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UnholyBear -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/10/2012 9:44:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: UnholyBear
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
This is going to be funny as hell.


I agree Lady P. Care to join me eating popcorn?
Always, My dear. I could watch a show and cuddle with you anytime. [:D]



I wish I had refrained and stayed in the rafters with you guys. I had chicken cooking and accidentally replied while waiting. I knew better.



Well RS, you can join me anytime *grinz*

At least that is when Lady P is done cuddling!



Nelee -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/11/2012 8:45:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub


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ORIGINAL: Jonc101

I've only met one newbie from FetLife, see my avatar!

but I've knocked back a few of the fatties. So, it all depends what you'r looking for.

FJ

They have a pot smokin group on FL? Shit Ima headed that way!!!


Already joined, my friend. Peace and love, and exploring the universe, man.

(Wait, this isn't how stoners actually talk? Oops...)



Karmastic -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:25:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

One of my most favorite features of CM is that your posting history is set in stone.

[;)]


as is your posting history on FL. next misconception...



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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i agree with RS about how crappy the gui is over at FL, it truly sucks. but once you get past that, it's like 100, or a 1000 good discussion boards. here, you have one TWUE discussoin board run by a group of people who hide themselves behind sock mod accounts. I'll take getting used to a crappy gui over insanely absurd moderation here at CM.



Kettle? Meet pot.


what on earth are you talking about? i don't hide behind sock accounts. wow, what's wrong with you? hurt much inside?



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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Yeah, my first thought was: "Yet, you keep coming back".


my first thought is, that i haven't been here for months, and nasty people like you are the reason. what on earth drives people like you to lash out at someone personally, giggling all sycophantic like wittle bwullies.




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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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here, you have one TWUE discussoin board run by a group of people who hide themselves behind sock mod accounts.


Who hide themselves? Or could it be policy set by the owners.... hmmmm


where did i say it wasn't? really, what on earth is wrong with you, that you choose to warp something i said into something else, just to try and disparage me. wow.



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ORIGINAL: stef


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Yeah, my first thought was: "Yet, you keep coming back".

Professional victims always come back. They have to. They can't help it.



see above for the reality check darlin, haven't been here for months, and only found this from a link at FL. don't worry, just visiting, to remanice about people who must truly truly hurt inside, to wish to lash out so ridiculously at some dude on the net they don't know. textbook self loathers.




Karmastic -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:36:28 PM)

ResidentSadist, it's sad that you stoop to personal attacks because someone doesn't like your baby.

of course i complained to the head alpha mod (admin?). timestamps showing that the person i was supposedly "stalking" was instead posting AFTER me, within an hour. so when reality is twisted 180 degrees, i left. and i stand behind my criticism, that there is clearly favoritism. to deny it is like being the emperor with no clothes...that's your prerogative.

and i stand behind my criticism that having sock accounts for mods is antithetical, and even detracts from having fair moderation. it's hidden that so and so had beers with the person who's telling you that your account is a sock account, and getting all pissy about an absurdly idioctic thought. and who had beers with the person who feebly try and chide me for being a professional victim, as they spew their self loathing vitriol.

just wow folks, you do satisfy my sadistic side, the need to see people get all butthurt and like the fox TV series of shows...

"Regulars who attack", you sycophantically gwang gwup and pwounce. so freaking preDICKtable.

and for fucks sake, just look at the conduct in this very thread, clear cut personal attacks, NONE of them moderated.

cue 4 regs telling me I'm the one who's butthurt, for simply reflecting every bit of vitriol you initiate yourself, personally, towards me right back at ya.



tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:44:18 PM)

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as is your posting history on FL. next misconception...


lol.... and you took that as me comparing that to fet.... how cute!

And this wasnt even addressed to you... lol

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where did i say it wasn't? really, what on earth is wrong with you, that you choose to warp something i said into something else, just to try and disparage me. wow.


Tsk tsk... you are very touchy, arent ya. If you dont like the moderation here, then take your ball and go home.

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don't worry, just visiting, to remanice about people who must truly truly hurt inside, to wish to lash out so ridiculously at some dude on the net they don't know. textbook self loathers.


Yay!






Karmastic -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:47:39 PM)

one more thought...y'all might wanna start thinking about criticizing ideas, and concepts, and behavior, rather than people. then you won't look like a bunch of provincial dicks sitting in a very, very, very small pond, whining about the thousands of housewives over at FL, while ignoring the thousands of groups at FL, plenty of which are worse, but just like having ET life, the odds are, many are good, and TWUELY make this board seem exactly like what it is...a TWUE discussion board. and for the dolts, i'm not criticizing anyone's kink or WIITWD, i'm cricizing the board as being absurd.



tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:49:33 PM)

LOL

Dude.... you are butthurt. Your every post is showing it.



Karmastic -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:52:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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as is your posting history on FL. next misconception...


lol.... and you took that as me comparing that to fet.... how cute!

And this wasnt even addressed to you... lol

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where did i say it wasn't? really, what on earth is wrong with you, that you choose to warp something i said into something else, just to try and disparage me. wow.


Tsk tsk... you are very touchy, arent ya. If you dont like the moderation here, then take your ball and go home.

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don't worry, just visiting, to remanice about people who must truly truly hurt inside, to wish to lash out so ridiculously at some dude on the net they don't know. textbook self loathers.


Yay!



hello, what other two boards are being discussed? and yes, YOU addressed it, your words,

didn't bother to read the rest of your posts, you're just so far out it's absurd.



Karmastic -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:53:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

LOL

Dude.... you are butthurt. Your every post is showing it.


tee hee hee, tee hee, looks who's butthurt, haha, haha!

lo fucking l, listen to yourself girl. why the fake av pic of a woman who actually takes care of herself?

oooh, i forgot one other idiotic thing you said, about your posts being set in stone here at CM...duf, look below, what does that say?



Karmastic -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:56:41 PM)

cue mod suspending ME for personal attacks, then making plans for beers later.



tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:57:55 PM)

Now now... you are attacking the poster and not the post.... such bad manners.

But thats ok. Everyone knows thats not me. I hide nothing. Its actually up because some members of the boards suggested more pics of ass spanking and such.

Its gotta really suck to know your digs hit way off mark!

Pst... guess the blue man is you... seems... appropriate!



tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 8:59:54 PM)

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hello, what other two boards are being discussed? and yes, YOU addressed it, your words,

didn't bother to read the rest of your posts, you're just so far out it's absurd.


Considering you cant even tell who is posting in response to who, yeah, you wouldnt get it. No use in explaining it to you.



littlewonder -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/13/2012 11:23:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

of course i complained to the head alpha mod (admin?). timestamps showing that the person i was supposedly "stalking" was instead posting AFTER me, within an hour. so when reality is twisted 180 degrees, i left. and i stand behind my criticism, that there is clearly favoritism. to deny it is like being the emperor with no clothes...that's your prerogative.



Do Do Do Do

[sm=abducted.gif]



tazzygirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/14/2012 12:40:09 AM)

Im still trying to remember the last time I heard a man go... "tee hee hee"



stef -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/14/2012 12:46:39 AM)


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Im still trying to remember the last time I heard a man go... "tee hee hee"

He's not a man.



lovmuffin -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/14/2012 5:18:53 AM)

H
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Now now... you are attacking the poster and not the post.... such bad manners.

But thats ok. Everyone knows thats not me. I hide nothing. Its actually up because some members of the boards suggested more pics of ass spanking and such.

Its gotta really suck to know your digs hit way off mark!

Pst... guess the blue man is you... seems... appropriate!



Oh man, that really not you ? My whole perception of you is going to change.



came4U -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/14/2012 6:19:37 AM)

I read this whole thing, no clue what you are all talking about but it is nutters whatever it is.

All this finger pointing or nose pickin'- pretendin' not to care one way or the other nonsense. eesh

It is all a reminder (or should be) to take a time-out from doing this (forum) stuff to get some perspective on how the real world goes works. Any website (of free content or pay as you go) has the same issues--power trips. Power trips from people who are perhaps addicted to the whole idea (because you have a whole whak of imaginary or even real-life fwiends that you have met here) of eventually being part of a group of a group of a group, within a group of a group of ...*infinity* until you have the so-called elite from the bla bla bla

I think the point is that eventually the / any clique will grow until it self-destructs upon itself. I have to say, that especially online where it is easy to be tough(er) than one actually is (when in fact that is untrue, otherwise you wouldn't need 16 other people to confirm your say-so as God's word) or smart(er) than one is (thanks to Google-itis) anyone can be in a clique butttttttt....

Isn't it counter-productive to be in any such said 'group' and end up just yet another means of a heirarchy (I mean don't we get that enough in real life??) of random people (in this case BDSM'ers) who may claim that they are the experts of the experts..etc etc? Who is anyone who posts here (on the topic of BDSM) any more capabl, valuable or 'genuine' at their skill level (in this case: D, s,) and who and why are some categorized as such 'elitists'? Is it the post count that gives one their experience level status? Is it the years they have practiced bdsm? Is it the number of Doms/subs or perhaps the number of years they have been sucessful at keeping one?

Doesn't anyone see this as de-evolvement as a process? As in losing the ability to function without being pat on the back by strangers or the friends one has accumulated? Is it highschool all over again? Is this a School A vs School B feud? or is it an internal issue that is so blatantly predictable that you have to be on the OUTSIDE-looking in, to see??? Soooo many questions, sorry.

Hell, I forgot my origional point now after rambling on, perhaps it has been discussed elsewhere but I am too tired (ok, lazy) to use that magic search button option.








OsideGirl -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/14/2012 9:17:56 AM)

I don't understand why people who don't like it here, keep coming back.

If I don't like a forum, I don't hang out on it. But, yet we have a couple of people that keep coming back into the forums for the sole purpose of bashing the site and everyone on it. Seems counter productive to being happy, not to mention meeting the definition of insanity. (Doing the same thing expecting different results).



VideoAdminChi -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/14/2012 2:38:23 PM)

FR,

Locked for review.



VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: FetLife refugees! (12/14/2012 2:53:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

cue mod suspending ME for personal attacks, then making plans for beers later.



OK Im going to unlock this. This was an acceptable thread, both good and bad remarks, until near the last posted. We have tried to let it go because of the accusations of mod favoritism, but some just HAD to push the envelope well beyond normal markers.

I'm not sure if that remark was intended at me, because Im the one that ultimately approved your suspension before it happened, and I DONT drink beer.


The rest is a fast reply to everyone.:

Let's take a breath, is it really worth a gold letter and/or moderation because someone has tripped all your triggers? The sound of one hand clapping is........do not respond to any posts, whether here or any other thread, that threatens to make you lose your composure. If everyone feels triggered to answer a certain remark, no matter what thread it is on, and NOONE answers that post, but other posts they wish to answer in that thread, that post will become ONE hand, clapping in the wind, with no measurable resonance or effect whatsoever, no matter what effect the poster intended it to have.

Edited to add: I am not issuing gold letters thus far, because there were also people who violated tos simply because they reacted to being baited. Fair warning, no further allowances on this thread for ANYONE>



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