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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 11:21:01 PM   
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This actually illustrates why it can be difficult to have a list of rules. Generally, we say it is not allowed.

In this thread, it was used to prove a point and therefore is allowed, IN THIS CONTEXT.

It has been allowed in other contexts, such as in threads in Random, where there is joking amongst participants.



Thank you. The earlier post was meant merely as a demonstration. It was in no way meant to cause any harm or confusion.

But....... If I could do it that easily to prove a point, obviously the theory could be abused and manipulated. These possibilities must be examined rather than a knee jerk reaction because of an offense.

I appreciate your patience.



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RE: what about negative experiences - 1/31/2013 11:26:10 PM   
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I asked this question in my very first post, and now, having been around the forums for a few months, I can see why there's not a negative experiences thread. Every day, every week, we get someone complaining about how this Dom did this, this sub did that, blah blah blah.

How can you verify each claim? How do you know that the complainer isn't absolutely nuts, extremely high-strung, or just has a bone to pick with someone for no good reason? That's right, you can't. It's best to just tuck the negative experiences under your belt, or you can stick 'em in the off-topic discussion threads with naming names...the stories can be pretty entertaining. Honestly though, it's much more fun to hear about the positive than to dwell on the negative.


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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 12:39:24 AM   
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Oh for the love of pete YOU CAN NOT TATTLE teacher doesn't care who took your cookies & called you names!!
If you look in profiles & email there is an option to hide/block
THIS is how you fix the nasty emails

If you were foolish enough to give pictures especially naked ones to some random guy on the net, these are the consequences. Kink doesn't make men more honorable, more respectable...too many times its the opposite ESPECIALLY from those that demand pics & naked cam shows(which usually get recorded)

You should also be aware that forum posts are perminant, thus anyone looking to date you can pull up this thread at any time...think about that


yes, you should be aware your post is now permanent

what if someone reads how much energy you spent arguing, what if they judge my post to well articulated and yours to be close-minded, do you really want that to follow you around.

Yes I hope people read what I have to say, they can see this is not a negative attack, at best I am just responding to people that have a bigger problem than I, seriously, these are little attacks, telling me I may not get a date based on my articulate responses, if that takes a dom or person away from me, thank god.

I do not need them,

further, this is all for fun, its the internet message boards baby, loosen up, provide an articulate response, forget about me, forget about your post, is it that important to go tit for tat.

me I am killing time, I am getting great responses, and a lot more hits on my profile as you people keep my second thread active.

this has given me a chance to show mr/mrs right I am witty, intelligent, and more than able to fend for myself.

besides, once they take one look and my angelica face, they think they own me, but its the other way around.

I am going out on valentine's day, already have more than two or three or four or five interested men, so hopefully this will eliminate the ones not thinking on the same level as me.

great point, a permanent record of my intelligence, and wit.




I wasn't going to post on this topic because lord knows my first week here had a huge learning curve. But your wrong your calling everyone else names and inarticulate. However you are the most intolerant TS I have ever had the pleasure of "meeting". Flame me if you want I really don't care. People are trying to answer your question and it looks as if all you want to do is have someone hold your hand and pat your head and tell you your right. Do you know that everyone on here has gotten a rude message at some point. I have been called fat 400 ways. Like its going to surprise me because I lost my mirror. Some people don't like TS some people don't like BBW. I personally don't like hairy men for example. Point is everyone dislikes someone. Just block the numbskulls the rest of us will figure out they are numbskulls pretty darn quick. They tend to flag themselves in the first 2 messages or so.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 2:03:54 AM   
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Oh we tried to explain that but Carmen wasn't trying to hear that. She wanted to get rude, so she got ignored.

DarkFeather, I can quote looney toons too, I watch it every morning at 5am!

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 5:38:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne

This actually illustrates why it can be difficult to have a list of rules. Generally, we say it is not allowed.

In this thread, it was used to prove a point and therefore is allowed, IN THIS CONTEXT.

It has been allowed in other contexts, such as in threads in Random, where there is joking amongst participants.




Thank you!


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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 5:49:23 AM   
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Apparently our OP was a bit perturbed, she wrote me a very nasty email. Seems the very thing she is fighting so hard to stop is the very thing she does. So sorry My feelings are a bit tougher than yours, but juvenile attempts to hurt my feelings don't work, especially is they don't pertain to me. Hell, at least pick a "cut down" that would be in the same ball park. Thanks for playing,lol





Why doesn't THIS surprise me any?

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 9:08:32 AM   
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I will not be a part bof a forum where the users are hypocrites, and the mod does not follow the rules.

bye

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 9:09:47 AM   
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Don't know what this is about.  But BYE!!!!!!  You will not be missed.

And you can quote me.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 9:18:05 AM   
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It means he brought something up about negative emails, we attempted to help, our answers weren't appreciated, we...well I, received nasty emails, now we are all hypocrites. So yea...but you said it right, BYE!! *waves to OP*

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 9:49:06 AM   
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I was going to suggest that folks stop feeding the troll, but it seems that she's now leaving. Then again, she's only given one half-hearted "flounce", I'll bet she's got a few more in her.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 10:45:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Darkfeather

Don't know if this is for nudes, but this place is brutal:

http://hotornot.com/


I love that site! hahaha. My girlfriend and I would sit around for hours with our margaritas all night long. We used to do this on the yahoo personals as well and email stupid stuff to some of them lol. This is what happens when you mix old age and margaritas.



I thought this lead to waking up in an alley in Tijuana with a tattoo of Britney Spears on your back and married to a hooker named Carmalita... Oh wait, thats old MEN and margaritas

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 10:52:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: carmenelektra

I will not be a part bof a forum where the users are hypocrites, and the mod does not follow the rules.

bye



Lol Who has been a hypocrite regarding THIS thread?
(except you it seems)

Mods didn't follow the rules?

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 11:02:02 AM   
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Oh we tried to explain that but Carmen wasn't trying to hear that. She wanted to get rude, so she got ignored.

DarkFeather, I can quote looney toons too, I watch it every morning at 5am!


Oh geez, then we could never hang out, lol. I can spend hours with my nilla friends going off on cartoon tangents "And so, having disposed of the monster, exit our hero through the front door, stage right, none the worse for his harrowing experience" And that orange monster was the bomb yo

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 11:16:15 AM   
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I will not be a part bof a forum where the users are hypocrites, and the mod does not follow the rules.

bye






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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 11:27:55 AM   
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Oh we tried to explain that but Carmen wasn't trying to hear that. She wanted to get rude, so she got ignored.

DarkFeather, I can quote looney toons too, I watch it every morning at 5am!


Oh geez, then we could never hang out, lol. I can spend hours with my nilla friends going off on cartoon tangents "And so, having disposed of the monster, exit our hero through the front door, stage right, none the worse for his harrowing experience" And that orange monster was the bomb yo


Cartoon Network is typically on in the background.
And I have to have it on CN for me to fall asleep.
I wake up to Looney Toons every morning, THAT is my alarm clock. Lol

I love cartoons, especially the older ones (80's are my favorite).
Netflix and Boomerang have a lot of them.


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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 11:31:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: carmenelektra

I will not be a part bof a forum where the users are hypocrites, and the mod does not follow the rules.

bye


Do you really think you are sooo beautiful??
I don't - not with that permanent shadow on your face - far too obvious.
But there again, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so they say.
And if you get a chance to peek out from behind your mirror, you might learn to let these 'bigots' pass you by.

The Mods do follow the rules - sometimes too rigidly!!

The problem is...
You don't seem to be able to comprehend the differences in what is allowed and what is not.
And hence, cannot see what is wrong with your suggestion or why it is not allowed on here.




Oh.... and don't let the door slam on you on your way out!!

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 11:46:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw


quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Oh we tried to explain that but Carmen wasn't trying to hear that. She wanted to get rude, so she got ignored.

DarkFeather, I can quote looney toons too, I watch it every morning at 5am!


Oh geez, then we could never hang out, lol. I can spend hours with my nilla friends going off on cartoon tangents "And so, having disposed of the monster, exit our hero through the front door, stage right, none the worse for his harrowing experience" And that orange monster was the bomb yo


Cartoon Network is typically on in the background.
And I have to have it on CN for me to fall asleep.
I wake up to Looney Toons every morning, THAT is my alarm clock. Lol

I love cartoons, especially the older ones (80's are my favorite).
Netflix and Boomerang have a lot of them.



Well, looney tunes cartoons make kids laugh. But the humor, writing, timing, etc, are all for adults. Its way more evident in the old black and whites

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 11:58:56 AM   
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Well, looney tunes cartoons make kids laugh. But the humor, writing, timing, etc, are all for adults. Its way more evident in the old black and whites



I agree 100%.
There are many cartoons I will not let my jr mint watch.
Because the are NOT meant for children.
I don't care what their "ratings" are.

When I owned my Japanese animation store in California I had a woman who insisted on buying the Sailormoon manga for her 11 year old daughter after being warned it was not age appropriate and why she still insisted. So... I let her order it. When she got it she was furious because the cover was a lesbian scene. Eh... just because something looks like a cartoon doesn't mean it's meant for children.

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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 12:31:01 PM   
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How do you know that the complainer isn't absolutely nuts, extremely high-strung, or just has a bone to pick with someone for no good reason?


All you have to do to prove that point is read some of the conversations posted on the fakes website. So many of those conversations could have been ended with a simple "No" as opposed to toying with the accused so that owners have something to pimp that website. Their only infraction was hitting on someone in a relationship, which while tasteless, doesn't mean they're fake.

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I will not be a part bof a forum where the users are hypocrites, and the mod does not follow the rules.

bye


Can I claim this as B3, N5, O1 and O3?



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RE: what about negative experiences - 2/1/2013 12:34:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw


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Well, looney tunes cartoons make kids laugh. But the humor, writing, timing, etc, are all for adults. Its way more evident in the old black and whites



I agree 100%.
There are many cartoons I will not let my jr mint watch.
Because the are NOT meant for children.
I don't care what their "ratings" are.

When I owned my Japanese animation store in California I had a woman who insisted on buying the Sailormoon manga for her 11 year old daughter after being warned it was not age appropriate and why she still insisted. So... I let her order it. When she got it she was furious because the cover was a lesbian scene. Eh... just because something looks like a cartoon doesn't mean it's meant for children.


Bah, Sailor Moon is tame. Good thing she didn't try to buy Revolutionary Girl Utena. But me personally, I find girls pulling swords out of other girls pretty hot

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