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A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 4:48:04 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		Ok..so...

A question arose for me in the Obedience thread. It was just about being beaten, whipped, caned, flogged, whatever....but just the pure action of some intense sensation being inflicted on you....in a beneficial way.

So, the scenario I'm thinking about is not a punishment scenario. This is not going to be about being punished with pain. (damnit I made a conscious decision a few weeks ago not to participate in any pain threads..now I'm starting one)...Still havent got to the subject though...as I'm writing I'm trying to actually pinpoint what I'm asking about....ugh...

When I start thinking about pain (intense sensation), my thoughts get muddled, I think I'm thinking about one thing and then it changes to something else...Example: I started thinking about this in the obedience thread when Submotive kinda quipped about being whipped re her state of mind at the time etc.....and I responded with...thats been really good for me at times....now all I want is pain my heart is palpitating and I'm feeling that rush of heat. (but thats not the subject).

Ok, taking a few minutes here...

I'm not talking about punishment...maybe cathartic beating? Yet I'm not talking about being beaten to relieve stress either....this is really hard for me to write about...its all getting............spastic. My original questions and thoughts are just tuning me into the space I get when I just purely want to be beaten and so taking me off the topic I want to address.

The topic is: Do you ever get into headspaces where a good beating just fixes things? Pure and simple. Like you dont need to pull the situation apart mentally or emotionally, trying to figure out why your feeling the way you are....or maybe you feel you do need to do that...but just if your taken in hand and beaten....it just all resolves itself and you wonder what the fuck you were thinking before anyways...the issue becomes just so unimportant like it never really existed. And you realsie, the very best remedy for what you were feeling before was just to be beaten, that raw physical contact just put things in perspective..taking us back to basics...or something.

How did I do? Did any of that make sense?

(got an appointment now...but will check in on this thread when I get back)

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 4:49:59 PM   
jezabelKH


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Status: offline 		W/we call it a cleansing beating.

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 4:55:12 PM   
impishlilhellcat


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Status: offline 		A good beating for me makes me feel closer to the person adminstering it. Not one  that is punishement, not one I've asked for, not one because of stress. Just one where he gets the whim and whispers in my ear go into the bedroom or he grabs me and grabs and implement and just beats me. Yes things just go away and I feel less complicated and MUCH closer to him.

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 4:58:21 PM   
sadisticmaster11


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Status: offline 		where are all the serious pain sluts?  I am a sadist who loves a good masochist.

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 4:59:15 PM   
joyinslavery


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Status: offline 		Nicely put slavejali!  YES!...I find that a good beating does indeed tend to focus and clear my mind and I often find myself in a mental state where I know a good beating can fix me right up (the endorphin rush helps too!)   It's a recent discovery for me but one that I've found very satisfactory as you mentioned.    

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 5:09:00 PM   
Submotive


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quote:

The topic is: Do you ever get into headspaces where a good beating just fixes things? Pure and simple. Like you dont need to pull the situation apart mentally or emotionally, trying to figure out why your feeling the way you are....or maybe you feel you do need to do that...but just if your taken in hand and beaten....it just all resolves itself and you wonder what the fuck you were thinking before anyways...the issue becomes just so unimportant like it never really existed. And you realsie, the very best remedy for what you were feeling before was just to be beaten, that raw physical contact just put things in perspective..taking us back to basics...or something.

How did I do? Did any of that make sense?


i for one think you did a great job at expressing yourself. And, yes, there are definitely those times when nothing will straighten me out like a good whipping - no discussion, no analyzing, no reading - i just simply need to be beaten.

i'm beginning to comprehend that M/s is less in the mind and much more in O/our very beings. Perhaps this is what makes us subs and slaves - these kinds of real needs to obey, to be beaten, to surrender. And i also think it's why online relationships do not get to the reality of M/s and D/s, imho.



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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 5:15:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh man, there is nothing like a good beating, spanking, paddling, whipping, even the words excite me.  Nothing inspires me like a nice warm paddling or excites me like having my pussy flogged.
These are all a few of my favorite things!   (angry face won't show up) this is how I like my ass to look . . .

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 5:23:31 PM   
Tamerofwild1s


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yes a good beating can bring you closer to your Master or slave depending on your position .... there is also a cleansing feeling brought upon if all is done right. and from a Masters point of view .. there is a bonding that iscreated by the "beating" ... or pain created with no punishment motive behind it

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 5:35:31 PM   
HisTicia


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Status: offline 		I remember once.. begging for a good, hard beating.  I wanted the works.. I wanted slapped hard.. hard enough for bruising... flogged... caned.. whipped with a belt.. and just left in a ball on the floor crying.   I needed it.. I needed that release.. I didn't want to think.. didn't want to feel anything but the pain...and to see the marks. 
 
I get in that mood still once in a while..and will learn to ask my Daddy for it once we are together... strange thing is.. I am in that mood now..and no one here to do it to me.. I hate that the most.  It's like it just lets everything out at once.. hurt.. anger.. sadness.. joy.. all of it.. until you are just one big mess of emotions. 
 
 

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 5:36:12 PM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		That made perfect sense jali. 
I love an intense beating with a cane.  I love to be black and blue and bleeding from that.  There ARE those times that, for whatever reason, my body aches, my focus is shot to hell, i'm stressed, i pace..........and Thorns can use that cane on me by just a simple tap...........up and down my whole body, there is nothng ouchie about it, it's that simple.....taptaptap.... repetitive.... taptaptap......movement that puts me back exactly where i need to be.  It's still not something i can describe that well, i just know what it does for me...........and i know exactly what it is you mean.   <soft smile>

Happy Thursday...

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 5:47:22 PM   
zumala


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Status: offline 		Wow... this is a concept that is completely foreign to me.  Why someone would want to be hit, I just don't understand.  Granted, I haven't tried it, but that's probably because I don't get it.
 
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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 6:00:27 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		There are times when being his target is the end all, be all for me. The combination of just being used by him for his sadistic pleasure coupled with how I know he views me.. which is the whipping post, the rug, simply a body.. a piece of flesh. Those times feed the hunger for both of us. There is nothing else necessary.. sometimes you even feel like you've stopped breathing .. all there is, is the crack of the whip or the strike of the crop against the skin. Don't need humanity, love, joy, compassion  .. all the mental and emotional just flies out the window and you are exactly, in that moment, nothing but what he sees you as.. his object. Used with a purpose without excuse or complaint.. damn, but I do love it.

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 6:20:00 PM   
joyinslavery


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quote:

ORIGINAL: zumala

Wow... this is a concept that is completely foreign to me.  Why someone would want to be hit, I just don't understand.  Granted, I haven't tried it, but that's probably because I don't get it.
 
zuma


I used to think that I wouldn't like it either but I found that there truly is something cleansing about it.  It's just very raw and pure.  As mentioned previously, the repetitious percussion can really put you into a space.  It's great!  I highly recommend it! 

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 6:26:47 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		Back again, thanks for the responses  You know, I still dont really know what my question was...

I can so relate to what a lot of you have been saying.


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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 6:36:47 PM   
Tamerofwild1s


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Status: offline 		I have to agree with all the responses . as I have asked many girl this same question .. why do you want or need this so bad . why do ask this of me . and I have been given almost a verbatim answer as I have seen here in these posts

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 6:39:52 PM   
NINASHARP


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Status: offline 		slavejali,

I understood completely what you were saying.  I had to dig deep to find something I wrote about it, as I think back, it was so long ago, but this is how if felt to me then when I wrote this.

Surrender

My body laid tightly in the vast of his hold,
the urges of my surrender achieved to let go
unleashed unto the powers of his eminent control
as the wrath of his whip, kissed the blanket of my soul.

Helplessly restrained in his cumbersome bounds
My blood racing inside to the beat of my rapid heart pound
I uttered to speak but my words were with out sound
his blows filed my silence, each one more profound

The strength of his spirit generated in his might
my forbidden desires were to strong for me to fight
I heard him whisper relieving me of my frights
his voice echoing through me like a light in the night

Overwhelmed with passion to all he implored
as the rapture of his talents commenced to explore
Depleting me further than I had ever envisioned before
the essence of his regime had left something much more

He was divine in his capacity, elating me from within 
I would abide with obedience until his persistence would end
his hold so abundant propelled me to contend
All that I endured was complete in his mend

Indebted to the brisk of his delicate caress,
my mind was forsaken to all he possessed.
His dominance alluring, contained deep in my flesh,
my submission was his and he would accept nothing less.
                        



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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 6:52:42 PM   
jezabelKH


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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 6:55:14 PM   
enigmabrat


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Status: offline 		Someotimes I just need... well I hate to say beating because that sounds so bad (and Iv been beaten and its never something i want)
But sometimes I need to be spanked I just need it  not due to something iv done wrong...
thats when i think I get the most bratty when i really need a good spanking and I havent had one for a while... I become well antaganistic I guess,(like I may have been  in a few of these threads) So yeah I know the feeling of needing a good spanking just for the sake of needing one!!

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 7:58:58 PM   
LaMspeach


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Status: offline 		Yes, jali, it did make sense and i do understand, although i am not sure i can explain it either. Sometimes i just need to be beat, to be used as LaM sees fit, to feel his power over me. I need to feel put in my place. Once in a while just laying at his feet or doing something for him will help, but then there are other times, i just want to be beat. I want HIM  to hurt me. Then i get all confused and ask myself questions like why do you want Him to hurt me so badly. * sighs* I have stopped trying to figure it all out and just try to accept it as part of my submission to Him.  i do realize when i am stressed i crave a beating worse.  I don't want to high jack your thread but if you don't mind....  may i ask if any one else has ever felt badly for wanting/ craving that type of spanking so badly?  Don't get me wrong, LaM and i have great communication, I am allowed to ask/ communicate my wants/ needs, it is up to him if he wants to give it to me BUT when i am in mood like this and need this type of spanking i feel like if i ask for it, then it has lost it's purpose...  not sure if i am making sense now

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RE: A Good Beating - 6/15/2006 8:02:32 PM   
enigmabrat


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Status: offline 		Yes.. I know what you mean... If I ask for a spanking it sorta loses it... I dont know power??
I need to be grabbed by the arm tossed over a Doms knee or bed feel his forse as he strips me and spanks me hard me haveing no say in the matter..
knowiing I can sob and plead all I want and he wont stop till he wants to... I dont knwo why I need this I feel rather stupid for needing it but never the less it is what I need...

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