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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
Do you have permission to post pictures of partners on here or are you a glutton for lawsuits?

Seriously, that's about the STUPIDEST fucking thing Ive heard lately.

As for posting, how would you be sure I don't just pick up candid pics out of an album?

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ORIGINAL: Dirk1986

Does anyone have any advice on how to prove the legitimacy of someone without video or voice chat? I understand that subs and slaves have ran into a thousand scammers that that is there only goal is to get them on Skype, so I can understand there reasons, but there has to be some way to gain enough trust to get to that point.

Thanks :)

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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser

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ORIGINAL: Dirk1986

Does anyone have any advice on how to prove the legitimacy of someone without video or voice chat? I understand that subs and slaves have ran into a thousand scammers that that is there only goal is to get them on Skype, so I can understand there reasons, but there has to be some way to gain enough trust to get to that point.

Thanks :)

If you can't see them, and you can't talk to them, I'm not sure what you're doing with them, but it's probably not communication. That said, the word that stuck out for me like a sore thumb was trust.

Look at the people who do trust you and ask yourself why they do. They probably took the time to get to know you and are compatible with you on one or more levels. Past all the sex and kink, the person you want to meet is still a person. Apply the same rules and you'll meet more success.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious511

Then post a photo or any evidence whatsoever of the last female entity you met on this site who was under 30 years old and weighed less than 160 lbs.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious511

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ORIGINAL: Kaliko
Uh...do you want to re-read my post? I was agreeing with you. Much to my chagrin.

I didn't read past the first paragraph, admittedly. Now that I have, I don't take back anything I wrote. I would simply direct it at others on this site rather than you.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Ya know, funny thing. I don't think I've ever asked anyone for a pic, much less cam verification (I know I haven't done that. I don't own a webcam and my firewalls get all screwy when I try to accept another's cam) and over the years I've done quite well on here.
Why?
Well gee, lets start with the minor fact that I have a brain, and even more shockingly, use it.
Most fakes are obviously so (Cuz they can't speak english), and the ones that don't reveal on the first mail show their colors by mail number three.
If you can't sport the vast majority merely by talking with em, maybe domming isn't the right line of work, cuz it takes things like, you know, insight and intuitive thinking, reading others, learning to read between the behavioral lines.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious511



You want a guy with a job, a house, who isn't cheating on his wife, etc...?
Great. We want a bitch who can make our dicks hard. So you ask us about our careers, and we'll ask you about your bodies. Both parties verify themselves to one another.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious511

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I've said this before but it bears repeating: all these hideous cretins you so despise are out there having fulfilling, successful kinky relationships and sex.

You've said it before and I refuted it before. You were wrong then and you are still wrong now. Nothing has changed. I made a journal entry to deal with this faulty line of reasoning. I strongly suggest you read it and commit its points to heart.

The answer is: "No they're not." I have spoken to numerous other Doms and couples here. The Doms tell me, almost without exception, that they have had absolutely no luck on here. They are sitting in exactly the same boat as me, despite being all over the map in terms of age, race, background, appearance, experience, etc... The couples tell me, almost without exception, that they did NOT meet on this POS site, but elsewhere (95% of the time real life). The sub girls tell me, almost without exception, that they have never met anyone off this site and don't intend to. Even "dommes" complain that all of the young female subs on this site are flakes and it's impossible to meet them in real life.

So quit spouting your BS. It's wrong. Patently false. You are lying.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
You're not finding what you seek,

Answer this before proceeding: How do you know? How do you know I'm not finding what I seek? What do you know about me? Do you know my name? My occupation? My address? My job? My relationship status? If so, post them here, I give you full consent to do so.

What do you know about me and where do you get off thinking that you can make baseless assumptions about my personal life?

No, really: Answer the question.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: Aderious511

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I've said this before but it bears repeating: all these hideous cretins you so despise are out there having fulfilling, successful kinky relationships and sex.

You've said it before and I refuted it before. You were wrong then and you are still wrong now. Nothing has changed. I made a journal entry to deal with this faulty line of reasoning. I strongly suggest you read it and commit its points to heart.

The answer is: "No they're not." I have spoken to numerous other Doms and couples here. The Doms tell me, almost without exception, that they have had absolutely no luck on here. They are sitting in exactly the same boat as me, despite being all over the map in terms of age, race, background, appearance, experience, etc... The couples tell me, almost without exception, that they did NOT meet on this POS site, but elsewhere (95% of the time real life). The sub girls tell me, almost without exception, that they have never met anyone off this site and don't intend to. Even "dommes" complain that all of the young female subs on this site are flakes and it's impossible to meet them in real life.

So quit spouting your BS. It's wrong. Patently false. You are lying.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
You're not finding what you seek,

Answer this before proceeding: How do you know? How do you know I'm not finding what I seek? What do you know about me? Do you know my name? My occupation? My address? My job? My relationship status? If so, post them here, I give you full consent to do so.

What do you know about me and where do you get off thinking that you can make baseless assumptions about my personal life?

No, really: Answer the question.

Ahhh, I was trying to decide which hatefilled misanthropic post I was gonna comment on and it was almost impossible to do, there's simply too many to count.
1-If the doms have a problem on here, maybe, just maybe, they need to look in the mirror. Maybe they've been posting degenerate shit, have a profile full of jaded cynical misogynistic crap(Kinda like you-poster boy...and yeah, I mean exactly that, boy.), or maybe they haven't yet realized pretty much the number one rule of dating online-if you aren't the sorta guy who can get a hottie off line, you ain't gonna get one here.
2-Raises hand. I met the mouse here, all 105 pounds of her, some 7 years ago. Still kicking strong. I've also met pornstars, actresses, lawyers, doctors, kink.com models, escorts, all sorts of hotties. So yeah, it can be done. I know, I've done it. And I ain't the only one-take a gander at some posts by Stephann and Charlotte, or many others. Look at Maria, that gal is smoking. There's lots and lots of smart, beautiful, terrific gals on here, just because they don't date YOU tells us nothing about them, but speaks volumes about you. Backpedals, well shit,actually it does say something aout them. It says they have taste, sense and discretion, unfortunately the same doesn't apply in reverse.
3-Couples, yeah, I'll give you that. It's a lot tougher for them, but I think that's less to do with CM than basic human nature. Let's face it, most people, especially women want to feel special to that certain someone they love, and subs/slaves, they tend to be greedy about this. They have this utterly irrational idea that if they're gonna give their hearts, minds, bodies, trust, etc...to a a guy, they want all his attention focused on them-they don't seem to split well (At least that's my experience, but I gotta say, from what I see at the local TNG, sharing is very in vogue). And ya know what, I can undersatdn where they're coming from. Seems rational to me.
4-I've read your profile, and frankly, I can understand why a gal wouldn't want anything to do with you. You come off as insulting and derogatory, and snide as all get out.As you've brilliantly mentioned above, yeah, women can find guys a lot easier than vice versa. This applies doubly, triply, 5,000,000 times so with a hot young chica, she literally has 1/2 the site rolling through her inbox.And my man, I can tell you this, if she reads your profile, if she reads your posts, if you communicate in any way shape or form to them the way you do to us, you ain't gotta chance in hell.
And frankly, that's a terrific thing, cuz from the cheap seats where I'm sitting, you have a long way to go, not as a man, not as a dom, but as a human being before you should be in a relationship.
Everything about you smacks of angry hostile abuser. And if I think so, some poor gal whose had the sewage that is the vast majority of the male population of CM rolling through her inbox is gonna be twice as wary and 8 trillion times as quick to jettison your ass.
But hey, that's JMHO.
What the fuck do I know. Like I said, I've only interacted with slews of gals from here and owned one for an extended period of time, I'm obviously fake because I don't fit into the world your illusions/delusions have created.
My prescription is, Physician, heal thyself.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I never had any problem talking to someone on the phone before we met. But, it wasn't done to prove I'm legitimate.

Someone that asked me to prove who I am before we'd even met....I wasn't interested. Basically, if you want to start off a relationship by saying I need to prove that I'm not a liar, you're not good relationship material anyway.

For the guys that stopped talking to me because I refused.....big whoop. I never had a shortage of suitors and ended up incredibly happy with an amazing guy.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious511

The answer is: "No they're not." I have spoken to numerous other Doms and couples here. The Doms tell me, almost without exception, that they have had absolutely no luck on here. They are sitting in exactly the same boat as me, despite being all over the map in terms of age, race, background, appearance, experience, etc... The couples tell me, almost without exception, that they did NOT meet on this POS site, but elsewhere (95% of the time real life). The sub girls tell me, almost without exception, that they have never met anyone off this site and don't intend to. Even "dommes" complain that all of the young female subs on this site are flakes and it's impossible to meet them in real life.