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pyschosubmission -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 11:56:47 AM)
I think he's implying that he wants to join the Armed Forces...

LadyHibiscus -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 11:58:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission I think he's implying that he wants to join the Armed Forces... Yeahhhh... and yanno? he is not sounding like a good candidate for anything outside of grunt. They are damn picky about who they take for the more interesting work, and anger management issues pretty much put you out of the running.

OsideGirl -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 11:58:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission I think he's implying that he wants to join the Armed Forces... I got that impression too. Not exactly where I want someone that has problems controlling their anger.

LaTigresse -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:01:46 PM)
The military doesn't shit on a person for doing what it takes to make them a better person. If you are going for military OR, something you feel is even more 'special', you are a fool if you thing you are going to get to even 1st base with the issues you've got going on. And if you do make it past 1st base, you will implode or explode in the training it takes to get a home run. From where I sit, about the only crew that would take him might be the Marines. They will take just about any warm body. Even there he will simply be, just another body. Until he gets his shit together he won't go far. Certainly nothing he would consider super cool and all bad ass like special forces. I can guaranfuckintee that.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:02:45 PM)
Alas, we are old and experienced, so we are just underestimating him.

LaTigresse -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:05:38 PM)
C'est la vie!

pyschosubmission -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:07:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission I think he's implying that he wants to join the Armed Forces... I got that impression too. Not exactly where I want someone that has problems controlling their anger. As an aside I knew someone with anger issues who wanted to join the British Army in the early 90's. Applied 6 times, was rejected 6 times. Apparently when they asked him "So son, why do you want to join the army?" He answered, with a dead eye stare "TO KILL IRISHMEN" He still doesn't understand why they rejected him...

LadyHibiscus -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:09:11 PM)
When I think of the morons who took my ex into the service? Well, they really hated those Vietnamese, is all I can say. [&o][>:][8\|]

LtDrygon -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:19:35 PM)
Yes you are. I'm getting the feeling that any hard and socialble work. But thing is this happened 2 times almost three years ago. A lot of things have happened and I've gaineda lot of emotional experience. You have not met me in person to know and say what I can't and can do. It happened to long ago and I'm a different person from then. Yes did I have a messed up child hood? Yes I did. I have forgiven and forgotten. If you only really knew me. Again. At this point everything is taken out of context and made way worse. So I really can't do anything to help my case so do your worst. And no I don't want to be a grunt. I am thinking of a mechanic or a pilot. most likely chopper. So say what you wish.

LtDrygon -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:23:24 PM)
Yea but my reason for going in is not to kill people. My goal in there is to get my life finally straightened out.

LaTigresse -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:24:37 PM)
Good luck to you.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:26:19 PM)
A friend of mine was a Ranger, I suspect he would have a lot to share with you... And personally, I am very pro-military as a career, so I wish you the best with that, I think it's a great idea. As far as knowing you, we know only what you have told us here, and that is what we are reacting to. You've painted a picture of someone who really doesn't have a ton of impulse control, or understanding of what the BDSM scene is, yet still wants to launch ahead. We can only see what you show us.

LtDrygon -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:43:49 PM)
But I have told you I have leanred to more masterful of my emothions. Maybe in not that way. But I have, then I've also stated that I walked away and came back with a clear head. If you didn't read that or take that in I'm sorry. However I did mention it.

GreedyTop -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:52:47 PM)
you haven't been through boot camp, yet, have you?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:56:02 PM)
Well no, they still screen you for that. I think the military is a good idea, really. Lots of physical activity, lots of other young men to hang out with and compete with. Cranky old men to shout at you.

LtDrygon -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:56:50 PM)
Nope I haven't loss all the wieght yet was 373 now I'm down to 220 so so another 30 pounds to go. But I'm really excited about it.

LtDrygon -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 12:58:11 PM)
Lol sounds about right. That was really funny

LadyHibiscus -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 1:00:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LtDrygon Lol sounds about right. That was really funny I couldn't join due to physical issues, but I know enough from this side of the fence. [;)] And I am serious, it's an excellent goal.

GreedyTop -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 1:02:30 PM)
so, you DO NOT have a 'super secret" job lined up... you are just hoping for one, IF/when you lose the weight. \ Right. gotcha. you realize that when/if ya lose the weight, you're gonna have to go through the testing again. I'm pretty sure you'll be bounced... again. too many anger issues,

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: finding myself (10/8/2012 1:04:17 PM)
That's not a good dominant. That's an out of control abuser. Id tell ppl to stay far far away from you in my opinion. quote: ORIGINAL: LtDrygon Overwhelming to me is when I feel powerful. And I can and will do anything I want. If it means hitting you beyond your limits or to cause large amounts of pain and discomfort I will. And I enjoy it. And it overwhelms me in a sence that I won't want to stop and I won't stop till my partner yells at me getting my full focus.

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