tazzygirl
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I lost you there. You say 1) if the fetus is 22 weeks old it should be protected, provided there is not danger to the mother. 2) But then you say, even then the mother can choose to abort the fetus. Which one? Both. After 22 weeks, by law, unless the mother's life is in danger as a direct result of continuing the pregnancy, I dont know of any physician who will do a later term abortion. I do know women who have decided, against medical advice, to continue the pregnancy despite the risks. That is how its the mother's decision. quote:
I do not think the case was ever that she felt that she was at risk. As I understand it, the problem was emotional: she could not face the lies and loss of her man, and could not face bringing up the child alone. She wanted to die, but lived. Tragic, as I see it. At 8 months, adoption is always an option. Its not like everyone didnt already know she was pregnant. quote:
Are you now talking legal terms? I am speaking legally and medically, yes. quote:
I am not talking legal terms, and I thought you weren't either, saying she should be hanged, which is not done today. Ah, you are from the UK. When I say quote:
IF the experts could say the rat poisoning killed the child, then I would say... hang her. Hang her is an expression meaning charge her to the full extent of the law. Not a literal hanging. quote:
But the clear consequence of what you say is that there is no father to a child, only a mother, and only the mother is responsible. How is the father legally responsible? Because he lied to her to get into her pants? Do you really wish to make that a precedence? Until the child is born, the responsibility is solely hers. Paternity hasnt even been proven yet. So how can you hold a man responsible when its not even proven the child is his. quote:
I cannot understand that. IMO both the male and the female is equally responsible for a child, or a fetus. They both made it. So when the man walked away, he also was partly responsible for what happened, or indeed for what would have happened had the fetus become a living child. You may feel that way, morally. The law disagrees with you. quote:
As I see it, if a woman is alone and she cannot take care of the child, she should abort it. No child should be born unwanted. US laws do not work that way. Again, adoption is always an option. Morally, you can hold whatever belief you wish. Fact is, he didnt give her the poison, he didnt tell her to abort, he simply walked away as many men do. While it sucks, its not legally a crime. And who says that simply because a woman cannot afford a baby that baby is unwanted? Thats a pretty black and white scenario indicating that only those who are financially well off can want a baby.
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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt. RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11 Duchess of Dissent 1 Dont judge me because I sin differently than you. If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.
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