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Posers Online - 6/20/2006 1:53:45 PM   
VelvetVise


Posts: 9
Joined: 6/18/2006
From: Dallas, TX
Status: offline 		I have been amused by how many posers there are online.  To prove my point to an acquaintance, profiles were set up here and on Bondage using a photo of one of the most famous fettish models there is.... Eve Ellis.

Only 2 Dom's from Bondage recognized Eve in the photo.  The other Dom's that are now quite displeased that I led them astray with that photo are in such a huff.  Yet, gauging by the emails I have received, most are posers -- they are in pretend land.  Did I lead some astray with the "forced breeding" and K9 training -- LOL -- yes I did.  It's a really deviant world -- don't assume I'm an innocent.

So before you go galloping off on your rocking horse of righteous indignation -- stop to contemplate a few things:

Am I a poser because I did this as a proof of showing an acquaintance what the online BDSM world was like?

Am I a poser because I chose to use an image as a "red herring" to test people's worth?  For those of you that don't know what that term means, a red herring was used to drag across the path to throw off the dogs trailing people.

But what if I told you this bit of info -- not only do I have an understanding of the lifestyle, my own father owned a dungeon for several years and also appeared on HBO's Real Sex.  Alas, he gave it up because he literally got "whipper's elbow" -- for those in the vanilla world, that's tennis elbow.

Am I actively in the BDSM world -- no.  Does that mean I am ignorant of it -- obviously not because a lot of Dom posers took me for legit.  I respect people that choose this as their lifestyle and do not judge them for it.  I respect the man in my life which allows me to let him take lead in our personal relationship - and something must be right because we've been together for almost 11 years.    But don't expect me to be submissive to others -- I know exactly what I want and I lay the groundwork to achieve it. 

I'm making this post for 2 reasons:
  1. Alerting others that are new to this world to not be taken in -- there are a lot of posers and newbie Doms online.
  2. I believe that there are a lot of men & women out there that find themselves at these sites because they are lacking something vital in their personal life -- whether that be respect or companionship.

You will find it hard to fulfill your needs with someone else until you are happy with yourself.  Love yourself.  If BDSM is the way for you, good luck and God bless.  But if you are looking at it as a substitute for something vital lacking in your life, make sure you are also exploring all alternatives in your life.

a bientot
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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:03:40 PM   
lisa1978


Posts: 224
Joined: 5/19/2006
From: Kansas City
Status: offline 		There are fakes and mentally unstable people on these sites! Thank you so much for that information. I do not know how any of us would ever have come to that conclusion without your brilliant scientific information! You are truly a life saver and way smarter than the rest of us.

What is your next adventure:

Proving the world is round?
Politicians lie?
Puppies and kittens are cute?


P.S. Nothing wrong with newbie dominants on these sites. Experience does not equal better and does not make people like yourself who claim experience get cuts to the front of the line.

Edited for the newbie comment.


< Message edited by lisa1978 -- 6/20/2006 2:36:20 PM >

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:10:44 PM   
diamonddreamlove


Posts: 770
Joined: 5/19/2006
Status: offline 		lisa how astute of you to think the world is round.  all i have to do is go online and wait and i know the posers i don't need a red herring either but then perhaps we are a bit brighter than the average ummm not bear oh well kitten or puppy will work.  Sorry have had enough of real Doms too the once the talk the talk but never seem to get the walk.  In fact today am a bit tired of being a sub does that mean i am a switch.  Hope not cause hopefully tomorrow will feel my soft sub side again instead of this sarcastic bitch i am today.

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:21:12 PM   
OedipusRexIt


Posts: 634
Joined: 11/15/2005
Status: offline 		To the OP:

You've also done the rest of us another service.  You've identified yourself as someone who will create a false profile solely to manipulate people.

That's a helpful bit of information.

Are you a poser?  Yup, one of the worst kind.

Your BDSM credentials equate to those a homophobe might use in saying "some of my best friends are queer".   Your experience does not the BDSM world make, nor does your analysis that people are unaware of fetish models lead to your conclusion.

Please don't misunderstand me.  I'm not indignant.  I'm grateful.  Your post does a much better job of making my point than I could ever hope.

Whoever you are today, enjoy this site, and the next one, and the next one, and the next one...

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:29:25 PM   
iliv2servher


Posts: 228
Joined: 5/17/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: VelvetVise

But what if I told you this bit of info -- not only do I have an understanding of the lifestyle, my own father owned a dungeon for several years and also appeared on HBO's Real Sex.  Alas, he gave it up because he literally got "whipper's elbow" -- for those in the vanilla world, that's tennis elbow.



[Much, much important stuff snipped.]

"Whipper's elbow?"  Does this disability fall under the Americans With Disabilities Act?  If so, can I apply now? 

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:30:13 PM   
wild1cfl


Posts: 567
Joined: 4/19/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: VelvetVise









I'm making this post for 2 reasons:
  1. Alerting others that are new to this world to not be taken in -- there are a lot of posers and newbie Doms online.
  2. I believe that there are a lot of men & women out there that find themselves at these sites because they are lacking something vital in their personal life -- whether that be respect or companionship.


You will find it hard to fulfill your needs with someone else until you are happy with yourself.  Love yourself.  If BDSM is the way for you, good luck and God bless.  But if you are looking at it as a substitute for something vital lacking in your life, make sure you are also exploring all alternatives in your life.

a bientot


While I certainly agree with you as to the amount of online posers and I agree with you about your message as to why people are online looking, I do not agree with your methods. All this has done is show many of us that we cannot even trust someone who knows the lifestyle as well as you do. It is unfortunate that you have gotten your jolly's by "proving" how many posers are online, we already know there are many, now we know of another one.......

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My Falcon now is sharp, and passing empty; And, till she stoop, she shall not be full gorg'd, For then she never looks upon her lure. Another way i have to man my haggard, to make her come and know her keeper's call. Wm. Shakespeare

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:31:09 PM   
badpaliden


Posts: 96
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline 		seems the world is full of people who want to run someone elses life , when they them selfs cant run their own.  This isnt any real diffrent  then the old days of mailboxs  and want ads.. just a hell of a lot quicker..They  were there back then too.

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:34:11 PM   
PlayfulOne


Posts: 1047
Status: offline 		Yes you are the poser. 

Ever wonder why people think there are fake profiles running aorund?  You proved their point..  I must be a poser because I have no idea who the person you put up a photo of is and would have any idea who was in the pic.  You got answers to the things "YOU" put in the profile and that makes them fake?  No it makes you an ass.

What does any of this nonsense and silliness you did have to do with "loving ones self" ?

K

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:41:34 PM   
enigmabrat


Posts: 2383
Joined: 8/1/2004
Status: offline 		I dont get it you were trying to prove there were posers by becomeing a poser yourself...

I dont get the point of yout little experament other then to make some Doms feel foolish about themselvs wich is just plain mean

< Message edited by enigmabrat -- 6/20/2006 2:52:55 PM >

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:49:38 PM   
MistressTexas


Posts: 425
Joined: 5/30/2006
Status: offline 		Lisa1978: Love the post, and completely agree. After he has proven those stunning conclusions to be true, perhaps we can then look forward to the long and badly overwrittin post about rocks being hard. *gasp* lol

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 2:59:00 PM   
Tamerofwild1s


Posts: 1765
Joined: 12/5/2004
Status: offline 		ok I been around this lifestyle many many moons . I have no idea who that person is either .. but I dare someone to call me a poser .. I take great pride in my "role" here in the lifestyle and I'll be dam if someone is going to make a mockery of that by putting up some picture and I can't identify them
 
 here let me go cut and paste some bondage model who appears in almost every web site out there and you tell me who she is ... Can't do it . does that mean your now a poser too ??

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:05:39 PM   
perverseangelic


Posts: 2625
Joined: 2/2/2004
From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		So...wait...if I read this right, the OP decided that -other- people were poseurs based on the fact that they didn't recognize a bondage/fetish model? Talk about spesific criteria!

I've been at this a while, am active in my local realtime community, and do a teeny tiny bit of porn/fetish modeling stuff. I have no idea who that person is, probably because I'm only active in my -local- community, and I'm not allowed to watch porn.

Why bother creating a fake profile? You're just leading to -another- "why didn't the person reply" thread.


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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:05:44 PM   
crouchingtigress


Posts: 4387
Joined: 3/19/2006
From: Maui
Status: offline 		I am just chiming in to say I love your sn velvet vise.

< Message edited by crouchingtigress -- 6/20/2006 3:06:39 PM >

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:07:50 PM   
JohnWarren


Posts: 3807
Joined: 3/18/2005
From: Delray Beach, FL
Status: offline 		You're not a poser; you are a sad example of an unethical self-aggrandizing jerk.

Despite the "reasons" you give here the real reason you did this was to feel superior to others.  Not a good incentive for life.

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:11:42 PM   
Sunshine119


Posts: 611
Joined: 8/8/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

ok I been around this lifestyle many many moons . I have no idea who that person is either .. but I dare someone to call me a poser .. I take great pride in my "role" here in the lifestyle and I'll be dam if someone is going to make a mockery of that by putting up some picture and I can't identify them
 
 here let me go cut and paste some bondage model who appears in almost every web site out there and you tell me who she is ... Can't do it . does that mean your now a poser too ??


Can't identify the fetish model?  Hmmmm......I guess all that means is that you don't buy useless subscriptions to on-line fetish blogs.  Rather, you are out there living this life yourself and practicing your craft in real life. 

Congrats Tamer, I guess you must be real and NOT a poser.....lol


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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:21:11 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		Goddammit Jessyka.......I am tired of this shit.  You are not old enough to be on this site, wait until you are old enough.

Obviously this is to the OP for the posers here.

LOLOLOL,
Ron(have you heard of me?  'Cause I sure as fuck ain't heard of you...............)

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:22:29 PM   
enthralled


Posts: 249
Joined: 9/13/2005
From: Nashville, Tn
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: VelvetVise

Am I actively in the BDSM world -- no.  ......

Does that mean I am ignorant of it -- obviously not because a lot of Dom posers took me for legit.  ........

I respect people that choose this as their lifestyle and do not judge them for it. .........

I believe that there are a lot of men & women out there that find themselves at these sites because they are lacking something vital in their personal life -- whether that be respect or companionship.

a bientot


Wow .... what a contradiction!

~enthralled

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:23:53 PM   
driftinonby


Posts: 4
Joined: 5/18/2006
Status: offline 		The picture (if present) is the LAST thing I pay any real notice to.

So what does this whole excercise prove about me?

I have rarely posted in here before, but this one really got up my nose. It seems to me to be entrapment pure and simple. Show people what they want to see, namely a pretty face and a long list of likes and what can you expect in all honesty? I wonder if the reason so many fakes/newbies responded is because all the genuine/experienced people were suspicious of something to good to be true and so left well alone.

< Message edited by driftinonby -- 6/20/2006 3:26:05 PM >

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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:35:11 PM   
NastyDaddy


Posts: 957
Joined: 9/8/2004
Status: offline 		When you approached me about breeders I told you what I know, along with a person's life story whom I've known for several years. Your inputs and replys did not seem to be along the 'snooty' line then.  

I was actually surprised to see this thread post from you. Would it be fitting to say that you can't trust anyone online?

Next suggested experiment in unmanned nuclear thought surgery: 

Offer starving Somalians pizza... but ONLY if they can first tell you who was the male lead in The Shining (and for 2 pieces of pizza, the year it was filmed)  ... ONLY the truest of the true hungry will in fact know these most holy and sacred things!
Screw all them lamer fake fake fakers/posers who show up only pretending to be hungry and don't know Jack!!!   


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RE: Posers Online - 6/20/2006 3:37:35 PM   
Wulfchyld


Posts: 2618
Joined: 12/7/2005
Status: offline 		Anyone care to guess who this founding father is?




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