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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:35:04 PM)
EXACTLY, LP!! Though I have thus far had EXACTLY NO LUCK with my two men DP scene. I am thinking that I need two bisexual men who have already gotten together. Who can follow directions. Because it's all about me. ALL ABOUT ME.

LaTigresse -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:36:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl It's that the concept that I'm expected to be available to her D type. I have no urge to play with other men or to be a kink delivery system for someone that I'm not involved with. I get A LOT of mail from people that want me to just 'play' with the woman while he hangs out and watches. Uhmmmmm NO! I am not interested in sharing.......or performing for an audience member of one that will have his dick in his hand. And very likely try to 'join in' at some point.

littlewonder -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:36:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 Haha I see a lot of denial! [8D] Well probably most of my girlfriends and friends fit what I said. I wonder how many of you straight girls have had more than one Les experience... [;)] -Aries Les? Never. Forced bi? Once. Totally hetero here. I have never ever found women attractive.

fucktoyprincess -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:36:45 PM)
I've had both MMF and MFF threesomes before, primarily in longer term play partner situations (i.e., we all knew and were involved with each other longer term). Somehow, it was never a difficulty figuring out what to do with the third person, regardless of their gender. Again, I think this is one of those different strokes for different folks kind of thing. Some people are bisexual, but have no interest in more than one person at a time. Others are bisexual and find three people in a room alone an interesting time. At the end of the day, it is whatever one finds interesting. We are each free to enjoy what we want. (And to be clear I have had countless encounters with other women on their own). Again, I think the term bisexual currently covers too many things, and as a descriptor is quite lacking. It really doesn't tell me enough about someone. [sm=2cents.gif]

Extravagasm -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:37:58 PM)
You have it right, Lady H, although most of society is absolutely snowblind about this. Sexual orientation is really really not about sex. Its about which gender(s) one can have a romantic affinity for. A potential love bond. Or passionate affection. Sex is closely tied (if one IS sexual) but not the essence of "orientation". Oscar Wilde said it best when he wrote "the love that dare not speak its name".

autumnember -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:38:05 PM)
I have been guilty of using it to turn guys off myself until i was face to ...errrrr lets just say until i was with another girl. I would like to try it again though without a male there so that i can either rule it out (as the one experience was not positive) or embrace it. I call myself straight though and i am very very clear i am not interested in a 3 some unless they are comfortable with MFM

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:38:53 PM)
It's true that aside from my very specific fantasy, I get confused when there are too many people. I am not orgy material. [&o]

Alecta -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:39:58 PM)
Yep, and sometimes, you just totally freak when they DO bring a girl home.

fucktoyprincess -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:40:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus It's true that aside from my very specific fantasy, I get confused when there are too many people. I am not orgy material. [&o] And as long as you are finding what pleases you, there is no need for you to be anything other than what you are. [:)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:42:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus It's true that aside from my very specific fantasy, I get confused when there are too many people. I am not orgy material. [&o] And as long as you are finding what pleases you, there is no need for you to be anything other than what you are. [:)] Oh yeah I found out all that stuff a long time ago! And it's hardly relevant anymore since I'm likely to be celibate forever. Still, it's fun to ponder!

LaTigresse -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:43:54 PM)
I was just reminded of an old friend of mine. He thought it was really hot that his wife wanted to also have a relationship with a woman. They then found a hot woman to join in. The hot woman was a lesbian. The hot lesbian woman really wasn't interested in him. The hot lesbian woman was REALLY interested in his wife. That was about 12 years ago. Last I knew the EXwife was living in the beautiful old Vermont victorian house my friend had put so much work into, with the hot lesbian, as wife and wife. He was living with some friends, in their spare bedroom, bemoaning dating in his early 40's, in Florida. Needless to say, the idea of hot woman on woman, and FMF fun, rather lost it's luster.

littlewonder -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:44:14 PM)
quote: I absolutely understand your frustration from your vantage point. If it were Me, I don't think I'd be thrilled, either. It's got too much of a 'well, I'll do it but it's not exactly a turn on' kind of vibe. That would be such a turn off, to Me, that the conversation would end right there. I've talked to Master about this since he has an interest in it one of these days and he said he has talked to femDommes who want to do this for the very fact that I'm NOT turned on by her, for the sadistic turn-on point of view. It's why he likes it as well. The sadism involved in it, knowing I'm doing this just for him and no other purpose at all.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:44:38 PM)
It'a a chance ya take, LaT! [:D]

LaTigresse -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:45:45 PM)
And yanno, I did warn him.

ARIES83 -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:50:37 PM)
Alectra, I think the reason I didn't like it was that I wasn't the center of attention and it wasn't even for my benefit! But being the awesome guy that I am, I just told the girlfriend that she could mess around with girls in the future but I didn't wanna watch... Weirdly, I didn't have any feelings about it if I wasn't there. LaT, I'm sure a large amount of girls are motivated in that way, all I can say is there must be something in the water over here because there's a lot of Bi going round. -Aries

autumnember -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:50:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I've talked to Master about this since he has an interest in it one of these days and he said he has talked to femDommes who want to do this for the very fact that I'm NOT turned on by her, for the sadistic turn-on point of view. It's why he likes it as well. The sadism involved in it, knowing I'm doing this just for him and no other purpose at all. Actually, for me this would be much easier because at least i wouldn't have to hide my hetrosexuality. I worry about hurting a woman's feelings

LadyPact -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 12:52:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl It's the concept that I'm expected to be available to her D type. I have no urge to play with other men or to be a kink delivery system for someone that I'm not involved with. For that, I don't blame you a bit. Do you mind if I ask you a question though? When you say you are looking for a play partner, do you mean that you've been looking on here? The reason I ask is because this place is just so flooded with the "Master and I are looking for a girl to play with us" type of entries. I kind of wonder if this is a great venue for a female looking just for another female. Lack of data on My part.

myotherself -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:03:11 PM)
I don't have many hard limits, but sex with a woman is one of them. That's not to say I don't appreciate the female form - of course I do. I see a lovely body and I see its beauty. But it does nothing for me. A lesbian 'friend' of mine did try to get me drunk in the hope that I'd give in to her advances. The minute she came on to me, I sobered up so fast it made my liver spasm! Actually, I have seen someone turn gay after one drink too many...but he was the only one that I can remember [8D]

LaTigresse -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:05:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl It's the concept that I'm expected to be available to her D type. I have no urge to play with other men or to be a kink delivery system for someone that I'm not involved with. For that, I don't blame you a bit. Do you mind if I ask you a question though? When you say you are looking for a play partner, do you mean that you've been looking on here? The reason I ask is because this place is just so flooded with the "Master and I are looking for a girl to play with us" type of entries. I kind of wonder if this is a great venue for a female looking just for another female. Lack of data on My part. I don't know what the experience of others is..........I can say that I do not see CM, on either side, as a dating website for ME. I never have. There is just too much chaff.

TantalizingGirl -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:06:22 PM)
I can promise that's true ! Or throwing up....

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