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iowaswitcher -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 12:21:01 PM)
i am looking for a partner, so yes i do, i haven't found one yet i am patient though. someday i will find a partner and like someone said earlier hopefully that will lead to more and i won't to use this site anymore.

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 1:34:02 PM)
No, I'm not looking anymore. But if I were, I don't think this is a bad place to be looking. I first found my Owner here, and admired her from afar for a while because I didn't think I was what she was looking for. Then we "met" on Fetlife after we both drifted away from this site and migrated over there. Yeah, there are a lot of fakes here, but it isn't hard to weed them out - they all make themselves pretty obvious really early on. My Owner mentioned to me once that a lot of guys didn't take her seriously, because she sounded way too good to be true. They assumed she was a fake. I think she's too good to be true too, but I'm not too blind to see what's right in front of my eyes, and their loss is my gain. Suckers! If they only knew...

SimplyMichael -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 1:38:40 PM)
When I see a woman posting thoughtful insightful posts...i always check her out.

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 1:45:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael When I see a woman posting thoughtful insightful posts...i always check her out. Yep. That's what worked for me. You can fake a lot of things, but you can't fake intelligence and wisdom. At least, not for long. Theer are some diamonds here to be found, if you know what the sparkle looks like.

descrite -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 4:37:13 PM)
quote: quote: The size of that selection is a huge problem in and of itself. There's a large percentage of women. They are just selective. Yeah...in context, that may have referred to the size of the women, not the percentage. I mean, this is KinkyLand: where BBWs get to be princesses. Just sayin'.

JstAnotherSub -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 6:25:47 PM)
quote: o what do I do in instances like this, can I write on her profile, telling other dominants of her bad behavior ?? This was completely out of nowhere all I did was simply ask for some back ground information, oh and I wanted her to write it down in a letter form to me, that's it! Is this too much to ask a prospective submissive, I would love to know what both other dominants and submissives alike think, please comment on this for me please! Oh yeah, be sure to do that! I mean hell, some chick you have never met wouldn't do what you told her to. We should start building the gallows!

JstAnotherSub -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 6:28:38 PM)
quote: I mean, this is KinkyLand: where BBWs get to be princesses. And assholes get to be doms! Aint the interwebs fun?

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 6:35:07 PM)
No offence, but maybe it's something you're doing/not doing. I have had no trouble meeting people when I was using collarme to meet ppl. quote: ORIGINAL: TheWriter13 I use to but these days I'm just here for the forum. Besides and I know that this has been said a billion and gazillion times but there are more fakes on here than there are people so trying to find someone on here is sadly next to impossible.

bighappygoth39 -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 6:36:20 PM)
I don't need to look for anyone on here any more, and it is actually possible to find someone on here, if you know what you want and you put the effort in. Common sense helps as well. I stay on here because I do love to join in some of the wonderful discussions, and most of the people on this side are just lovely. [:D]

Kana -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 7:07:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael When I see a woman posting thoughtful insightful posts...i always check her out. Sooo, you've never checked out a profile then, I take it.[8D] Puts his hands up in defense-I jest, I jest

fetisheden -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 7:17:40 PM)
lol quote: ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub quote: I mean, this is KinkyLand: where BBWs get to be princesses. And assholes get to be doms! Aint the interwebs fun?

samdarella -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 8:32:29 PM)
Master and I met on this site. I've also met some great friends that are very real. Have met fakes and posers in bars when I used to date before the Internet. Gotta take the bad with the good and the good with the bad. Wash it down with some tequila and keep your sense of humor.

sexyred1 -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/28/2012 9:30:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub quote: I mean, this is KinkyLand: where BBWs get to be princesses. And assholes get to be doms! Aint the interwebs fun? You just beat me to it. Think about this; any guy who has to CONSTANTLY put down BBW's most likely has been hurt by one, keeps getting rejected by them or is just a boring dick who hides behind his computer who would not dare say a thing in person to anyone. I would pick all of the above.

descrite -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/29/2012 1:08:43 AM)
Ummm..."constantly"? I think this is my first...maybe second...such communique. I've posted...a dozen? Two? Messages? But, well...this does seem to support the case for a paucity of basic math skills. "Constantly" suggests "more," right? Well, luckily...at least I'm not crazy.

Kaiel -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/29/2012 6:49:40 AM)
FR I met My hubby on here years ago, My female submissive on here years ago, and My other male sub on here about 3 years ago... So, I have had some success. However, I have also met people who weren't as they led Me to believe they were. Those people had a very short stay in My life. In the past I have also had a long term 24/7 relationship with a slave from b.com

SimplyMichael -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/29/2012 7:48:22 AM)
I have met far more quality people from here than over on Fet.

Lucylastic -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/29/2012 8:10:12 AM)
Im not looking for a partner, but there are more than a couple of male subs, and switches I would consider after reading their posts and seeing something of their "thoughts" over time. If I were in the position to look for a partner..yes, why close off an avenue?... As a Domme, I get the opportunity to have men at my feet by the mail load.. few are what I would look for in a partner, but there are some awesome people to be friends with and those are the ones I cherish, which leads me to believe there is someone or two that would fit, either here or will turn up.

SailingBum -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/29/2012 7:41:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheWriter13 I use to but these days I'm just here for the forum. Besides and I know that this has been said a billion and gazillion times but there are more fakes on here than there are people so trying to find someone on here is sadly next to impossible. Ive been around here long enuff to write a couple thousand post and have yet to meet a fake on CM. Who knows maybe I'm a figment of my imagination. BadOne

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/30/2012 9:32:28 AM)
I actually am looking for a Dom and I have had better luck here than on Alt.com (which seems like only people looking for play partners) or Fetlife. I cannot get targeted searches to work on those sites so I go through piles of sub men, old men...everything I don't want. I like the targeted searches and the mail controls on this site. I am not a "munch" or "local scene" person...most of the activities are too late (after 7 is late for me, I feel like I am getting too old :). ]. Plus I am a pretty shy person...nervous going to things alone.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Do you even look for a partner on here? (10/30/2012 11:54:58 AM)
I haven't met a dom with a big enough wanker yet. Hahahhaa.............hey Im kidding im not even looking but it was just fun to say.

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