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Master training - 10/28/2012 6:50:40 PM   
MRxRen


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Status: offline 		I'm looking for someone to really just break being a master down, I'm new to the site and am just looking for another master,or mistress to share some story's and give pointers. Basically here to collect info and maybe eventually gain a sub
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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 6:52:47 PM   
JeffBC


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Status: offline 		Sure, no problem... But first could you paint me a picture here? What do you envision when you use the word "master"? What's a day in the life like? Which parts of your life are "un-masterly" right now?

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:04:29 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Be emotionally mature. Have self discipline. Rule your cock instead of the other way around. Develop some empathy, some insight into others. Be a man of character, integrity, decency, values. Always be honest. Learn to listen and listen to learn. Remember that a thing once said can never be retracted, so think before you speak. Don't make threats, they are for losers. Instead inspire. And know that ultimatums trap you far more than they do her. Give faith to get it. Be considerate of what's happening inside of/to her. Lead by example, not verbiage. Think with the big head. Realize that while you may fall for the wrapping paper, it's what's inside that you ultimately fall for. Have the strength to love, forgive. Be kind enough to be strict and firm enough to be fair .Be a man of your word, not of words. And know that trust can take a lifetime to achieve and be lost in a minute. Make her laugh. Win her heart and dominion over her body may one day be yours.
And most of all, be consistent. God yes, if nothing else, do this.

The observant reader may note that I said absolutely zip about whips, chains, floggers and all the assorted gizmos and shit that fetishists like. That's because I can train a monkey to wield a crop, but very, very few people have the capacity to reign.
Which is why it's worlds easier for a good master to find a sub/slave in the BDSM world than the other way around, despite what all the number obsessed nimrods say.

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:04:46 PM   
littlewonder


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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:05:38 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Oh yeah, and put your picture right side up for gods sake. Unless you have a "gal with crooked neck" fetish. If that's the case, then carry on.

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:10:20 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		ha ha....that shows how often I look at avatars. I didn't even see that.

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:11:37 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Take charge....simple.


Oh cripes. That's like giving a chimpanzee a rocket launcher armed with a tactical nuke.
Yeah, I agree with the root idea, but without morals, ethics, training etc, someone s gonna get really hurt.

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:15:33 PM   
MRxRen


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Status: offline 		Kana I really like your point of view, and sorry couldn't find a fix for the pic, I like to think of myself as two sided, a gentlemen and scholar by day and "master" by night, now I don't mean master in the sence that I have this hoard of slaves behind me but a sub who I do not Rain over but control mentally a sub who will want to please me and while being controlled, knows that they will be taken care of I hope that gives a little more insite

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:18:31 PM   
JanahX


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rain
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noun
1.
water that is condensed from the aqueous vapor in the atmosphere and falls to earth in drops more than 1 / 50 in. (0.5 mm) in diameter. Compare drizzle ( def. 6 ) .

2.
a rainfall, rainstorm, or shower: We had a light rain this afternoon.

3.
rains, the rainy season; seasonal rainfall, as in India.

4.
weather marked by steady or frequent rainfall: We had rain most of last summer.

5.
a heavy and continuous descent or inflicting of anything: a rain of blows; a rain of vituperation.

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reign (rn)
n.
1. Exercise of sovereign power, as by a monarch.
2. The period during which a monarch rules.
3. Dominance or widespread influence: the reign of reason.
intr.v. reigned, reign·ing, reigns
1. To exercise sovereign power.
2. To hold the title of monarch, but with limited authority.
3. To be predominant or prevalent

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:19:17 PM   
MRxRen


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Status: offline 		Whatever I'm not an English teacher prick

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:28:43 PM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MRxRen

Kana I really like your point of view, and sorry couldn't find a fix for the pic, I like to think of myself as two sided, a gentlemen and scholar by day and "master" by night, now I don't mean master in the sence that I have this hoard of slaves behind me but a sub who I do not Rain over but control mentally a sub who will want to please me and while being controlled, knows that they will be taken care of I hope that gives a little more insite

I just gave you the recipe, well some of it.
Basically it boils down to, be a person worth serving. You're asking her for everything, that's it. Not a whit less.
So be deserving of it. Be, dare I utter the concept aloud in today's politically correct world, a Man.
Capital M. Man.




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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:29:44 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Edited to add, after seeing the post above, you just failed the Gom Jabbar test



< Message edited by Kana -- 10/28/2012 7:30:20 PM >

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:31:52 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		THAT WAS AWESOME - and very "Masterly" by the way - (be still my beating heart) such exercise of complete control -
You are well on your way to becoming a Master !! Keep up the good work !!!


Definition of prick


prick

•purposefully annoying and/or uppity.
He is being such a prick!

noun

•derisive term for a mean or unkind person; "jerk". Usually used to refer to males.
Woman: I guess he was just a thieving prick in the end.

•penis.
His prick is huge.
◦See more words with the same meaning: penis.

•A generic insult.
You prick!

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ORIGINAL: MRxRen

Whatever I'm not an English teacher prick



< Message edited by JanahX -- 10/28/2012 7:34:38 PM >

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:33:33 PM   
littlewonder


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Take charge....simple.


Oh cripes. That's like giving a chimpanzee a rocket launcher armed with a tactical nuke.
Yeah, I agree with the root idea, but without morals, ethics, training etc, someone s gonna get really hurt.


Yeah, well....you know my thing about allowing people to weed themselves out.....

ETA: <looks above> see?


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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:49:52 PM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Take charge....simple.


Oh cripes. That's like giving a chimpanzee a rocket launcher armed with a tactical nuke.
Yeah, I agree with the root idea, but without morals, ethics, training etc, someone s gonna get really hurt.


Yeah, well....you know my thing about allowing people to weed themselves out.....

ETA: <looks above> see?


Proving my theory that the lilone is infinitely wiser than moi

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 7:54:12 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: MRxRen

Whatever I'm not an English teacher prick


And with that, you fail the test of self control. Learn that, and then return to the forum when you're up to that. Then and only then, might you be up to controlling another.

Seriously, dude, what on earth possessed you to call a woman who's been here two years and made almost 3000 posts here a prick? DUMB move.

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 8:16:50 PM   
MRxRen


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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 8:45:25 PM   
SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: Kana

Be emotionally mature. Have self discipline. Rule your cock instead of the other way around. Develop some empathy, some insight into others. Be a man of character, integrity, decency, values. Always be honest. Learn to listen and listen to learn. Remember that a thing once said can never be retracted, so think before you speak. Don't make threats, they are for losers. Instead inspire. And know that ultimatums trap you far more than they do her. Give faith to get it. Be considerate of what's happening inside of/to her. Lead by example, not verbiage. Think with the big head. Realize that while you may fall for the wrapping paper, it's what's inside that you ultimately fall for. Have the strength to love, forgive. Be kind enough to be strict and firm enough to be fair .Be a man of your word, not of words. And know that trust can take a lifetime to achieve and be lost in a minute. Make her laugh. Win her heart and dominion over her body may one day be yours.
And most of all, be consistent. God yes, if nothing else, do this.

The observant reader may note that I said absolutely zip about whips, chains, floggers and all the assorted gizmos and shit that fetishists like. That's because I can train a monkey to wield a crop, but very, very few people have the capacity to reign.
Which is why it's worlds easier for a good master to find a sub/slave in the BDSM world than the other way around, despite what all the number obsessed nimrods say.


Build it and they will come...yours is the best I have read but takes many years to learn what it means.

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 9:15:11 PM   
xXsoumisXx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Be emotionally mature. Have self discipline. Rule your cock instead of the other way around. Develop some empathy, some insight into others. Be a man of character, integrity, decency, values. Always be honest. Learn to listen and listen to learn. Remember that a thing once said can never be retracted, so think before you speak. Don't make threats, they are for losers. Instead inspire. And know that ultimatums trap you far more than they do her. Give faith to get it. Be considerate of what's happening inside of/to her. Lead by example, not verbiage. Think with the big head. Realize that while you may fall for the wrapping paper, it's what's inside that you ultimately fall for. Have the strength to love, forgive. Be kind enough to be strict and firm enough to be fair .Be a man of your word, not of words. And know that trust can take a lifetime to achieve and be lost in a minute. Make her laugh. Win her heart and dominion over her body may one day be yours.
And most of all, be consistent. God yes, if nothing else, do this.

The observant reader may note that I said absolutely zip about whips, chains, floggers and all the assorted gizmos and shit that fetishists like. That's because I can train a monkey to wield a crop, but very, very few people have the capacity to reign.
Which is why it's worlds easier for a good master to find a sub/slave in the BDSM world than the other way around, despite what all the number obsessed nimrods say.


Build it and they will come...yours is the best I have read but takes many years to learn what it means.

Key word..Inspire.
Be someone deserving of her submission. Everything else will take care of itself.

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RE: Master training - 10/28/2012 9:25:15 PM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Be emotionally mature. Have self discipline. Rule your cock instead of the other way around. Develop some empathy, some insight into others. Be a man of character, integrity, decency, values. Always be honest. Learn to listen and listen to learn. Remember that a thing once said can never be retracted, so think before you speak. Don't make threats, they are for losers. Instead inspire. And know that ultimatums trap you far more than they do her. Give faith to get it. Be considerate of what's happening inside of/to her. Lead by example, not verbiage. Think with the big head. Realize that while you may fall for the wrapping paper, it's what's inside that you ultimately fall for. Have the strength to love, forgive. Be kind enough to be strict and firm enough to be fair .Be a man of your word, not of words. And know that trust can take a lifetime to achieve and be lost in a minute. Make her laugh. Win her heart and dominion over her body may one day be yours.
And most of all, be consistent. God yes, if nothing else, do this.

The observant reader may note that I said absolutely zip about whips, chains, floggers and all the assorted gizmos and shit that fetishists like. That's because I can train a monkey to wield a crop, but very, very few people have the capacity to reign.
Which is why it's worlds easier for a good master to find a sub/slave in the BDSM world than the other way around, despite what all the number obsessed nimrods say.


Damn it, why don't you just clone yourself? :)

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