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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/10/2012 11:50:48 PM

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There goes my plans to re-create myself into a Finsub.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/11/2012 7:55:29 AM

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doh! I didn't even catch the pro photographer and cell phone picture. lol

I am not a photographer, but if I was I'd be sure that every photo taken by me that I allowed to be shown publicly would be my very best work, as a point of pride. Kinda like a manicurist with dirty fingernails when they don't - wasted advertising. It's only going to make people doubt the veracity of their claims of expertise.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/11/2012 1:07:04 PM

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Not by me you wont, reality and respect has to be earned.

Good luck with your gormless bunch of subs prepared to worship nonsense.

Professional photographer, most amusing

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/11/2012 4:54:01 PM

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I'm not exactly here to find clients hahaha
So I'm not too worried about it. I don't take professional pictures every time I want a snap shot of muhself!

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/11/2012 5:09:31 PM

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b)most of the young, beautiful women are prodommes or findoms,

Most of the young, beautiful women aren't Dommes at all. They're just a bunch of women that figured out that the numbers imbalance means that there are some very desperate men who are willing to pay/give gifts to someone that acts like a bitchy twat.

I believe that there are financial Dominants...and then a bunch of wannabes.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/11/2012 6:25:44 PM

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the big deal is that most of the young, beautiful women prodommes or findoms ARE FAKE

FTFY
and removed the nice sideswipe of manogyny while I was at it.

Puulllleeeze.
I've been kicking round the fetish scene forever, all over America. I have never, as in ever, seen a single live scene where there are more Domme females than submissive's (it's just not the way most women are wired. Sorry, but that's the truth as I've experienced it)but online the numbers are almost reversed, and getting more so by the day.
Hell, I've watched the shift in the years I've been on here. There used to be lots more sub women than tops on here, but that's been dramatically changing in recent years.
Why?
I believe Oside gal may just have provided the answer.

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Most of the young, beautiful women aren't Dommes at all. They're just a bunch of women that figured out that the numbers imbalance means that there are some very desperate men who are willing to pay/give gifts to someone that acts like a bitchy twat.

I believe that there are financial Dominants...and then a bunch of wannabes.

I mean shit, call me crazy, but I have this irrational old fashioned idea that before one can be a dominant, they should first (Rule number one in the One Twue Doms handbook) have a clue, and secondly, have done something, even one teeny tiny little thing to be worthy of the title.
And with that, I'll step out of this never ending merry-go-round of a debate

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/12/2012 1:35:40 AM

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I'm not exactly here to find clients hahaha
So I'm not too worried about it. I don't take professional pictures every time I want a snap shot of muhself!

No I know you're not here looking for photography clients, but it doesn't mean that someone who was considering you won't come across you here. Maybe I'm just a perfectionist, but if I were a pro photographer I'd want all my public photos to show that professionalism. I guess for me it would be worth making the effort for a profile photo, at least once. I'm sure you must have some good quality self portraits from when you've been practicing with lighting and exposure?

Anyway, sorry, not a criticism, just happens that you're about the fourth person I've seen this month who says they are a professional but only has mirror shots. It really surprises me.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/12/2012 2:57:17 AM

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I'm 23, and I can't stand profiles written like hers. Really, we're this young and deserve to be handed the world on a silver platter? That sounds all lovely and whatnot and what have you, but really? Come on now. EARN the respect and actually work for your living before trying to say you DESERVE it. I've met Dommes on here who could snap their fingers and have money pouring in, but they aren't going to do that because they haven't EARNED it by doing anything. Want to be a pro-domme? Good for you. But you still need to work for it. Nothing in life comes for free, and if it does remember "if it seems to good to be true, it is"

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/12/2012 6:45:05 PM

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My experience has been that many people on these sites that say they are "professional" photographers, they mean they have taken pictures on their iphone and then just did some photoshopping and others asked them to do that for their photo.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/12/2012 7:34:30 PM

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doh! I didn't even catch the pro photographer and cell phone picture. lol

And get off your knees.

Be you, but learn as you go. Nothing wrong with taking advice to older more experienced Domme. Kudos to you for rolling with the punches.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/12/2012 9:41:29 PM

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I have self portraits besides ones from test shots
This is what my real photography looks like though

Self portraits from when I first started learning Lightroom

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/13/2012 12:59:43 AM

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I think those are very pretty. I like that sort of thing. *big Cheshire cat smile*

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/13/2012 7:00:45 PM

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To the op, so why not post one of those of yourself? I'm thinking one of those is you. I think you would find many more people contacting you if that's what you want. If you don't then yeah, just leave what you have.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/13/2012 7:03:35 PM

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To the op, so why not post one of those of yourself? I'm thinking one of those is you. I think you would find many more people contacting you if that's what you want. If you don't then yeah, just leave what you have.

Yeah, but she'd also get a lot of people calling her a fake because those are obviously professional photos. It's probably better to go with a snap shot in that regard.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/13/2012 7:10:45 PM

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Well being she's a findomme, I would think she would want to look professional. I dunno.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/13/2012 7:16:24 PM

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Regardless, I think they're great photos.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/13/2012 10:44:28 PM

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Those are pretty cool.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/13/2012 10:55:07 PM

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To the op, so why not post one of those of yourself? I'm thinking one of those is you. I think you would find many more people contacting you if that's what you want. If you don't then yeah, just leave what you have.

Yeah, but she'd also get a lot of people calling her a fake because those are obviously professional photos. It's probably better to go with a snap shot in that regard.

Yes you make a good point, I wasn't thinking of that. Sounds like pro photos + snapshot = win
I liked the last one.

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/14/2012 3:01:02 AM

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Aw, shucks ya'll :3

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RE: What's the big deal about FinDoms? - 12/14/2012 6:31:22 AM

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