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absolutchocolat -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:00:32 PM)

this thread is a case study all by itself.

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anniezz338 -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:03:38 PM)

It wasn't a defense. It was a broad statement saying this place isn't as horrible as someone may think someone else thinks it is. To me, it was a very general statement.




LevelTx -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:09:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

FR

Hey, I am a mean and nasty, sadistic, bitch.

I also love bloodletting on fresh meat. The more they squeal, the more fun it is.

Deal.

thats why jeffff loved you so much!




tazzygirl -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:11:50 PM)

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This is a pretty broad stroke of the brush. There is so much more to this site than a hand full of people you may or may not agree with. It's a public forum. It all goes to everyone. People may not like that I take up for someone, and admittedly, sweep a pretty broad stroke myself. None of us are perfect by any means.

All of us, newbies, idiots, meanies, morons, nice ones, everyone, has a right to enjoy this forum.


When I first started posting here, I made some pretty snarky comments.. and got called on them quickly by Holly no less! And she was right to do so. When you come into someone else's house, you play by their rules.

This is Collarme's house. I play by their rules. I enjoy their forums as long as they allow me too. When I step out of line, I get spanked like the rest.

I can be snarky, bitchy, mean.. or I can be sweet, kind and understanding. What I wont be is walked over, talked down too (unless I decide to allow the other poster to do so) or demeaned because my view point differs from someone's... or everyone's.

Some do not like how I post... some do not like what I post. To those all I have to say is... grow up, develop a thicker skin, or block me. Im not about to change unless the "home owners" tell me I have too.




LaTigresse -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:17:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LevelTx


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

FR

Hey, I am a mean and nasty, sadistic, bitch.

I also love bloodletting on fresh meat. The more they squeal, the more fun it is.

Deal.

thats why jeffff loved you so much!


LovED???? As in past tense??????????

What the fuck is up with that!?!?!? He is supposed to be off in a remote cabin somewhere, wasting away, pininggggggg for me!!!

And Hellooooooooooo Level!!!!! Long time no see!




chatterbox24 -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:19:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

if people want to know the history of the OP, they can look it up themselves. posting necro threads is often used as a bully tactic to make the OP look bad.


This has seemed to die down, but this happened to me repeatedly for months. I would post and the link would pop up to my old thread, even in unrelated postings I made, with a comment, telling people this is what kind of person they were dealing with.

Honestly I do think there is a group of CCC's that do on occasion do witch hunts. I can be pretty snarky myself though so I will not go without any admittance of faults. Cause I do have them. ANd some things I asked for.
I really dont have a probelm standing alone though, never have, but I can say months ago I was so distraught when I came on here, the taunting was very hurtful and shocking in the emotional state I was in at the time.




absolutchocolat -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:21:46 PM)

i noticed, and you were the person i had in mind when i said that.




LevelTx -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:23:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


quote:

ORIGINAL: LevelTx


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

FR

Hey, I am a mean and nasty, sadistic, bitch.

I also love bloodletting on fresh meat. The more they squeal, the more fun it is.

Deal.

thats why jeffff loved you so much!


LovED???? As in past tense??????????

What the fuck is up with that!?!?!? He is supposed to be off in a remote cabin somewhere, wasting away, pininggggggg for me!!!

And Hellooooooooooo Level!!!!! Long time no see!



LaT, good to see you too :)




DarkSteven -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:24:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: stef

If we have to dispense pharmaceuticals to them, I'm pushing for Thorazine.


Not in Colorado and Washington after the election. We have better alternatives.

With that out of the way, I'm firmly on the fence on this one. It IS tough to keep from snarking when someone posts something like "I've been a Master for fifteen years and I want a slut to obey my every command. No limits here! And no wearing panties EVER!!" or "My Master asked me to find a third for us. She must be between the ages of 25 and 28, have a perfect body and pull down $100K a year, which she will turn over to Master. I've been looking for four days and haven't found anyone yet. Is it always this hard?"

That said, I've felt like the welcoming attitude's taken a downward slide over the past couple of weeks or so. I'm sorry to see that. I'd like to see people hang around.




DeviantlyD -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:24:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

<snip>
I get spanked like the rest.

<snip>


You say that like it's a bad thing.

Spanking is good. :D




JanahX -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:24:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD


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ORIGINAL: poise

There have been times where I have been more sarcastic than I should have been, and I suppose that could come across as mean. However, these are my own individual responses, and they aren't motivated by any other poster here, so I can't say I'm in with whatever imagined in crowd there might be.



Ditto




I have to agree with this statement as well. I post individually and I post what Im thinking. I dont pack up here with other users - I ask my own individual questions - and I dont see a pack mentality here. Not at all.

What I do see, is that when someone is acting like a dipshit -then more than likely Im not the only one seeing it and most likely see people reacting in the same manner.

Example - someone we've never seen on the boards before comes on and says: Why are all Dommes fat and stupid?

How well do you think thats gonna fly? Am I supposed to be respectful to this person? Want them to stick around to "enjoy" themselves? Either A, they are a troll and are just here to irritate users, or B they are too stupid to be here. For people like this - I have my snark gun locked and loaded, and I dont need a pack to take aim at these kind of people.




LaTigresse -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:28:01 PM)

There is a reason I most stay out of the intros.

In other threads, I reply to posts. Most of the time I don't even bother noticing how long the person has been here. It's their posts I am more focused on.

Like Janah, when I see shit, I am gonna call it shit. I try to honour the house rules but ya, I've had my fair share of posts disappear I am sure. Usually though, the only time I notice is when a thread was particularly entertaining and I go back to find the whole thread MIA.

I think they gave up sending me 'special' letters cuz I ignore them anyway.




DeviantlyD -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:30:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: JanahX


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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

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One side digs in, so does the other, until right and wrong stop being the point and the real "thrill" is seeing who will get the best zinger in. To me, that is the death of conversation, and maybe dancing a little on its grave. Not my thing personally.


this. also, bringing up old threads that have nothing to do with the current conversation for the sole purpose of embarrassing the OP. that's over the top.


I disagree - it shows that that particular user might have a history of doing the same thing or posting the same thing.


Or hypocrisy. I've seen posters make a comment and a couple of months later state something that is entirely opposite of what they had previously said.




tazzygirl -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:32:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

<snip>
I get spanked like the rest.

<snip>


You say that like it's a bad thing.

Spanking is good. :D


Yeah, but THEY spank and deny you release afterwards... no freaking fun that way [8D]




anniezz338 -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:35:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD


quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX


quote:

ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

quote:

One side digs in, so does the other, until right and wrong stop being the point and the real "thrill" is seeing who will get the best zinger in. To me, that is the death of conversation, and maybe dancing a little on its grave. Not my thing personally.


this. also, bringing up old threads that have nothing to do with the current conversation for the sole purpose of embarrassing the OP. that's over the top.


I disagree - it shows that that particular user might have a history of doing the same thing or posting the same thing.


Or hypocrisy. I've seen posters make a comment and a couple of months later state something that is entirely opposite of what they had previously said.


Maybe they may have learned something that changed their pov. I've seen people turn around their opinion within the length of a thread. It happens.




DeviantlyD -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:35:17 PM)

I know what you say is true, but I guess I can't help fixate on the word "spanking". It's like I'm hypnotized or sumthin'. *grins*




searching4mysir -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:38:45 PM)

FR

To someone who is only looking for validation, anything that doesn't coddle them is an insult.

To people looking for a fight, they've probably come to the right place because at least one person will indulge them.

To the rest of us, this is as good a place as any to banter and play with the idiots like a cat might play with a mouse.




DeviantlyD -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:39:01 PM)

I'm not talking a POV. That would be different. It's kind of like when someone says they would never cheat on their spouse. And low and behold, less than 2 months later they are engaged in something hot and heavy with someone who isn't their spouse.

Or like the guy who was vehemently anti-abortion and when he got a friend of mine pregnant...the first thing he wants to know is if she will get an abortion and how her having the baby would totally fuck up his life, blah, blah, blah.

Yeah. That kind of hypocrisy.




LaTigresse -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 7:40:56 PM)

Kinda like my sister who had an abortion then voted for the Romney Ryan ticket?




JanahX -> RE: So are we a bunch of meanies? (11/10/2012 8:02:18 PM)

And what about the "sock" thread that she created - and people reacted exactly the same as they did when she was posting under Chatterbox.

But I have to give ol Chatter some kudos - she stuck it out. Note to Chatter = Chatter you have to admit - you have chilled out quite a bit since then and youre not nearly as annoying as you were when you first came on.




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