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RE: Looking for kinksters in vanilla world, do u drop a... - 1/29/2013 12:11:32 AM   
Cilicia


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Status: offline 		I would show them my collarme forum posts ... oh ... wait ... I'm a vanilla ice cream cone ... that won't work. Sorry. Next.

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RE: Looking for kinksters in vanilla world, do u drop a... - 1/29/2013 12:31:59 PM   
absolutchocolat


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ORIGINAL: Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I had a profile on a vanilla site and said "I like to take control in bed". Nice and simple.




Mine used to say I was looking for a "traditional relationship."



On OKCupid, I just take all those kink/BDSM/fetish-related quizzes, or say something to the tune of "I hate all things vanilla" on my page. Then the submissive men rain down like Skittles from the rainbow!

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RE: Looking for kinksters in vanilla world, do u drop a... - 1/29/2013 5:04:04 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: jakejev

Let's say you're meeting people through regular dating (not the BDSM community or anything) just going out in the vanilla world, coffee, bars, gym, etc.
Are there any hints that a dom or sub can or usually drops to let others know they're talking to someone from the lifestyle or at least that they have an inclination for BDSM or kinky stuff?

Doms, what do you do?
Subs, what do you do?


I just go up to the first hot chic that I find appealing (Starbucks, Walgreens....no matter) and I sidle up next to her and say "hey...you are smoking hot....you don't by any chance like to spank men on the first date do you"

It hasn't been terribly effective, but I've only spent 30 grand in legal bills this year. Last year it was 45 grand, so I'm making some headway I think.


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RE: Looking for kinksters in vanilla world, do u drop a... - 2/1/2013 4:42:02 AM   
Monkeywithastick


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Status: offline 		I read the title of this thread as: looking for knickers in the vanilla world.


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