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RE: what is it like to be a total slave? - 10/20/2012 1:08:03 PM

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There's a reason that when you get a tattoo a lot of artists will not do one if you have been drinking...1 because you make stupid mistakes when drunk and 2 You will bleed out and ruin the tattoo.

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RE: what is it like to be a total slave? - 10/21/2012 9:59:12 AM

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Micromanagement is possible. I have been in such a situation. It is at times frustrating and at times comforting. I thrive under micromanagement.

I don't define micromanagement as a dom standing over me 24/7. I see it as setting structure. imposing rules, providing a detailed schedule, limiting access to cash (not asset control), punishment. Not military role play, but very similar to military conditioning and discipline.

i agree micromanagement must be implemented by someone who craves being in control. In my experience that person was not insecure. Just the opposite. Perhaps an alpha, alpha dominant. Also, in my experience, the need for hands on supervision lessens over time, though there will be points where reinforcement is necessary. Think Pavlov.

Not everyone, probably not even a majority, seek to impose or endure micromanagement. But that does not mean it is a fantasy or is impossible to achieve.

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RE: what is it like to be a total slave? - 10/21/2012 8:35:43 PM

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ha ha...sorry guys if you were confused by my last post here. It was supposed to be for another thread on here. I kept looking for my response and couldn't find it until now. Yeeeaahhh.....I should never ever ever types on forums right after midterms when the brain has gone on vacation.

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RE: what is it like to be a total slave? - 10/21/2012 8:47:13 PM

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Perhaps... but many subs may find it erotic to be so controlled... and D/s is still a give and take, even when you are the D.

My experience of being tightly controlled was very erotic, but it was also fairly short-lived. I wonder if the eroticism would pall over time. I do see a distinction between control and micromanagement; the latter seeming tedious for both the D and s.

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RE: what is it like to be a total slave? - 10/22/2012 3:53:55 PM

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ha ha...sorry guys if you were confused by my last post here. It was supposed to be for another thread on here. I kept looking for my response and couldn't find it until now. Yeeeaahhh.....I should never ever ever types on forums right after midterms when the brain has gone on vacation.

We should get that tattooed on you

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RE: what is it like to be a total slave? - 10/23/2012 12:21:36 AM

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It's 1derful(:

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RE: what is it like to be a total slave? - 10/23/2012 12:31:19 AM

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ha ha...sorry guys if you were confused by my last post here. It was supposed to be for another thread on here. I kept looking for my response and couldn't find it until now. Yeeeaahhh.....I should never ever ever types on forums right after midterms when the brain has gone on vacation.

We should get that tattooed on you

eeerr....it's just a temporary state of being Master. Just a month and a half to go and a change of meds or none at all and I will be back to my normal self....whatever that is.

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