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tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 9:15:19 AM)

One of my most favorite features of CM is that your posting history is set in stone.

[;)]




GreedyTop -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 9:37:33 AM)

~FR~

that reminds me, I haven't checked my fet account in AGES.  I'll get around to it, I suppose.




DomMeinCT -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 12:53:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i agree with RS about how crappy the gui is over at FL, it truly sucks. but once you get past that, it's like 100, or a 1000 good discussion boards. here, you have one TWUE discussoin board run by a group of people who hide themselves behind sock mod accounts. I'll take getting used to a crappy gui over insanely absurd moderation here at CM.



Kettle? Meet pot.




OsideGirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 12:57:41 PM)

Yeah, my first thought was: "Yet, you keep coming back".




tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 1:03:53 PM)

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here, you have one TWUE discussoin board run by a group of people who hide themselves behind sock mod accounts.


Who hide themselves? Or could it be policy set by the owners.... hmmmm




stef -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 1:19:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Yeah, my first thought was: "Yet, you keep coming back".

Professional victims always come back. They have to. They can't help it.




Phoenixpower -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 1:23:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stellauk

Let me see.. there's a thread started going on about Islam, another going on about illegal immigrants, and now this one going on about people on Fetlife.

You know, masturbation is pretty effective at bringing relief in times of frustration and tension.


*adores* da Stella [:)][:)][:)]




JstAnotherSub -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 2:48:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i agree with RS about how crappy the gui is over at FL, it truly sucks. but once you get past that, it's like 100, or a 1000 good discussion boards. here, you have one TWUE discussoin board run by a group of people who hide themselves behind sock mod accounts. I'll take getting used to a crappy gui over insanely absurd moderation here at CM.

I hear ya. Between them and the fakes and the drama seeking drones and the whiney pussy types, this place totally sucks.




ResidentSadist -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 4:16:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic
....it's all transparent, unlike here. so when ModA says to cut it out over there, you know who that is. unlike here, when ModA says cut it out, you cannot see that ModA is so and so, who is very good friends with whoever they are protecting, ignoring their transgressions, while suspending their opponents. who the fuck needs to deal with that shit?........

The only "shit" I see is the bullshit you posted. I know and have known a majority of the mods here. I made avatars for them, went to events, have their home numbers, know there original account screen names before they became mods and I made a traffic and market value analysis of CollarMe for the owners . . . I sorta' feel like I knew who is under the hood so to speak. I never saw the favoritism you speak of . . . not even for me.

If you did see favoritism and a Mod was acting on something other than policy, do you expect me to believe you didn't report them to the Admin??? So I am not buying any of your reply and say the only "bullshit" I see is the farce you posted . . . just sayin'

I posted a pic, it was a artwork drawing of kid with a cup of coffee and the caption said, "unattended children will be given espresso". Having that pulled under the "no kids" TOS rule was just silly to me. But it's their job. They don't always study everything for an hour. At a glance they saw a pic of kid, they pulled it and sent the form letter to me. No big deal. Someone wasn't fully focused but so what? Better with the mods than without.

Part of my market value analysis of CollarMe uncovered 350 different pro sex workers using the site daily for profit. I think CollarMe is losing $16,000.00 a month on the pros and they should be paying for listings like any other escort site. So whenever I see a hooker post an ad in the Introductions, it sticks out in my mind. In the Introductions forum the other day poise pointed out one intro was really just an ad. I figured the thread would be pulled and posted a snotty comment. I'll never understand why I got a letter but the thread still stands. The mod was new to me and I wrote them. They were kind enough to reply that other fin/dom fetish threads like that stood and that was where they draw the lines. OK, mods are human and they each draw slightly different borderlines according to their perceptions . . . even when I am right and they are wrong. LMAO [;)]

So they are different, they are all doing their best. There is only a few of them and they got involved for free. They volunteered because they had user accounts here and liked the site. Their anonymity allows them to log on and continue using the site as a member instead of the job following them. The only payment they get is the reward of making this a better place and more fun to be a member. So your desire for transparency won't fly, it would fuck over all the volunteers.

At FetLife they have thousands of "mods" all lording over their own threads and each and every one of them has their own private agenda, control issues, unique set of bullshit and politics to deal with too. There is no boss, no Admin over all the mods like we have here. Over at FetLife you are the victim of thousands of different 50 Shades of Grey tourist that moderate their own threads. Thousands of sets of bullshit and politics and favoritism etc.

I say fuck that shit, letting unchained tourists run the forums is crazy. I think you got your concept of where the bullshit lies all backwards. You got the math and reality of it all wrong. FetLIfe is a thousand fold more full of shit than CollarMe. FetLIfe is 10,000 horny housewives with 50 Shades of Grey fantasies and those tourists were given the power to moderate their own dumb ass discussions without rank and order. There is only a small group of cool old school people there. That is why I do not waste time on their forums.

CollarMe is no bed of roses but it is a controlled, monitored and civil environment with a handful of Mods that enforce policy and answer to Admin. If you have a problem, write the Admin. Unlike FetLIfe, the thread starter here can't boot you out and the mods will defend your right to post within policy, even if it is to bash them and accuse them of favoritism... which in itself proves your reply invalid.

So to the FetLIfe refugees, I say welcome aboard. I think you will enjoy the unbiased freedoms within the TOS and especially appreciate that the mods and admin will respond to you.




mnottertail -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 4:21:01 PM)

 who is very good friends with whoever they are protecting, ignoring their transgressions, while suspending their opponents. who the fuck needs to deal with that shit?........
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BULL FUCKIN SHIT.   THERE ARE 'conservative' political groups who do just that, and they do it in spades, they got nobody watching them.  See how many political groups I have been kicked from, all conservative run by real shitbreathing cretinous cockgarglers.





LadyPact -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 4:26:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UnholyBear


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

This is going to be funny as hell.




I agree Lady P. Care to join me eating popcorn?
Always, My dear. I could watch a show and cuddle with you anytime. [:D]





ResidentSadist -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 5:24:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: UnholyBear
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
This is going to be funny as hell.


I agree Lady P. Care to join me eating popcorn?
Always, My dear. I could watch a show and cuddle with you anytime. [:D]



I wish I had refrained and stayed in the rafters with you guys. I had chicken cooking and accidentally replied while waiting. I knew better.




LadyPact -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 10:08:35 PM)

Well, the important question must be asked....... Did you burn the chicken?

RS, should you happen to see this comment, I would very much like to talk with you about how you determine your research. My way is probably rather backwards, so I would very much like to discuss how you do yours.




DesFIP -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/7/2012 10:20:37 PM)

Speaking of chicken, one of my favorite fl groups is one owned by a professional chef. Perfect for us fat foodies!




mnottertail -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/8/2012 7:27:37 AM)

Leave it to you to turn everything into a fatgirl thread.......




FreeFromSin -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/10/2012 5:31:28 PM)

Fet is so-so. The individual group leaders seem cool.

Only found one to be a total prick. Oh, and some nutcase woman or two... left-winged lunatics.

They censor and threaten you for no reason. But two or one mod on Collar Me deleted a couple of my postings for absolutely no reason, either; other than they disagreed with my point-of-view or pretended it was irrelevant when in fact I took a lot of effort to illustrate my views.

Sad when we encounter rude, cruel, mean people. You gotta let it roll offa you. Met blind dates from both sites but haven't met any real people without a hidden agenda, or that were honest and true, yet.

Haven't met any. Hmmmm.... probably rare to find quality ppl on sex or kink hook up sites.




tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/10/2012 5:35:09 PM)

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Only found one to be a total prick. Oh, and some nutcase woman or two... left-winged lunatics.


hahahaha

Then you are going to hate it here.




outhere69 -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/10/2012 8:27:07 PM)

Looks like nick and Jonc and a bunch of their socks. Dayum. Sounds like they got their knickers so twisted that it cut off blood flow to the brain. (the big brain)




searching4mysir -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/10/2012 8:36:14 PM)


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Sad when we encounter rude, cruel, mean people.



BDSM is filled with sadists. What else would you expect?


LOL




TNDommeK -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/10/2012 9:02:51 PM)

I'm on fetlife (SteelxStilettos). You guys can add Me as a friend there if you like.




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