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descrite -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:08:18 PM)
I never felt more satisfied than cuddling two female subs after a intensely-hot scene. And there is nothing hotter than getting up to get a drink, and coming back to see the two of them making out in the bed, of their own volition. Tigresse, your friend should have retained the title to the house. If you can't keep your woman, at least keep the real estate.

LaTigresse -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:10:20 PM)
It is called a divorce settlement.

OsideGirl -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:18:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Do you mind if I ask you a question though? When you say you are looking for a play partner, do you mean that you've been looking on here? The reason I ask is because this place is just so flooded with the "Master and I are looking for a girl to play with us" type of entries. I kind of wonder if this is a great venue for a female looking just for another female. Lack of data on My part. I have met a few on here. They have fallen apart for various reasons: drugs, conscience, etc. We also attend the socials and the like, and I have met some there. I had thought I had found a playmate with a woman that was single, but when she met a D that she became involved with, he assumed that meant that he had access to me as well. Another turned out to be bat shit crazy. But, you are right. The majority here approach me and then later admit that they're procuring for their D types.

fucktoyprincess -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:32:06 PM)
FR I do want to add one more thing. There is a difference in my mind between the bisexual woman who is primarily interested in MFF to please her male partner, but who actually enjoys being sexually involved with a women, and the "bisexual" woman who is only interested in MFF to please her male partner, but actually doesn't enjoy women sexually. And I can tell the difference immediately. I've had the latter experience once. Only once, because after that, I specifically screen for it. There is nothing more unpleasant and unsatisfying than trying to have sex with a woman who is not interested in having sex with another woman. lol. (For the record, alcohol and drugs are not part of my BDSM experience, so if a woman can only do this after a lot of drugs and alcohol she would also be in the latter category in my mind). Anyway, again, people are either into this or not. But it is wrong to waste other people's time. And in that regard, the OP's frustration is completely understandable. Women who are searching for threesomes purely to satisfy their male partner should be searching as a couple. Nothing more frustrating than to waste time corresponding and meeting someone to discover they are not looking for themselves as an individual, but for themselves as a couple. And any assumption that a bisexual woman would be equally, if not more, happy to include the male is plain WRONG. [sm=2cents.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:37:03 PM)
LaT, thank you for weighing in. I know you have said that before, but I didn't want to speak in your place. For all I know, it's changed since then. quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I have met a few on here. They have fallen apart for various reasons: drugs, conscience, etc. We also attend the socials and the like, and I have met some there. I had thought I had found a playmate with a woman that was single, but when she met a D that she became involved with, he assumed that meant that he had access to me as well. Another turned out to be bat shit crazy. But, you are right. The majority here approach me and then later admit that they're procuring for their D types. The strange part, to Me, is the fact that I'm straight and I absolutely have the ability to pick up chicks. Heck, I tend to have one female a year want to join My household, and if you don't mind Me saying so, you are far prettier, intelligent, and articulate than I am. AND, you are actually interested in chicks and offer something that I absolutely CAN'T give them. I know you are a very discerning individual and certainly not an "anybody will do" type. It just really does surprise Me that you are having difficulties in this area. Even as a straight chick, it shocks Me that you don't have chicks all over you.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:39:21 PM)
It is true, LaT should be a chick magnet. But I should be a guy magnet, using that same logic. Crapshoot. Coffee. Smile. There ya go.

TantalizingGirl -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:42:28 PM)
Descite , I have lived with a couple , and I remember him saying the saying the same thing he loved it ... Honestly it was one of the best times in my life . They were both dom And I fit well because the sub aspect worked for me , I have been with a couple women alone as well ..and I like it ,however what I find is they become seriously obssesed... not that men don't but ...it is different ... HAve also been with 2 men and me and it was seriously uncomfortable, so I get that too, alot of testosterone in one bed like it was a competion for them. I am bi for lack of a better word only ... I like certain people ... I have had more hetero relationships than others and prefere if you are a man for me ..please be masculine , if you're a woman...be soft and feminine even if you are D.

LadyPact -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:44:04 PM)
If you remember, Hib, we had a thread some time back about people who are single (or looking) and those of us who are shocked as shit that various posters were still looking. For a number of folks around here, I'm definitely in that shocked category. The opposite of this is also true. There are people who have been around this place and I can see EXACTLY why they are single. I'm sure everybody out there has a name or two that they would think would be on that list.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:47:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact If you remember, Hib, we had a thread some time back about people who are single (or looking) and those of us who are shocked as shit that various posters were still looking. For a number of folks around here, I'm definitely in that shocked category. The opposite of this is also true. There are people who have been around this place and I can see EXACTLY why they are single. I'm sure everybody out there has a name or two that they would think would be on that list. Story of my life. And LaT is not single, she has GD. [;)] I have my feathered husband, thank goodness. Nothing like a companion animal that's always glad to see you.

mnottertail -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:49:20 PM)
I am sure I was the one talked about most on that thread. But I hear tell you get a few glasses of port in ol' LaT, she goes for the weiners.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:52:18 PM)
Everyone needs a snack, Ron. She likes them grilled, I hear.

mnottertail -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:57:20 PM)
LOL. you still got it, Hib.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 1:58:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail LOL. you still got it, Hib. That's the problem Ron, no one wants it! [:D]

tsatske -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 2:00:43 PM)
I've addressed this before, and I totally get where you're coming from, OG. I am very bi, really enjoy other women, but I have no desire to have sex with someone who really doesn't want to have sex with me. I call them 'bi if Master says I'm bi girls', and, in the case of the young ones, 'Bugs' (Bi until graduation) which I also use as a verb - as in, 'she's just buggin' I particularly hate it when sub women are just out procuring warm bodies at their Doms orders. Some even have quotas to deal with. That just lets me know that their Dom is someone I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with, even as the unattached arms of a V. And not someone I want to be in a bedroom or dungeon with, even if it's hands off. That brings up the topic of Vs and triads. If I am in a relationship with a man and another girl, it has to be okay for the girls to touch and play when he's not around. For it to work for me, that is. And the girls absolutely MUST be friends. That's an absolute for me. Actually, even in a non-poly relationship, I'm only interested in a man comfortable enough with himself that jealousy never comes up. And if a Dom and I talked through something, and he gave the okay, and then got jealous, I'd be serriously unhappy with that. I know that's unfair of me, sometimes we don't know how we are going to feel about something till we do it, but in that case, it should be something we can talk through calmly and decide not to do again. Not something that there is any drama over. just imo. My biggest issue is basicly het girls who get insulted that you don't want to preform for their Dom, even while admiting that they have no interest in you. Is it so hard to understand that I don't like to have sex, with people who don't want to have sex with me?

LaTigresse -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 2:07:15 PM)
For ME, I think there are a whole host of factors that has kept the women at bay. Location is a big one. My inability to do much traveling another. My lack of free time. Not having the time or resources (given my lifestyle choices) to go looking. Either in person or via the net. I prioritize my resources. I am a realist.....if I have an extra $50 to spend and few hours, am I going to spend it driving an hour or more to hang out with people I don't know and may or may not enjoy, or do I spend it driving to hang out with people I know and love. I am selfish and chose the people I already know and love. People that I always feel like I never get to spend enough time with. Just living where I do, it takes so bloody much of my time and energy. I love it, but it rules my life. Dogs that need to be fed and run, horses that need to be fed. I am already away from home for my primary job from 7am to 6pm minimum. I hit the ground running as soon as I get home........dogs to be run, their dinner to start, horses to check on and feed. Perhaps a water tank to fill, gardens to weed, just always so much that needs done. I usually don't sit down until 8 or 8:30. Then there is the photography biz on the side that I do in my 'free' time. Add to that, my own unique communication 'style' that really isn't conducive to meeting via the net. The relationships I've had with women have been happy accidents. Not intentional. Heck, no relationship in my life outside of work has been intentional. And they were both women that decided that my life, and chosen lifestyle, was not something that was for them......long term. Both were convinced I would change my mind. Leave my happy little hacienda on the hill and Generic Dude. Sorry, not moving to NYC or Paris France. Not leaving my trusty side kick of 22 years. He is part of the package deal. So is my dedication to my fur babies and family. For whatever reason, I've attracted women that while submissive, want to be the focus of my attention. I am not changing the whole of my life for anyone. Even Generic Dude knows where the lines are drawn. He would never EVER expect me to leave my furbabies. If a woman cannot meld into the life I've already built, she's just not for me. There are very VERY few that want to, or can.......if any.

amaidiamond -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 2:16:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I base it on independent (meaning no other influence) sexual attraction and sexual engagement with both genders. That's where my frustration is coming in. I have permission to have a female playmate. Master does not care if he is involved, as long as he knows what is going on. 99% of the women I talk to will only do it if their D type is involved and are told to by their D type. That has got to be one of my biggest pet peeves - I also have permission to have a playmate and am much more attracted to the idea of a submissive or switch woman but the majority of the ones that approach expect me to play with their Dominant also - Not happening :)

OsideGirl -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 2:31:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact The strange part, to Me, is the fact that I'm straight and I absolutely have the ability to pick up chicks. Heck, I tend to have one female a year want to join My household, and if you don't mind Me saying so, you are far prettier, intelligent, and articulate than I am. AND, you are actually interested in chicks and offer something that I absolutely CAN'T give them. I know you are a very discerning individual and certainly not an "anybody will do" type. It just really does surprise Me that you are having difficulties in this area. Even as a straight chick, it shocks Me that you don't have chicks all over you. Thank you so much for that compliment. I think it's a combination of things. Sometimes, it's not necessarily the opportunities but actually finding someone who is sane and fits into my/our life. I've been told that when people see Master and I together...they wonder if there's any room left for someone else. But, Master tells me all the time when I'm being flirted with or checked out....and I haven't noticed. I think if someone has not pinged my radar, I'm kind of oblivious unless they're really obvious about it.

LadyPact -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 2:33:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsatske My biggest issue is basicly het girls who get insulted that you don't want to preform for their Dom, even while admiting that they have no interest in you. Is it so hard to understand that I don't like to have sex, with people who don't want to have sex with me? This is where I'm kind of messed up. To Me, the above makes perfect sense if I was the one involved in the sexual engagement. As a person, I really don't have any interest in being sexual with somebody who doesn't really want to be sexual with Me. As a receiver, hell no! However, and this is where I'm just kind of out there, as a sadist and a Dominant, I absolutely get kicks out of making OTHER PEOPLE do it! What littlewonder wrote earlier about her Master contemplating her having to engage in such an activity, specifically because she doesn't like it, sorry, but yeah, that's fun! So, really, that makes Me think Kana is going to have to find a bisexual female Dominant, who is sadistic in her own right, and enjoys the hell out of making people engage in sexual acts that they DON'T WANT TO DO. All of this, of course, is said with an apology to littlewonder, but I think by now she knows that I kind of enjoy her suffering. [:D]

LaTigresse -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 2:34:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse For ME, I think there are a whole host of factors that has kept the women at bay. Location is a big one. My inability to do much traveling another. My lack of free time. Not having the time or resources (given my lifestyle choices) to go looking. Either in person or via the net. I prioritize my resources. I am a realist.....if I have an extra $50 to spend and few hours, am I going to spend it driving an hour or more to hang out with people I don't know and may or may not enjoy, or do I spend it driving to hang out with people I know and love. I am selfish and chose the people I already know and love. People that I always feel like I never get to spend enough time with. Just living where I do, it takes so bloody much of my time and energy. I love it, but it rules my life. Dogs that need to be fed and run, horses that need to be fed. I am already away from home for my primary job from 7am to 6pm minimum. I hit the ground running as soon as I get home........dogs to be run, their dinner to start, horses to check on and feed. Perhaps a water tank to fill, gardens to weed, just always so much that needs done. I usually don't sit down until 8 or 8:30. Then there is the photography biz on the side that I do in my 'free' time. Add to that, my own unique communication 'style' that really isn't conducive to meeting via the net. The relationships I've had with women have been happy accidents. Not intentional. Heck, no relationship in my life outside of work has been intentional. And they were both women that decided that my life, and chosen lifestyle, was not something that was for them......long term. Both were convinced I would change my mind. Leave my happy little hacienda on the hill and Generic Dude. Sorry, not moving to NYC or Paris France. Not leaving my trusty side kick of 22 years. He is part of the package deal. So is my dedication to my fur babies and family. For whatever reason, I've attracted women that while submissive, want to be the focus of my attention. I am not changing the whole of my life for anyone. Even Generic Dude knows where the lines are drawn. He would never EVER expect me to leave my furbabies. Another thing.......I am NOT into sharing or swinging. 99.99999% of men just gross me out in a sexual way. I cannot and will not be in a relationship with a woman that is in a relationship with a man. It's just not gonna happen. Compound that with the fact that Generic Dude isn't interested in me sharing my women with him. So if that is an interested woman's goal, she's screwed and not in the way she is hoping to be. It's a definitely V situation with me being the leader, the axle the wheels of the home rotates around. If a woman cannot meld into the life I've already built, she's just not for me. There are very VERY few that want to, or can.......if any. SHIT!!!!!!!! I meant to edit my previous post not fucking quote and add to. I just went and bolded the part I was going to add to via edit..........to make things easier.

PeonForHer -> RE: Bisexual submissive women (10/1/2012 2:45:56 PM)
quote: Master says that many list themselves as bisexual because men think it's hot and some women use that as a marketing tool. 'Lipstick lesbians', as they became known here.

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