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tazzygirl -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 10:52:25 AM)

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For Tazzy: pregnancy is only 9 months, not a whole year.
I know many women that have had babies from week 34 onwards.
Heck, both of my kids were born at 32 weeks. That makes the gestation period just under 8 months.


LOL

ok.. lets break this down

9 months per child... x 6

72 months

Then there is the down time between each child.

That is assuming she goes home and fucks, getting pregnant as soon as she stops bleeding. Not unheard of, but also not as likely as most want to believe. Add in breast feeding and its even longer... so lets go with 3 months between delivery and getting pregnant.

That makes it a year with each child.

So, now we are into 7 years if she is "visibly with child"

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2) A young girl (under 20), visibly pregnant with 6 kids and a new boyfriend. Been waiting about 6 months for somewhere to live because her mum was fed up with all the kids living at home. She openly admitted that she wants as many kids as possible so the council will provide a decent home for her and her boyfriend and lots of money in benefits.


19 - 7 years = 12. Which means she would have gotten pregnant at 11, barely 12 at the latest.

Now, we can get into the whole breastfeeding debate or how many werte twins or whatnot.... doesnt matter. It could have been it took her 11 months from one pregnancy to the next... and the next took 13.

I may not know much about the Middle East.... and I may be a bit fuzzy on macroeconomics.... but Pregnancy/Labor and Delivery is my area.




Politesub53 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:01:24 AM)


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1


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ORIGINAL: jlf1961
A recovering drug addict fresh out of rehab has a better chance at job training than someone that has been on disability. Actually, there are more federal programs for single parents of either sex to go to vocational school, tech school, get an associates degree or go into nursing.

Not that there are problems with those programs. I just think the job training programs in the US are lacking and do not address all ages or problems.


Same here in the UK.
If you are a druggie coming out of rehab, or a crook coming out of prison, you can get loads of help through many various agencies and government departments.
But, if you are a 'normal' person struggling to find a job or a home, you are on your own; no help whatsoever.
We were told by the housing department that we could sleep in a shop doorway even though we are both disabled. The 'system' doesn't treat us any differently to a 'normal' person.



Shakes head in dismay. You must live in another UK than me. Its bullshit to suggest the local housing deprtment would even suggest such a thing.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:02:18 AM)

You really think there is 3 months between dropping one brat and getting pregnant??

I think you should try telling that to those girls over here that are playing the system.
18 months tops is 2 kids.

Remember, we aren't talking about normal and rational situations here.
They are wanting to drop the brat as soon as possible and fuck like rabbits with as many men as possible to get pregnant again.
Most sensible people wouldn't do what they do.

You are trying to apply normal and sane thinking to an irrational person.
Their whole mindset is to have as many brats as possible to grab as much as they can from the system.
The more kids they have the more money they get and also bigger houses to live in.
If they let them run riot with no correction, they claim their kids are ADD or ADHD and claim disability benefits on top of all the rest.
All they can see is £££'s and a nice big home - all paid for on benefits.




Politesub53 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:08:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

You really think there is 3 months between dropping one brat and getting pregnant??

I think you should try telling that to those girls over here that are playing the system.
18 months tops is 2 kids.

Remember, we aren't talking about normal and rational situations here.
They are wanting to drop the brat as soon as possible and fuck like rabbits with as many men as possible to get pregnant again.
Most sensible people wouldn't do what they do.

You are trying to apply normal and sane thinking to an irrational person.
Their whole mindset is to have as many brats as possible to grab as much as they can from the system.
The more kids they have the more money they get and also bigger houses to live in.
If they let them run riot with no correction, they claim their kids are ADD or ADHD and claim disability benefits on top of all the rest.
All they can see is £££'s and a nice big home - all paid for on benefits.




FFs 18 months tops for two kids...... Dont you have an abacus ?




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:11:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53
Shakes head in dismay. You must live in another UK than me. Its bullshit to suggest the local housing deprtment would even suggest such a thing.



Ok.
Try -
Spalding, Boston, March, Ely, Peterborough, Cambridge, Hull, Goole, Scunthorpe, Halifax, Grantham, Stamford, Romford, Dagenham, Colchester, Rainham, Sittingbourne, Faversham, Sheerness, Gravesend, Maidstone, and last but not least, Medway.

I've lived in all of those places and met the same response.
We aren't in one of those "special groups" so don't qualify for any additional help whatsoever.
And yes, when we complained, we were told that we could live in a shop doorway or on waste ground as we weren't considered as "special needs".

Go figure!




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:14:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53
FFs 18 months tops for two kids...... Dont you have an abacus ?


Well now... lets see.
Average time being pregnant - 34-35 weeks for these youngsters.
barely a week between dropping the brat and getting pregnant again - that makes 2 kids, both dropped, within 70 weeks.
My abacus says thats 1 year and 18 weeks.
So that's barely 18 months.

Do you have a different abacus to mine??

And before you say it doesn't happen.. BS! Our immediate neighbour did just that!!




PeonForHer -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:15:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

You really think there is 3 months between dropping one brat and getting pregnant??




Did you miss the bit where Tazzy said that she was trained in these things, FD?




Aswad -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:22:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

Pulling your children out of a learn-to-read program so you don't fuck up the welfare isn't "taking advantage," Erie.


Sounds like common sense. If the kids won't have a roof over their head, or food on the table, it doesn't matter much if they can read and write. Of course, it strikes me as ludicrous to require parents to be the only ones to invest in children that will be supporting the population and building our futures in the first place.

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It ought to be grounds for removing those children from the home.


In cases where the family can get by without what they'd otherwise lose, certainly.

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ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

Socialism isn't this generous or stupid with money, a socialist government would put the money into the education system to improve it.


Bullshit. I live in a socialist country, and the only time our education system improves, is on the rare occasion that the non-socialist parties get their hands on it. The socialists have managed to bring it to an all time low, to the extent that after their last term, we've ended up with worse education levels than the USA(!). Same thing with research, and (ironically) welfare. Finland killed off most of its socialists during the civil war, way back when, and are one of the best countries in the world with regard to education, and doing quite well as far as research goes; no idea how they're doing with welfare, save that they're miles ahead of the US, of course.

In my experience, the people looking out for their own interests are usually good news, because my best interests tend to align with their best interests, while the ones looking out for others tend to have an idea of my best interests that doesn't align with what I consider to be my best interests and thus just make things more difficult with the occasional and incidental benefits as mere side effects of what they're doing.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That punishes the kids, though - it wasn't their fault they got born.


It doesn't punish them. It just doesn't help them. The parents are the ones that landed them in a fucked up situation to begin with. Sad fact of life: if one is born to shitty parents, one is all kinds of screwed, regardless. There's some that turn out great, but as far as I can tell, those are the ones that would've turned out truly excellent if they had good parents. In essence, helping those kids also means enabling shitty parents, which is detrimental to everyone in the long run.

That said, I'm not convinced capping the benefits is going to be a good choice, either, for the simple reason that it doesn't seem to stop those parents (they're willing to subject children to any standard of living, apparently), and that this means those children then end up being even more expensive through crime and so forth.

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

If you are a druggie coming out of rehab, or a crook coming out of prison, you can get loads of help through many various agencies and government departments.


Excellent!

Let's all hope they keep that in place; the alternative would be exceedingly expensive.

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But, if you are a 'normal' person struggling to find a job or a home, you are on your own; no help whatsoever. We were told by the housing department that we could sleep in a shop doorway even though we are both disabled. The 'system' doesn't treat us any differently to a 'normal' person.


See, now, here's an area where some improvements would be in order.

In Norway, if a citizen lacks housing, the state must provide some form of housing within 72 hours, even if that means checking you in at a hotel and them paying through the nose for it. Of course, conversely, you can't legally be without a (registered) permanent residence, even should you want to be (e.g. you can't legally live on a boat here), which I think is rather sick.

Of course, sometimes, shitheads will do something they're not supposed to, and then you may be screwed, if there isn't something in place to curb the beurocrats (or if you lack the means to pursue whatever is in place, which is often the case here).

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Shakes head in dismay. You must live in another UK than me. Its bullshit to suggest the local housing deprtment would even suggest such a thing.


In all fairness, Politesub, it isn't exactly unheard of for some beurocrats to do crazy things, or for corner cases to exist where people end up between chairs, so to speak. I see this all the time in Norway, incidentally, despite the fact that the law technically provides for up to six years in prison for beurocrats that abuse or mishandle their position in such a way (I've never seen anyone get more than a slap on the wrist, though, except when the person suffering at the beurocrat's hands happens to have enough energy left to really pursue the matter, in which case I've seen people lose their jobs over it, at least).

And, yes, before I saw it myself, my response would've been as yours is.

How things should work isn't always how they do work, particularly if the system permits rotten apples to stay in the basket.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:23:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

You really think there is 3 months between dropping one brat and getting pregnant??




Did you miss the bit where Tazzy said that she was trained in these things, FD?


Trained or not, I've seen these things with my own eyes.

My first wife, if the dates are right, must have fallen pregnant within days of losing our first one at 3 days old because our next one was born at 32 weeks from his death - give or take a day or two.


Edit for Aswad: Unfortunately, sad as it seems, you can live in the UK without a permanent address. And I have lived, several times, in my car for many weeks until I found somewhere to rent.





tazzygirl -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:24:04 AM)

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You really think there is 3 months between dropping one brat and getting pregnant??

I think you should try telling that to those girls over here that are playing the system.
18 months tops is 2 kids.


You are selectively reading again.

Does she breast feed? If yes, the chances are it takes longer.

When did she stop bleeding after delivery?

When did her first period begin after giving birth?

Was she on any birth control at all?

Unless you can answer all those questions.. and those are just the basics, then you cannot possibly know her ability to procreate.

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Remember, we aren't talking about normal and rational situations here.
They are wanting to drop the brat as soon as possible and fuck like rabbits with as many men as possible to get pregnant again.
Most sensible people wouldn't do what they do.


So you are calling her a slut simply to suit your own needs.

How many were multiples?

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You are trying to apply normal and sane thinking to an irrational person.


No, I am applying what I know in the field to your scenario. Your children were early. Every child in my family was over due.

IF what you insist is true... and you have no basis of fact for that... the oldest she could have been would be 14 when she first got pregnant, and then she would have to have dropped a kid every nine months to the day in order to have 6 kids at 19.. and that isnt even counting the current pregnancy.

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The more kids they have the more money they get and also bigger houses to live in.


No one is disputing that fact.

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If they let them run riot with no correction, they claim their kids are ADD or ADHD and claim disability benefits on top of all the rest.
All they can see is £££'s and a nice big home - all paid for on benefits.


That has nothing to do with being physically able to have that many children at age 19 with no multiple births.

So, lets cut the difference between your 14 and my 12 and say she started at age 13.

I delivered a baby to a girl that age. Not even a skid mark. (meaning tears or lacerations) The OBGYN told the mother "You have a baby making machine. Better get her on borth control or we will see her back in a year. Sure enough, we did.

Or maybe I should tell you how many girls we got back into OB because they went home and started anal sex before their episiotomy healed. Yep.. ripped.

These are all situations you arent taking into account with your number system.




tazzygirl -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:30:13 AM)

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My first wife, if the dates are right, must have fallen pregnant within days of losing our first one at 3 days old because our next one was born at 32 weeks from his death - give or take a day or two.


32 weeks isnt 8 months.. thats a fallacy.

Some months have 5 weeks... so to say at 32 weeks she is 8 months is just not correct. Nor does it mean much in medical lingo.

If you really want to be technical in your numbers, the normal genstational period of a fetus is 10 months.... 40 weeks.

So, 32 weeks is actually very premature.

Want to know how accurate the dates are? Ask for the Dubowitz score.... its more accurate than just a guess on a wheel.

http://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Dubowitz+score




tazzygirl -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:34:02 AM)

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Average time being pregnant - 34-35 weeks for these youngsters.
barely a week between dropping the brat and getting pregnant again - that makes 2 kids,


Oh ffs.... what a load of crap. A week???? Hell, she hasnt stopped bleeding from the delivery yet.




Aswad -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:34:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Did you miss the bit where Tazzy said that she was trained in these things, FD?


In all fairness, it can happen after mere weeks. That said, it usually takes months to conceive, even if you don't breastfeed the kid, and breastfeeding is about the most effective means of contraception out there. Of course one shouldn't really have them any closer than 18 months, with the best results being a spacing of 30 months.

In short, he's encountered an exceedingly unusual case, and he's generalized from it.

Unfortunate, but a common mistake. From a sample in my house, I could conclude that clovers usually have four leaves, but sometimes five. Looking into the actual data, or foraging a bit, I would find that clovers usually have three leaves, that four is rare, and that five is extremely rare. Most people don't look for data beyond what they've accidentally come across, however, and so may be left with equally messed up generalizations in areas where messing up is pretty serious. The even worse one is assuming counterpoints are exceptions to a correct generalization, rather than reassessing the correctness of the generalization itself. People do that, too, all the time.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:38:06 AM)

Tazzy: I can only recount on actual cases that I have seen and witnessed myself.

That would include my first wife and one of her sisters.
My sister-in-law.
My immediate neighbour.
And the sister of one of my childrens' friends that I know personally. In her case, she was known to be sleeping with up to 6 or 7 different men every single day until she got pregnant again - most of which she picked up at bars or from the streets.
The slut I tried to rehabilitate and failed miserably (the one I mentioned in another thread where I was in court for helping to move a dead body). I know for a fact that she turned at least a dozen tricks every evening in a bid to get pregnant. I think in her case the drugs seemed to stop her getting pregnant.


Not every woman is the same and needs to wait the obligatory time like many sensible people would.

I'm not generalizing it - I'm just stating known cases where this has happened and its not as unique as you seem to make it out to be.




tazzygirl -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:42:36 AM)

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In all fairness, it can happen after mere weeks. That said, it usually takes months to conceive, even if you don't breastfeed the kid, and breastfeeding is about the most effective means of contraception out there. Of course one shouldn't really have them any closer than 18 months, with the best results being a spacing of 30 months.


Yes, it can happen within a few short weeks. But thats far from the norm. And for that to happen multiple times to the same woman is extremely rare. He is applying that exceedingly rare occurrence to happen 6 times to one woman.

Im not buying it.




Aswad -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:44:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Yes, it can happen within a few short weeks. But thats far from the norm. And for that to happen multiple times to the same woman is extremely rare. He is applying that exceedingly rare occurrence to happen 6 times to one woman. Im not buying it.


I believe this is what I said. Or, at least, tried to say.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




tazzygirl -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:44:51 AM)

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Tazzy: I can only recount on actual cases that I have seen and witnessed myself.

That would include my first wife and one of her sisters.
My sister-in-law.
My immediate neighbour.


And I can only recount what years in the field, and medical knowledge, has taught me. On paper, it may add up for you. In reality, it would be extremely rare.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:50:13 AM)

I'm not saying it's common. Far from it.

But... It does happen.
And if its one of those stupid people that play the system, it seems that they will go to any lengths just to fiddle the system of as much cash as they can legitimately get.

Personally, I think it's morally wrong and why I think it's a good idea to cap the system so these rogues can't fiddle more money just because they are fortunate enough to be able to do so.
I think the main thing that really gets my goat is the fact that they openly admit it's what they are doing and they get away with it because the system is the way it is.




tazzygirl -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 11:56:30 AM)

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I'm not saying it's common. Far from it.

But... It does happen.


Its not going to happen to a woman 6 times.

As far as capping the system. What happens if a woman gets raped while on the program and keeps the baby? Then she is now penalized for being raped. Thats not gonna happen.. so they make an exception for rape.

How many women would then scream they have been raped?

Its far better to limit the time, insist they get an education in a marketable skill, then to say.. more kids and you get no more money.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Welfare scrounging - about as low as it gets (12/13/2012 12:06:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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I'm not saying it's common. Far from it.

But... It does happen.


Its not going to happen to a woman 6 times.

As far as capping the system. What happens if a woman gets raped while on the program and keeps the baby? Then she is now penalized for being raped. Thats not gonna happen.. so they make an exception for rape.

How many women would then scream they have been raped?

Its far better to limit the time, insist they get an education in a marketable skill, then to say.. more kids and you get no more money.


Sorry Taz, I know of at least 3 people in my small circle where that has happened.
That's probably about 1% of my total circle of family and friends.
I know you shouldn't extrapolate to encompass the whole population but isn't that exactly what all these studies and polls and adverts do?
So lets be really generous and say it's only 0.1% - extrapolated across the country, that's still an awful lot of "it's not going to happen to a woman 6 times".

As for getting an education in anything let alone a marketable skill, for most of the people on benefits, that isn't an option in the UK - there just aren't that many opportunities or available training places to do that.

And your last bit... Isn't that exactly what I've just said??
Cap the system so you get no further help after x many kids?







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