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Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 11:55:12 AM   
KinkyCalifornia


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Status: offline 		I'm looking to meet a female slave online and if we're compatible relocate her to live with me. In this continuing quest I have found out the hard way that folks looking to do just that, open themselves up to scams. Here are my experiences:

1) I am contacted through a site or instant messaging service by "slaves" that love my profile, love me and are ready to come to me now. "She" (or whoever it is) needs money for gas to drive over and conveniently they are far away. Of course they don't have a working phone (or the phone connection is oddly bad,) but can text.

2) Calling via the phone and videoconferencing, such as using Skype, is a big problem for so many of these perspective relocation slaves. There are always excuses as to why they can't call or videoconference.

3) The slaves want the bus, train or plane ticket for travelling to me, to be bought on their end and thus they want me to send them cash for that. (Bad idea.) It's best to buy it yourself and put her down as the person travelling.

4) Of course they're broke now so they need money to tide them over. (This could however be a legitimate problem.)

Anybody else have any experiences they'd like to share? Thank you.


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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 12:06:18 PM   
FreetobeSlave


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Status: offline 		Just yesterday I had a "slave" do this.
I knew it was going to happen when I started talking to her and she showed me a picture of a porn star. We texted back and forth, then she said she would be here Saturday (never asked where we were from) then said she just needed money to get here.




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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 12:17:10 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Not personally but you are far from alone, this is a very very common scam. The good news is that you're clearly not having any trouble spotting them. Just report them and block them, the admins do their best to get rid of them but they are swimming against the tide.

What I will say, is that based on your profile you are a prime target. It's not just the relocation thing, but you also pretty much state you have lots of money - which is what they want, after all - and you have an extremely sex-based profile. Just from following conversations here I've seen a pattern that the more your profile talks about the sex you're going to have and the less it talks about who you are as a person and what you're looking for in a relationship, the more scammers and flakes you attract. It's harder to fake being compatible personalities than it is to parrot back someone's sexual fantasies. And I can't think of a nice way to say this, so bear with me. They may get the impression that someone who focuses on the sex over the personality is more likely to be eager to jump hastily into a commitment (ie. it makes you look a bit desperate, which is perfect for a scammer).

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 12:21:10 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Honestly? When I first started doing the Internet thing a while back I had a few instances where I'd chat to someone for a bit and then they'd try to pull something like this.

These days... I guess I'm either lucky, or I've developed a good filter, because I very rarely exchange emails with people that then try to scam me. I ignore a fair number of incoming emails because they're obviously sketchy though...

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 12:56:28 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Have you read the site's information regarding common internet scams?

My thanks to the Mod who moved this from the General BDSM Discussion forum.


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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 1:59:44 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KinkyCalifornia


Anybody else have any experiences they'd like to share? Thank you.





If you had done a search, rather than making a post, you could have read all about the other people that complain about fakes and scams.

We get at least three of these posts a week.


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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 4:59:16 PM   
mstrj69


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Status: offline 		I seldom get them as they have gone to putting too much info in their profile to tell me it is a scam and so I never contact them. I did try to get a plane ticket for one quite awhile back but when I told her I would need her home address, social security number and an active land line phone number, she said she would pay for it herself.

In those rare occasions when someone bothers me, I simply say, "If you want me to relocate you, I will come to you and we can ride back here together." That is the last I ever hear from them. I immediatey report the profile to admin.

I think there are a lot of profiles with very few people doing this. They hope tofind the one in 10 thousand that will send them money and then they move onto a new profile.

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 5:28:04 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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Status: offline 		First off, there is absolutely no way that I would consider either relocating to somebody, regardless of who pays for it, or having somebody relocate to me, without having had considerable face to face, as in with our meat faces no more than a couple of feet apart, time with her first. If I've learned one thing in my years on kinky sites, it's that the appearance of chemistry between two people who "meet online" does NOT mean that such chemistry will exist when they meet face to face.

Second, there is a REASON why the following shows at the top your screen whenever you read an email here:

DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON!
Read about Common Scams and Online Safety Information

That comes on EVERY email. I copied and pasted that from an email sent to me by a moderator.

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/20/2013 7:15:36 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Actually, anybody who thinks all slaves have hive minds, are totally interchangeable, and you should be able to get one to relocate without as much as having coffee, deserves what he gets.

You're looking for a relationship. You can't get that without work, without communication skills, without relationship skills.

Yeah, you're tired of your right hand while dreaming of blowjobs on demand. Let's just suppose you get someone desperate enough to do this. Won't it bother you to know she finds you unattractive? Or that she has no joy in your presence? That she actively dislikes you?

Wouldn't you rather have someone who really likes you, who thinks you're funny and awesome, who enjoys doing things that make you happy? Well, you can't order that online like you can a tee shirt. You have to date and develop a relationship. There is no short cut to lifelong bliss, folks.

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/21/2013 10:26:07 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Considering the great detail of "what you will do to her"...you're begging for trouble. Expert at ass play & strap ons just muddies the water further.

Also whatever studio you work for likely would have an issue with you openly advertising you would get a job with them for your sex toy.

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 4:27:54 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Seriously dude, you have a big red target on your profile. It is no wonder the scammers have come after you with both barrels. Yours is one of the least realistic profiles I have seen here among male doms. Many of your numbered 'requirements' would be impossible for most actual people to fulfill even if they wanted to. Your wank-narrative strikes me as ridiculously and fatally porn-contaminated. Who gives a flying fig about the description of your dick? Why is that even necessary? Haven't you figured out at your age what actually appeals to women? That's a rhetorical question: 40 self-pub'd books and you are still clueless.

I personally have not had any scam problems on CM. They're easy enough to spot, report, and eliminate. Someone would have to be a complete, desperate dumbass to fall for them.

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 5:29:36 PM   
Missokyst


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

Seriously dude, you have a big red target on your profile. It is no wonder the scammers have come after you with both barrels. Yours is one of the least realistic profiles I have seen here among male doms. Many of your numbered 'requirements' would be impossible for most actual people to fulfill even if they wanted to. Your wank-narrative strikes me as ridiculously and fatally porn-contaminated. Who gives a flying fig about the description of your dick? Why is that even necessary? Haven't you figured out at your age what actually appeals to women? That's a rhetorical question: 40 self-pub'd books and you are still clueless.

I personally have not had any scam problems on CM. They're easy enough to spot, report, and eliminate. Someone would have to be a complete, desperate dumbass to fall for them.



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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 5:36:06 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
Yours is one of the least realistic profiles I have seen here among male doms.


I hate you. You made me look.


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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 5:42:40 PM   
lizi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
Yours is one of the least realistic profiles I have seen here among male doms.


I hate you. You made me look.



Me too. Holy cow. If he writes his books like the profile I'd be in hysterical laughter throughout most of it, and the writing is oddly perfunctory. Not a style that I would think would work for the kinky material he is supposed to write.
That is seriously one of the most ridiculous profiles I've seen on this site.

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 5:45:10 PM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
Yours is one of the least realistic profiles I have seen here among male doms.


I hate you. You made me look.



Me too. Holy cow. If he writes his books like the profile I'd be in hysterical laughter throughout most of it, and the writing is oddly perfunctory. Not a style that I would think would work for the kinky material he is supposed to write.
That is seriously one of the most ridiculous profiles I've seen on this site.



Yup....and if that is his profile, can you imagine his introductory email? He's probably spamming women with the poorly written porn that is his profile.


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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 5:47:06 PM   
SinFix


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Status: offline 		Omg, I want back the time it took me to start reading that. Couldn't finish it.. wtf

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 5:54:12 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
Yours is one of the least realistic profiles I have seen here among male doms.


I hate you. You made me look.



Me too. Holy cow. If he writes his books like the profile I'd be in hysterical laughter throughout most of it, and the writing is oddly perfunctory. Not a style that I would think would work for the kinky material he is supposed to write.
That is seriously one of the most ridiculous profiles I've seen on this site.



One of his books is "The Funniest BDSM Personal Ads".

(Trotting out the "glass houses" saying.)


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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 6:03:56 PM   
lizi


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

One of his books is "The Funniest BDSM Personal Ads".

(Trotting out the "glass houses" saying.)



I saw that

One other thing about glass houses is that he probably shouldn't make out like he's qualified to write about sex or women's responses to such, until he takes an anatomy course and one in women's sexuality.
Either someone's been convincing him of silliness or he honestly has no idea. Scary when you're writing books and all...

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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/22/2013 6:15:09 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		One of the books contained the words "S&M Rules" in the title and that actually did concern me.



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RE: Slave Relocateme Scams - 3/23/2013 9:41:34 AM   
theRose4U


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
Yours is one of the least realistic profiles I have seen here among male doms.


I hate you. You made me look.


{Passes the eye bleach & hand santi-wipes}

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