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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 3:58:46 PM   
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For the record I have been on and off this site for a number of years with a few different profiles as they keep getting deleted. That said I think one of the issues nowadays is the making domination/submission so much about money. All I see are 18/19/20 year old girls just wanting money, with no real regard to the mindset of the subs they want their money from. This in turn causes guys to become skeptical, guarded, and really just not wanting to buy in. I understand a professional but so many of the profiles on here are young girls just saying "Give my your wallet bitch" with no understanding or care for the synergy between Domme/sub.

It seems so much more about money, than actual lifestyle anymore and it creates an atmosphere of negitivity...

Well there are my two cents for all it's worth.

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 3:59:00 PM   
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I'm a stickler for rules as well. However, I also believe some of those rules are more important than others. While somebody is sifting through hundreds of cartoons that you reported, that pic on somebody's profile with a kid and a dog in a <cough> compromising position <cough> is now taking hours to be removed because the system is being clogged up with drawings of bunny rabbits and teddy bears.


Very good point

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:04:22 PM   
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But do you really honestly think it's the original artist putting these 'photos' up?


Many times, yes. However, allow me to make this supposition. No one is required to "prove" who they are on this site. There is a distinct way an artist can say their artwork was stolen, and they go through the process to have it removed.

How are we to prove you are who you say you are?

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:05:32 PM   
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Ok so I've gone back and read what I've missed in one day.

I'm curious about the provoking posters with certain topics. So if you can't provoke that certain poster with circumcision threads, wouldn't that mean that same rule would also mean we can't post other topics because it might provoke another who is passionate about that subject and it can get heated? For example:

moderation: HillWilliam
findommes: the majority of the malesubs
switching and lifestyle events: JustMichael

Just to name a few. I know there are others but I have a headache and can't think of anymore right now without me going back and remembering names and topics. I mean, otherwise, how do we know if something will provoke someone? And even if we do know, so what? Can't everyone just put that person on ignore for being annoying? That's what I did and I now don't worry about posting on certain subjects knowing he will respond. He might but I can't see it so that's all that matters.


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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:07:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
Overall, over the whole 3 or 4 days, (4 days on one account, 3 days on another), yes, there were literally hundreds. I guess I reported close on 300 pics in all.
And, yes, they were all cartoons or similar - nothing that could even remotely be considered within the ToS.
And I did immediately desist when I got the GL - that still didn't stop the profiles getting removed.

In black, since you don't do well with the purple.

I have to tell you, I'd have probably sent you a cease and desist letter, too. My next step after that would have been bugging the legal types who drew up ToS if there was a better way to deal with the uploading pictures gig. One that wouldn't get us into hot water for trademark/copyright violations and such while maintain the 'we'd prefer you don't misrepresent yourself' spirit of the thing.

I'm a stickler for rules as well. However, I also believe some of those rules are more important than others. While somebody is sifting through hundreds of cartoons that you reported, that pic on somebody's profile with a kid and a dog in a <cough> compromising position <cough> is now taking hours to be removed because the system is being clogged up with drawings of bunny rabbits and teddy bears.



Thank you LP - your effort is much appreciated.
And yes, I agree, such a photo would get swamped in the other deluge of reports.

That said, if they were very fleetingly browsing the uploaded pics, CM wouldn't be sooo flooded with such crud.
If that were the case, that 'nasty' pic would have got spotted the moment it was uploaded and subsequently 'not approved' for posting on the profile.
Many sites, even free ones, you often have to get mod approval before it can be included on your profile.
It really wouldn't take much effort to glance through photos as they were presented for approval.
But until they change the system, the only avenue is to report them.


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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:09:12 PM   
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Just a minor observation.

Some have suggested this thread is all drama and bitching about the moderation. If that is correct, then what does it say about the health of a forum that the most active thread since the Newtown massacre and subsequent consolidation has been the purported "moderation-related drama and bitching" thread?

I prefer to see this as a thread that shows how many people care about CM, a thread that shows the potential this place has, and shows the number of people that want CM to be around, thriving, and who care enough to invest time in what they think might be improved to make it what they hope it might be.

Don't know about the rest of you, but I'm posting here because CM is good and can be great, not because I want to slap anyone.

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This is kind of what I meant. Not that anyone was particularly doing anything wrong. But in the past I know that I, myself, have gotten upset seeing threads knocked out or posts removed because two or three people were having a heated debate. I enjoyed it, and then the thread was gone or the posts were gone. I used to get upset because I had thought they should have stayed.

Though I can see how it does seem like a bitching thread (which I have also participated in), I am finding it interesting that the moderators are, from what I can tell, staying out of it. Like it is a conscious decision to do so.

So I was thinking about how this thread is a good sampling to see if we can, indeed, self-moderate. (Yes, I know that it has been modded at least once. And maybe more - like I said - I've had a little trouble following today.) And I was picturing the mods enjoying a glass of lemonade, waiting for someone to fuck up.

That's all. It was just a little musing. :)

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:09:36 PM   
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ETA - Somebody had better report that post. That emoticon isn't My original artwork.




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My bad! Report mine too!

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:15:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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And, yes, they were all cartoons or similar - nothing that could even remotely be considered within the ToS.


http://browse.deviantart.com/cartoons/?offset=288

Some of these are quite stunning. The ability of the artists amazing. Wouldnt you agree?

And if those artists posted them, its allowed, as far as I know, because its their own work.


I think it would depend on exactly you read/interpret the rule about posting pictures. "Please do not post commercial photos or artwork" The way I see it, this could be interpreted in two ways. Commercial photos is pretty obvious, but the artwork is vague. Does this rule mean no artwork, which could be argued, or no commercial artwork, which seems to be the intent of the rule. FD is obviously interpreting it the first way, but to me the intent is clearly the second. This is sort of supported by the fact that FD got GLed for reporting them, unless of course he's correct that because he stuck out he got hammered.

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:17:42 PM   
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That said, if they were very fleetingly browsing the uploaded pics, CM wouldn't be sooo flooded with such crud.
If that were the case, that 'nasty' pic would have got spotted the moment it was uploaded and subsequently 'not approved' for posting on the profile.


Its my understanding that was tried, many years ago, and the complaints were that they were not getting approved fast enough. The practice seems to have been stopped in 2009.



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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:18:37 PM   
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And who referred to emoticons??

Uploaded photos and emo's aren't quite the same thing!

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:19:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Just0Plain0Mike


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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And, yes, they were all cartoons or similar - nothing that could even remotely be considered within the ToS.


http://browse.deviantart.com/cartoons/?offset=288

Some of these are quite stunning. The ability of the artists amazing. Wouldnt you agree?

And if those artists posted them, its allowed, as far as I know, because its their own work.


I think it would depend on exactly you read/interpret the rule about posting pictures. "Please do not post commercial photos or artwork" The way I see it, this could be interpreted in two ways. Commercial photos is pretty obvious, but the artwork is vague. Does this rule mean no artwork, which could be argued, or no commercial artwork, which seems to be the intent of the rule. FD is obviously interpreting it the first way, but to me the intent is clearly the second. This is sort of supported by the fact that FD got GLed for reporting them, unless of course he's correct that because he stuck out he got hammered.


Its not because he used the feature. I report photos all the time... mostly cock pics, the occassional "star", the beastiality and kiddie ones.

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:23:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Just0Plain0Mike


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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And, yes, they were all cartoons or similar - nothing that could even remotely be considered within the ToS.


http://browse.deviantart.com/cartoons/?offset=288

Some of these are quite stunning. The ability of the artists amazing. Wouldnt you agree?

And if those artists posted them, its allowed, as far as I know, because its their own work.


I think it would depend on exactly you read/interpret the rule about posting pictures. "Please do not post commercial photos or artwork" The way I see it, this could be interpreted in two ways. Commercial photos is pretty obvious, but the artwork is vague. Does this rule mean no artwork, which could be argued, or no commercial artwork, which seems to be the intent of the rule. FD is obviously interpreting it the first way, but to me the intent is clearly the second. This is sort of supported by the fact that FD got GLed for reporting them, unless of course he's correct that because he stuck out he got hammered.


Part of the problem here is that any of that 'artwork', commercial or otherwise, wouldn't pass point #1 as stated on the upload page.
So from that PoV, the question of whether it's 'valid' artwork or not is irrelevant.

Oh, and interestingly, those rules don't seem to apply on the avatar for CC

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:27:05 PM   
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Thank you LP - your effort is much appreciated.
And yes, I agree, such a photo would get swamped in the other deluge of reports.

That said, if they were very fleetingly browsing the uploaded pics, CM wouldn't be sooo flooded with such crud.
If that were the case, that 'nasty' pic would have got spotted the moment it was uploaded and subsequently 'not approved' for posting on the profile.
Many sites, even free ones, you often have to get mod approval before it can be included on your profile.
It really wouldn't take much effort to glance through photos as they were presented for approval.
But until they change the system, the only avenue is to report them.




What you are asking for here is a service, what happens when there is a service that needs to be provided to members of an organization....people need to give the service. This free site is run by volunteers. Perhaps you don't know how huge this site is, approving all photos would take an amazing amount of time on a daily basis and a lot of people to do it.

You can't think that it hasn't occurred to the owners to provide the photo approval process, and yet they haven't done it. I would think that is because it doesn't work for them. It makes sense that it isn't going to work. CM is a huge site. It is free. It is staffed by volunteers. I feel it is rather unrealistic to think that the photo approval idea will happen.

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:30:49 PM   
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Please only post pictures you took yourself


That only relates to photography. I can go to the Warhol Museum here, take photos of all his art work, come back here and upload them, and, according to you, that is acceptable per point 1.

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Please do not post commercial photos or artwork


That would also be acceptable per point 2, because the photos I took are not going to be used for commercial purposes at any time.

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Please do not post explicit primary photos


I dont recall seeing any of his artwork as being explicit... but its been a while since I visited.

Now, if we are going strictly by the 3 points, I can post those to my profile with no problems... of I should be able too.

Yet I will have broken copyright laws.



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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:32:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

quote:

That said, if they were very fleetingly browsing the uploaded pics, CM wouldn't be sooo flooded with such crud.
If that were the case, that 'nasty' pic would have got spotted the moment it was uploaded and subsequently 'not approved' for posting on the profile.


Its my understanding that was tried, many years ago, and the complaints were that they were not getting approved fast enough. The practice seems to have been stopped in 2009.




How fast can you glance at a photo and click a button??
I'm not talking about close scrutiny, just an initial quick glance.
A second or two??
I can skip through pics and press a button at the rate of several a second.
But I'm not advocating someone be doing that all the time - that'll give you a headache.
But even at just 1 photo every 5 seconds (easily achievable by anyone without any rush), that would mean an initial 'pass' or 'fail' of over 700 photo an hour.
Are you saying that they flooded in at a much faster rate than that??
I don't honestly believe for one minute it was - or even close.

But seriously tazzy, are you saying they were being uploaded at such a rate that nobody could keep up with it??
That suggestst to me that whoever was given the task was not doing their job properly.

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:33:33 PM   
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That would be great.... If no new circumstances ever arose.

There isn't a set of rules in existence that people won't find a way to twist, spin, end run, loophole, or otherwise play games with either the wording or intent.


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

I have no problem with his position. I do have a problem with some of his assumptions and how he is going about trying to effect change.


Okay, just a quick bit of feedback from the sidelines: I'm not sure you're getting that point across very well, and I'm not sure you're getting that point over to me as a disinterested party on the sidelines in the exchange. Same for him. That's why I suggested the above rephrasing of what I see as the core of his position, which seems like a starting point it should be easy to work from for either one of you. It's incidentally also one that, down the line, converges with most other issues that have been raised on this thread and the other threads on the same/similar topic(s).

Just trying to help.

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My point is simple

We have written rules.
Enforce them exactly as written.
Don't make up new rules on a whim.





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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:40:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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Please only post pictures you took yourself


That only relates to photography. I can go to the Warhol Museum here, take photos of all his art work, come back here and upload them, and, according to you, that is acceptable per point 1.

quote:

Please do not post commercial photos or artwork


That would also be acceptable per point 2, because the photos I took are not going to be used for commercial purposes at any time.

quote:

Please do not post explicit primary photos


I dont recall seeing any of his artwork as being explicit... but its been a while since I visited.

Now, if we are going strictly by the 3 points, I can post those to my profile with no problems... of I should be able too.

Yet I will have broken copyright laws.




Point #2 isn't relating to what you would do with the photo - at least that's not how I see it.

The way I interpret point #2 is even if you took a photo of that artwork, the artwork itself is commercial, not that you would be using the photo in a commercial way.
So no, you couldn't post that pic of the commercial artwork even though you personally took the photo of it.

And to me, all those pics that have a website name on them somwhere means that those images are copyright to the website and shouldn't be used without permission.

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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:41:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
Thank you LP - your effort is much appreciated.
And yes, I agree, such a photo would get swamped in the other deluge of reports.

That said, if they were very fleetingly browsing the uploaded pics, CM wouldn't be sooo flooded with such crud.
If that were the case, that 'nasty' pic would have got spotted the moment it was uploaded and subsequently 'not approved' for posting on the profile.
Many sites, even free ones, you often have to get mod approval before it can be included on your profile.
It really wouldn't take much effort to glance through photos as they were presented for approval.
But until they change the system, the only avenue is to report them.
You're welcome. I'm in such a habit of it that it takes a second *not* to do it. LOL.

I honestly don't use the recently uploaded pics feature. They have one for journals as well that I've looked at once. I'm saying this because I have no idea of what kind of time commitment that would take. I would have to think it would still be a hit and miss proposition. Nobody could monitor recently uploaded pics 24/7.

When I first joined here, you had to wait for your primary pic to be approved. I think the site got to such a size that it was no longer practical. Kind of like I've seen on this thread where it's been implied that Mods should read all of the posts on every thread to see what violates ToS, rather than the report system. I'm here a lot and even I couldn't keep up with that if I tried. We're talking about hundreds of new accounts a day that have the option of posting, I think, fifteen pictures.

On a personal note, I wouldn't want that Mod's job. Having to sift through the dick pics and every other darn thing that gets reported. I know what I send them just off of My 'Who's Viewing' page.



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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:47:46 PM   
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3 words that I put in my proposal negate that. "on a whim"
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ORIGINAL: Powergamz1

That would be great.... If no new circumstances ever arose.

There isn't a set of rules in existence that people won't find a way to twist, spin, end run, loophole, or otherwise play games with either the wording or intent.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aswad

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

I have no problem with his position. I do have a problem with some of his assumptions and how he is going about trying to effect change.


Okay, just a quick bit of feedback from the sidelines: I'm not sure you're getting that point across very well, and I'm not sure you're getting that point over to me as a disinterested party on the sidelines in the exchange. Same for him. That's why I suggested the above rephrasing of what I see as the core of his position, which seems like a starting point it should be easy to work from for either one of you. It's incidentally also one that, down the line, converges with most other issues that have been raised on this thread and the other threads on the same/similar topic(s).

Just trying to help.

IWYW,
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My point is simple

We have written rules.
Enforce them exactly as written.
Don't make up new rules on a whim.







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RE: The decline of collarme - 1/7/2013 4:49:04 PM   
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How fast can you glance at a photo and click a button??
I'm not talking about close scrutiny, just an initial quick glance.


Oh so you want the reviewer to make a judgement call and not make sure one way or another? Just to decide... oh yeah, that looks totally against the rules?

quote:

I can skip through pics and press a button at the rate of several a second.


Which is probably why you got the mail.

However, reviewing isnt that easy... and proof, I would imagine, would be necessary.

quote:

But seriously tazzy, are you saying they were being uploaded at such a rate that nobody could keep up with it??
That suggestst to me that whoever was given the task was not doing their job properly.


Someone would have to be working that area alone all the time. There are thousands of photos uploaded everyday. Take some down, they put them back up, or they put different ones back up, or they make new accounts and still more photos.

1567165 Registered Users....

Currently there are 486 users on line.

There are pages and pages and pages of uploaded photos today alone.

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