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RE: Am I switch or Dom? - 11/28/2012 12:48:25 PM

blimey69

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Hi SinFix

I rewrote it and jigged it about six times, then again as I was reading it through before I saved it bearing in mind what you had said.

Glad you approve, but want you to know I was listening to you, not writing down what I thought you might want to see. I did try and write it from the heart, and not just try to make it look right.

On fetlife now, and some local people are messaging me here on collarme. Hopefully they will realise I am genuine, and the rest will happen in due course.

Your guidance and advice has been really helpful. Thank you.

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RE: Am I switch or Dom? - 11/28/2012 12:54:10 PM

SinFix

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Blimey, you are very welcome. Hope things work out for you, though it sounds like things have taken a turn for the better. Good Luck and just always be ready to listen.

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RE: Am I switch or Dom? - 11/28/2012 1:50:11 PM

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You ARE genuine Blimey. We get lots and lots and lots and lots of "new masters" here who wouldn't be competent to lead a dog to a food dish much less own a human being. They are "fake" because they claim expertise and knowledge they cannot possibly possess or else don't claim it and don't care to even acknowledge the need. You, however, are a real human stepping into this whole mess with real questions and a real desire to learn and do the job right. That's as genuine as it gets in my eyes. You may be inexperienced but you certainly seem genuine to me.

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RE: Am I switch or Dom? - 12/2/2012 5:41:23 AM

blimey69

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I would like to thank everyone for their advice. I wont stop listening, and I am going to try and find a way to apply the advice that has been given.

There are no thoughts of 'giving up' in terms of the lifestyle I want that I think this lifestyle can provide. I just need to sit down and work out a way to get that across without being misunderstood, or shallow.

This has been the best learning experience I have ever had. For that I am veru grateful.

Thank you.
Kev

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