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RE: Is it appropriate..... - 6/23/2006 2:35:07 PM   
amayos


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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

You know, my mind still has trouble wrapping around the whole Master/Mistress/consensual slave thing but I will say this:  From the standpoint of one who believes in such relationships, you did a beautiful job of explaining your feelings and thoughts about this situation. 

It's been said that many times, male dominants almost seem to take joy in tearing apart another male dominant...this time, as one male dominant to another, I wanted to pay you a compliment.  Nicely said!


Thank you very much for your kind words. I agree with you about the joy some men take in subverting each other; dominant males would do themselves a favor by supporting each other as brothers rather than tearing each other apart. Of course, one sees this among our like-minded sisters, too.

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RE: Is it appropriate..... - 6/23/2006 8:08:22 PM   
OnyxGoddess


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Status: offline 		Competition...everyone wants to be top dog.  And I think it's just inherent in women's nature to be "catty" towards one another.  I've never quite figured out why. 
 
But in reference to the op...trust is supposed to exist in all relationships.  without trust no relationship can survive.  as a dom he should be honest and upfront.  if you are just there to finish school...wouldn't it be less tortuous to bunk with a classmate until you do graduate? 

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RE: Is it appropiate..... - 6/23/2006 9:40:42 PM   
MasterCurios


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Status: offline 		well this has 2 sides to it here    first how do you know he is doing these things???and second==no he has no right to do such even if he is the Dom/Master,these relationships are based on alot if not total trust,for w/o there is no future......it would appear that the trust issue is in jeapardy since you hav been finding/searching for these things he has been doing.....Master Curios

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RE: Is it appropiate..... - 6/23/2006 9:46:02 PM   
MasterCurios


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Status: offline 		i agree with your statement but as time goes on more and more people classify themselves recklessly and when confronted with it or cornered balk at the very name they claim to be.......Master Curios

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RE: Is it appropiate..... - 6/25/2006 12:47:14 PM   
genvieve


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ORIGINAL: mew

....For "your" Master to do things behind your back such as, emailing old gf's, or talking to other women?  
As a slave, is it really none of your business if he does that, and keeps it a secret? 
 



Not being a slave myself, i could not tell you for sure.  That being said, it would all depend on the negotiations that were made at the beginning of the relationship.  If your Master told you that He would always communicate things with you, than no...it's not inappropriate to demand it. 
 
However, it is my understanding that a true slave has no rights and therefor any information that your Master chooses to give you is because He is gracious and understanding, but is certainly NOT your right.
 
-genvieve

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RE: Is it appropiate..... - 6/25/2006 12:50:57 PM   
Caretakr


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Status: offline 		It depends on your agreement.

Without knowing that,all is speculation. Or are you merely seeking validation of something you have already decided?

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RE: Is it appropiate..... - 6/25/2006 11:10:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with what everyone has stated here and I am not going to repeat anything and run it into the ground.  I will state that if you are not happy, you need to move on.  And as MoGa stated...there are a lot of men out there who enjoy being with a BBW.  You just have to find them and they aren't that hard to find.

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