Notsweet -> RE: Valentine's Day (2/7/2013 9:04:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins i've never been one for going over board on valentine's, however it would have been nice if in the past my ex had made an effort in some form. after cheating on me, and me being stupid enough to take him back, we were spending some time apart during the week while i was seeing if i could trust him again. that valentine's we were out at a shopping complex and went for something to eat. his idea of romance was to offer me him moving back in as a present [8|] i told him no. he didn't get it that that wasn't a fucking gift to offer in the first place, but most certainly not on his part. that was the only time that i got actual flower shop flowers instead of some from the local super market. now don't get me wrong; there is nothing wrong with flowers bought from anywhere, but for many years i only got anything if it came from the local super market, and flowers only if he's screwed up. it was the lack of effort, and thought that got to me more than anything else. i really do love fresh flowers, and no-one ever buys them for me, but the best flower i have ever been given is straight across the room from me. i got home one day to find the postie had left a package for me over the gate. on opening i found a handmade black leather rose from a certain someone as an early birthday present [:D] for someone that professes to not be romantic, to have no intention of romance behind anything he does, the things he has done are actually the most romantic i've ever had. these things though have nothing to do with valentine's day. i noticed that LW said that Kana asked her what she wanted for valentine's. that question at any time will always get the answer of 'nothing' from me. i don't want a gift because i asked for it. i only want a gift that you put some effort, and thought into for me because you wanted to. needles Is your ex my ex? If so, wonder why he thought that shit would work twice? I feel you, and I know what you mean about the leather rose :)
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