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RE: Master training - 10/31/2012 12:00:22 AM

myotherself

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You're in Los Angeles - find a munch and take yourself there. Meet others, talk, make friends and hopefully a mentor.

For munches in your local area try fetlife. Use the search engine to look for 'los angeles' and that should throw up all the kinky peeps in your area, and the local events too.

read her profile....rents due and obviously she is not getting enough attention on the other side.

I'm on my best behaviour at the moment. No particular reason, I just thought I'd give naivety a try for a while

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RE: Master training - 11/11/2012 8:21:43 AM

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merely a title every tom dick and harriot bestows upon themselves - which to be fair is perfectly oki, and I am no fan of absolute labels - well less its 6 muffins for £1.

Your talking about a true dom are you not - few exist. I only ever knew two whence i used to frequent clubs.

Those few that exist come in two types
1) will treat you like a worthless piece of garbage for no other reason than it makes em feel big and to exact out an insidious part of their whole being
2) the more thoughtful

think that covers them.

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RE: Master training - 11/11/2012 8:36:53 AM

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Yes I noticed that when I looked back haha oops

Ha ha oops fixes nothing when you get to call 911 because oops you injured someone not mastering yourself

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RE: Master training - 11/11/2012 8:42:00 AM

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If he could do that I'd be greedy and take the other for when he can't be here.

But what if there is ten clones and they are all
there at the same time?

Of kana??? We're in deep shit!!

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RE: Master training - 11/11/2012 8:50:45 AM

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If he could do that I'd be greedy and take the other for when he can't be here.

But what if there is ten clones and they are all
there at the same time?

Of kana??? We're in deep shit!!

No worries. I'm a one of a kind type
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RE: Master training - 11/11/2012 9:20:48 AM

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In order to master another, one must master oneself. Self-mastery is a phrase often tossed around, but not easily explained. It requires a level of personal insight, emotional awareness, and self knowledge above and beyond what the 'average' person possesses.

Self-mastery is a process, a personal path that takes time. This is why we laugh at 19 year old 'masters' -- we know they don't have the maturity, experience and wisdom to have followed the path to self-mastery.

If you are serious about mastering yourself, I highly recommend studying the Tao philosophy (not the religion, the philosophy). In this philosophy, the Tao is the 'Great Master.' Learning to be as one with the Tao will help you on your personal road to self-mastery.

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RE: Master training - 11/13/2012 8:45:05 AM

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Key word..Inspire.
Be someone deserving of her submission. Everything else will take care of itself.

This. A thousand times, this!

I usually lurk on this site, but I had to post in response to this. Too often I have seen wannabe Masters (and Mistresses...douchebaggery isn't gender-specific) who feel that throwing the term "Master" in front of their name means they can now demand submission. That isn't the case. It matters little what you call yourself. It all rests in how you treat others and how you present yourself.

I've said this to people before, but I think it deserves repeating here. The greatest gift a submissive can give is their willing submission to a Dominant. That is a gift more precious than gold, and more fragile than glass. As a Dom, it is my duty and my responsibility to make sure that, every day of my life, I am worthy of that gift. If I ever fail to treat a submissive with the respect, care, and concern that he* is due, then I am no longer worthy of his gift.

(*I say "he" only because any submissive I work with is male. Insert the gender pronoun that fits best for you)

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RE: Master training - 11/21/2012 2:15:54 PM

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To be a master all you need is a slave that thinks of you as her master, it's as simple as that.

Now being good at it is another story.

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