the woman to the point she becomes suicidal? Some states have laws that allow them to prosecute women who knowingly harm their fetuses; there's a particularly outrageous case in Indiana about a woman who took rat poison to kill herself because she was depressed when the father of the fetus left her ( a real winner, he suddenly announced he was married and decided to go back to his wife). She lived, the baby was born but died 3 days later, and she's being charged with murder.


The issue can't be a yea or nay issue until the debatable parts are acceptably defined. We, in the US, have not acceptably defined the debatable portions of this issue. At what point does a fetus assume full personhood? If not until birth, then it becomes legal to perform abortions right up until birth. If personhood is defined to be conception, the only gray area is when conception actually occurs. In all these cases, though, there is the ability to defend, if a pregnancy will cost, or presents a very high likelihood of costing, the mother's life, abortion should be an option for the parent(s).

If all life is sacred, and all life should be protected, how can there be war? We aren't going out there with Nerf® guns or playing Lazer Tag. This is much more than simply Dodgeball where those who are "out" can join in the next game.


I don't believe a fetus should get full rights until it's left the womb. I think it should have some *limited* rights once it has reached a point it could be both viable and functional (as opposed to being kept alive but with miserable quality of life) outside of the womb, but hasn't been born yet. And this, if my understanding is correct, is more or less the way federal law sees it, too. From my point of view, I think it's a perfectly reasonable compromise between a woman's autonomy over her body and her life versus the life of the fetus. I do not understand the people who believe personhood begins at conception but it's still ok to have an abortion in situations other than the life of the mother is in danger (and even then, it's sticky ethically).

You say that the debatable parts haven't been acceptably defined yet. I think viability has been well defined; it does shift slightly from time to time, as NICU technology gets better. But I doubt it can get much better than it has at this point, short of developing artificial wombs in which case the abortion debate would be likely to drastically change, anyway. The only debatable portions left are terms like "personhood" and "right to life" both of which are so philosophical and unscientific (untestable) I doubt they ever can be defined in a way that a majority of people will accept (at least, not for the ones who do not take religious scriptures literally). To me, it seems like people who are against all or most forms of abortion are using those terms as a smokescreen, precisely BECAUSE viability IS well defined and they don't like it.

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 5:45:19 PM   
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I don't believe a fetus should get full rights until it's left the womb. I think it should have some *limited* rights once it has reached a point it could be both viable and functional (as opposed to being kept alive but with miserable quality of life) outside of the womb, but hasn't been born yet.


Oh? What rights would it get and what rights would it not get?

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And this, if my understanding is correct, is more or less the way federal law sees it, too. From my point of view, I think it's a perfectly reasonable compromise between a woman's autonomy over her body and her life versus the life of the fetus. I do not understand the people who believe personhood begins at conception but it's still ok to have an abortion in situations other than the life of the mother is in danger (and even then, it's sticky ethically).
You say that the debatable parts haven't been acceptably defined yet. I think viability has been well defined; it does shift slightly from time to time, as NICU technology gets better. But I doubt it can get much better than it has at this point, short of developing artificial wombs in which case the abortion debate would be likely to drastically change, anyway. The only debatable portions left are terms like "personhood" and "right to life" both of which are so philosophical and unscientific (untestable) I doubt they ever can be defined in a way that a majority of people will accept (at least, not for the ones who do not take religious scriptures literally). To me, it seems like people who are against all or most forms of abortion are using those terms as a smokescreen, precisely BECAUSE viability IS well defined and they don't like it.


Is "viability" defined and used? I don't know that it is. I think there is a general "consensus" on viability and a more firm "stage"definition for unacceptable abortion. To me, that isn't acceptably defined. If it was, there would be much less to debate. "Personhood" would be that time when a fetus is granted rights of a human being. And, what is nebulous about a "right to life?"

I'm good with you deciding for you. I'm good with me deciding for me. I support your making a choice based on your circumstances. I've said on other abortion threads, that the biggest problem I have with the abortion issue is when other people's money is used to fund someone else's abortion. If that did not happen (unless the donor made the donation with the knowledge that their money would likely be used to fund abortions), I would have nothing to gripe about. I'm also good with not having to truly wonder what I would do. Even in the cases of late-term abortions, I think the decision goes to the parent(s) if it's a choice between the Mother or the Baby surviving. I would have to think that most rape/incest abortions occur within a few weeks of becoming pregnant, and stats have been put out that almost 90% of all abortions are done like within the first trimester. I have no issue with that. At all.


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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 5:57:29 PM   
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I'm going to ignore your political rhetoric and point out you did not answer the questions. So basically you're saying if a female gets raped, she only gets an abortion if she can afford it? If her baby is shown to have birth defects, same thing?

What about those babies with birth defects, who pays for them? I am guessing it's not you, at least, it's not your choice to pay.

I feel for you, my friend. One day you will need compassion, but you will be so filled with mistrust, you will not be able to reach out for that which you need.

You take care now.



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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 6:02:03 PM   
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Thats the part that kills me too.

They dont want to pay for the abortion of an infant with birth defects, so they will pay the millions of dollars for the health care of that infant... and still complain because the mother is unable to work as a result of having to take care of that infant.

Talk about a vicious cycle.

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 6:12:51 PM   
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What about those babies with birth defects, who pays for them?


So because a child isn't going to be perfect we kill them? Even children with birth defects have value.

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RE: Rape-babies - 9/12/2012 6:23:03 PM   
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But but but, I thought during rape a woman's' vagina exerted teeth to bite her attacker. That guy on the news said so


Even if Mitt get's elected, they will never over turn Roe vs Wade. Supreme Court > President.

President appoints Supreme Court Justices.
Remember.....elections have consequences,this one could have huge consequences.
Never before has such a rabidly right wing ticket been placed before the electorate.
Remember(I know I'm repeating myself....lol)elections have consequences.

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