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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:09:52 PM   
Blankpain


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Status: offline 		To the OP. Insist on telephone verification, at the very least, of the OTHER party (you already know if you're real so whether they insist on YOU verifying is academic).

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:15:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Or just meet the person. Have a 20 minute date for coffee. It would put to rest if they were the person they were claiming to be and you'd also be able to tell if you were attracted to them at all or if that part was a no go. That won't weed out the married ones, but you'll just have to watch out for signs of that.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:19:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl
Is this the one?? lol
http://www.collarmefakes.com/forumdisplay.php?fid=3


I was trying not to use URLs ... so let's just say that you're right - and - that if you change the 3 to a 6, you'll see the other half of that forum.


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ORIGINAL: Killerangel
That site is some people's opinions of users on this site, it's nothing all too accurate. Which you mentioned. It's actually quite comical how they came up with the fake designations...I forget all of it, but one thing is if someone answers their mail, another criteria is how often they log in, another is if they block the person sending them a message. It's all very scientific


This side of that site is much more scientific as they usually supply incontrovertible proof of the collarme TOS infraction:
http://www.collarmefakes.com/forumdisplay.php?fid=6

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:22:03 PM   
Notsweet


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Status: offline 		NBMG--I recognized several of the names on there, LOL. Certainly worth a laugh.

Now, I'm not listedd on there but have been told at least once a week that I must be a fake because I am looking for a single man, but will play with couples. Yeeeeah, ok.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:27:50 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		Oh bullshit. If you need to ask for "verification" of any kind, then it isn't worth the time. If I talk to someone on here, we exchanged some cmails. Then move on to perhaps messenger if that works, then talk on the phone and set up a face to face. At worst the face to face wastes an hour of my time.

If anyone ever told me they needed to talk to me on the phone to verify that I was "real," I would tell them to go fuck themselves.

Even if you want to "verify" someone, you can certainly get them on the phone without telling them you want to verify they are real. Honestly, those who aren't real or are scamming will go poof either way, but if you do it in such a ridiculous way, then someone worthwhile is going to see you as an ass and go poof just because of your paranoia.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:29:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Notsweet
Now, I'm not listedd on there but have been told at least once a week that I must be a fake because I am looking for a single man, but will play with couples.


We generally google reverse search the images in the profile to find the obvious fakes and then do a url search in google with the collarmefakes name in it to find the less than obvious fakes.
That quick search instantly knocks out about half the profiles right then and there!

The verification process, which we initiate before more than a few cm mails have taken place, weeds out half the remaining ones within three or four communications.

You're left with maybe about 10% of the contacts NOT being fake, in the end.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:30:50 PM   
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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:36:06 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: bayareacouple
We generally google reverse search the images in the profile to find the obvious fakes

The images in my profile are not of me, are searchable on google, yet I'm not fake.
And what about the people who have scenic images from online travel agencies?
If I had to resort to some online tool to determine someone's authenticity, I don't
belong online in the first place.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:36:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Subano


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

There is no central repository of fake and real profiles



Actually, there is.

How accurate it is, is another issue - but simply put the word "fakes" after the collarme in the URL and you'll have that central repository of fakes.

Just saying ...


Yeah. That. Suffice it to say that at least one of the people in this thread is listed there as a fake.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:38:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Amazing how many paranoid folks there are around here lol



Yeah. I don't get it. When I chat with someone about vanilla stuff up front, that knocks out incompatible people. Including the alleged fakes.-

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:43:06 PM   
kalikshama


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Or just meet the person. Have a 20 minute date for coffee. It would put to rest if they were the person they were claiming to be and you'd also be able to tell if you were attracted to them at all or if that part was a no go. That won't weed out the married ones, but you'll just have to watch out for signs of that.




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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:46:32 PM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: bayareacouple

We generally google reverse search the images in the profile to find the obvious fakes and then do a url search in google with the collarmefakes name in it to find the less than obvious fakes.
That quick search instantly knocks out about half the profiles right then and there!

The verification process, which we initiate before more than a few cm mails have taken place, weeds out half the remaining ones within three or four communications.

You're left with maybe about 10% of the contacts NOT being fake, in the end.


Honestly I'd not trust that site as part of your verification technique. Their criteria seems rather whimsical and arbitrary. I know people on this site that are not *fake* but are listed there - as others have said too.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:51:28 PM   
Notsweet


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ORIGINAL: bayareacouple


quote:

ORIGINAL: Notsweet
Now, I'm not listedd on there but have been told at least once a week that I must be a fake because I am looking for a single man, but will play with couples.


We generally google reverse search the images in the profile to find the obvious fakes and then do a url search in google with the collarmefakes name in it to find the less than obvious fakes.
That quick search instantly knocks out about half the profiles right then and there!

The verification process, which we initiate before more than a few cm mails have taken place, weeds out half the remaining ones within three or four communications.

You're left with maybe about 10% of the contacts NOT being fake, in the end.



Only ten percent are NOT fakes, you say? I'm pretty sure I've met enough in person to say that would be awfully low....

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:57:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: bayareacouple

We generally google reverse search the images in the profile to find the obvious fakes and then do a url search in google with the collarmefakes name in it to find the less than obvious fakes.
That quick search instantly knocks out about half the profiles right then and there!

The verification process, which we initiate before more than a few cm mails have taken place, weeds out half the remaining ones within three or four communications.

You're left with maybe about 10% of the contacts NOT being fake, in the end.


Lol Do a reverse search for me. I promise you you will find my photos on fetish sites.

I've been told by a couple of people that makes me fake.
Duh!
That makes me a fetish model who does fetish videos.

As far as someone being on collarmefakes.
GTFOH I read a few of their "reasons" and to me they don't proof someone is a fake.
They proof someone wasn't compatible or a dumbass.

I don't know or care if I am on there.
Anyone that to verify if I am real or not can meet me at a lifestyle function, for coffee, or book a session with me.

But typically if I am asked to do cam, photo, or phone verify that is a RED FLAG to me tells me you are paranoid and not the person for me.

ETA: I have meet a lot of people from this site in person and far more than 10% real.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 7:59:19 PM   
Subano


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ORIGINAL: poise
The images in my profile are not of me, are searchable on google, yet I'm not fake.
And what about the people who have scenic images from online travel agencies?


I'm sorry to have to say this but I think you totally missed my point.
The word 'incontrovertible' should mean what I meant it to be.

Did you even look at the location I provided the URL for?

If you did, you'd see that YOUR profile style of pictures is NOT what is listed on THAT SIDE of the forum.
What is listed in the tineye section of that forum is clearly provable obvious fake profile pictures stolen from the web.

Now, you or I can find ALL those profile pictures ourselves just by going to, say, immoral-wives.com or solopimp.com, but most people are dumb and can't find this stuff out for themselves.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 8:03:17 PM   
Subano


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ORIGINAL: Killerangel
Their criteria seems rather whimsical and arbitrary.


Again, did you even LOOK at the URL that I provided?

Here it is again.
http://www.collarmefakes.com/forumdisplay.php?fid=6

Do those posts look whimsical to you?

I realize the OTHER HALF of that site is what YOU are talking about (which might be arguably whimsical since the criteria for what is fake and what is not fake is lower).

But, at least on that section that I'm referring to, the proof shown is backed up with pictures found of the profile picture taken from porno sites.

Of course, I guess it 'could' be true that a famous porn star, who has pictures all over the web is now suddenly using that same picture on collarme, but I find that unlikely enough to leave the word 'incontrovertible' in my description of that half of that forum.

Please LOOK at the URL before saying it's whimsical.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 8:12:05 PM   
TheLilSquaw


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ORIGINAL: Subano


quote:

ORIGINAL: Killerangel
Their criteria seems rather whimsical and arbitrary.


Again, did you even LOOK at the URL that I provided?

Here it is again.
http://www.collarmefakes.com/forumdisplay.php?fid=6

Do those posts look whimsical to you?

I realize the OTHER HALF of that site is what YOU are talking about (which might be arguably whimsical since the criteria for what is fake and what is not fake is lower).

But, at least on that section that I'm referring to, the proof shown is backed up with pictures found of the profile picture taken from porno sites.

Of course, I guess it 'could' be true that a famous porn star, who has pictures all over the web is now suddenly using that same picture on collarme, but I find that unlikely enough to leave the word 'incontrovertible' in my description of that half of that forum.

Please LOOK at the URL before saying it's whimsical.


I admit, I am known for going after people who steal photos of websites.
However, THAT doesn't make someone fake.
That makes them an idiot, thief and perhaps a photo collector but fake?
So yes, I call bullshit on that being proof or that site being a reliable way to determine who is "real".

Oh and um what about women like me who are in the lifestyle and do work on websites?
Are we "fake" because our photos are out there? Lol


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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 8:13:30 PM   
Subano


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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw
Lol Do a reverse search for me. I promise you you will find my photos on fetish sites.


Clearly, your comment indicates you don't understand what I'm talking about.
I think this is rather frustrating so this is the last argument I will be giving on this thread because you just can't get the information across if people stick to guessing instead of actually looking at the incontrovertible proof that I keep (frustratingly) pointing to of fake profile pictures.

For example, just looking at your profile, I can see it is NOT the type that will even be searched for because is it not the too-good-to-be-true type.
Even so, I took you up on the offer and pasted your picture of you standing on the sunny porch and ran a few reverse image searches and it came up blank (as I would have expected since it's mostly PORN SITES that show page after page of the profile pictures).
Even so, had the search engines come up with the fet profiles you might have had, this is NOT what that half of the forum is about since your profile isn't the type that makes that list (see the TinEye forum I'm talking about before responding, please).


Everyone seems to be talking about the other half of the forum.

I agree, two halves make the whole, but clearly, the half that I'm talking about is showing proof beyond reasonable doubt that the profile pictures are simply taken from PORN SITES on the web.

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 8:16:43 PM   
Subano


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ORIGINAL: Notsweet
Only ten percent are NOT fakes, you say? I'm pretty sure I've met enough in person to say that would be awfully low....


I think the statistics will depend a LOT on what you're looking for.
If, for example, you want an under 30 submissive woman, it's probably less than 10% are real.

If, however, you are looking for an under 30 lesbian, the number (on Collarme) is probably 1% or less that are real.

However, if you're looking for an over 50 BBW, then the numbers would jump up to nearly 100%.

Again, just stating the obvious ...

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RE: Fake people or real people that engage you - 1/27/2013 8:17:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anyone can be listed as a fake on some list because they told someone "no," or they called someone out on something they said, or because someone is ticked off at someone and wants revenge.

This paranoia about fakes, and photos, and profiles has been discussed AD NAUSEAM around here. I say it again "AD NAUSEAM!!!" I don't need to consult some "fakers list" or run and see if some photo belongs to someone else. I feel I am mature enough, have had enough experience with people in my short lifetime, can logically recognize a red flag when I see it, and trust my intuition enough to make wise decisions. And hopefully, as this site is supposedly full of adults, you all have that ability as well.

(Thank you)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: Subano


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

There is no central repository of fake and real profiles



Actually, there is.

How accurate it is, is another issue - but simply put the word "fakes" after the collarme in the URL and you'll have that central repository of fakes.

Just saying ...


Yeah. That. Suffice it to say that at least one of the people in this thread is listed there as a fake.


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