LafayetteLady
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Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Northern New Jersey Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady What you all "know" is an Urban Myth. There are a lot of misconceptions about the programs, but many of the stories that get labeled as "urban myth," are quite accurate, and fairly common. Since a great deal of fraud is handled administratively, when they catch it, there isn't a public record to document the case. Yes. I do know how much a typical single mom of 2 is going to get. Just enough to be nailed in, at the lowest part of the charts in our economic spectrum. Of course, from there, she can learn to start working it. Those food stamps go a lot farther, when the kiddies breakfasts and lunches are taken care of by the school. Heathcare doesn't come with a payroll deduction, or with those pesky co-pays. There might be only enough cash to rent something really crappy to begin with, but once the Section 8 subsidy comes on, 30% of your income can get you right out of the ghetto... at least until the influx of Section 8 turns the new neighborhood into a ghetto. Sign up for the right welfare-to-work program, your gas gets paid for, along with your work clothing allowance, free daycare for the kiddies (which my brother and his wife tell me is costing them $18,000 a year) and up to $3,000 in car repairs, when needed. Those time limits we hear so much about can be waived, simply by saying the magic words, as can getting repeat service on, "once-in-lifetime," benefits such as a few weeks worth of hotel vouchers, or total costs of moving into a new residence (first/last rent, truck rental, cash to buy appliances). For someone who is acclimated to living poor, living poor on welfare can be a pretty cushy gig. I would ask how you know such things are handled without documentation, but I'm sure you would tell me that there is no record, you just "know" from someone telling you. Handling something at the administrative level, doesn't mean there is no public record, it means that criminal charges weren't filed. There is a difference, and yes, administrative filings have records. So you "know" what a single mother gets monthly, although you certainly fail to mention it. It is different in NJ than in California, certainly, but I can assure you that in NJ, it doesn't amount to enough to get even a "crappy" place to rent, not by a long shot. It wouldn't even cover a studio apartment in the seediest neighborhood. Section 8? Section 8 here has been closed for years, and I do mean years. So no one is getting that to help them on their way either. Sixteen years ago, I paid about 13K a year in childcare, on my own, as a single parent. No assistance from my ex, and no state aid. Oh yea, she's working it alright. She has no "pesky co-pays" or payroll deductions for medical, but she also has no paid time off either, and if she actually had a pay-roll deduction, it would suck so much of her check, all she could afford was medical care. But that's cool, don't give her the ability to make sure that she can take her child to the doctor for well baby visits or if they are sick. Of course, the baby's father is off living the life of Riley because no one seems to be able to find him to get him to contribute to child support. And I'm not talking teenage and/or unwed mothers. I'm talking about divorced women whose ex husbands are in the wind. Oh that's right, she is stretching that food stamp money because her child qualifies for the free breakfast and lunch programs. What exactly do you think she is doing with those extra food stamps? They are only good for food, and not prepared foods either. So do you think she is living on filet mignon and lobster all month? No it means that she can actually afford to buy fresh fruits and vegetables. Instead of eating pasta six nights a week, they can actually have some meat in their diet, and when there is a sale, some fish. The limit on having more children can not be waived, whether you believe it can or not. I'm sure you think living poor on welfare can be a cushy gig, but I'm willing to bet that you could not do it for six months with a small child.
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