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ORIGINAL: nek0s

I was just kind of skimming over the replies and figured i would chime in.

One of my biggest pet peeves in the BDSM community is the " fake " dominant males. Sadly, almost every supposed dominant or self proclaimed dominant male i have crossed paths with are anything but dominant males. They are weak little boys trying to justify showing the physical superiority over women in the guise of BDSM.

A dominant male will never beg or plead for a woman give him a blowjob or to do anything for that matter. A dominant male will know how to talk to a woman and make her want nothing more than to give him a blow job. A dominant male will never ((( force ))) a woman to bend over so he can fuck her in the ass. A dominant male will know how to touch, comfort , protect and make her feel safe. So much so she not only wants him to bend her over she begs him to. And most importantly, a dominant male get's very little out of being physically dominant over a woman or dominant threw fear. All real men, which are severely lacking in the BDSM community, know that we can do any thing we want to a woman and there is nothing she could ever do to stop us. We do how ever get something out of her (((willingly))) giving herself, her body, her mind and especially her heart to us and trusting us enough to do what ever we like to her, whether she likes it or not.

The women here who are defending being ( forced ) to do anything, sorry to say but you were merely raped by a weak little boy.

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ORIGINAL: nek0s

I was just kind of skimming over the replies and figured i would chime in.

One of my biggest pet peeves in the BDSM community is the " fake " dominant males. Sadly, almost every supposed dominant or self proclaimed dominant male i have crossed paths with are anything but dominant males. They are weak little boys trying to justify showing the physical superiority over women in the guise of BDSM.

A dominant male will never beg or plead for a woman give him a blowjob or to do anything for that matter. A dominant male will know how to talk to a woman and make her want nothing more than to give him a blow job. A dominant male will never ((( force ))) a woman to bend over so he can fuck her in the ass. A dominant male will know how to touch, comfort , protect and make her feel safe. So much so she not only wants him to bend her over she begs him to. And most importantly, a dominant male get's very little out of being physically dominant over a woman or dominant threw fear. All real men, which are severely lacking in the BDSM community, know that we can do any thing we want to a woman and there is nothing she could ever do to stop us. We do how ever get something out of her (((willingly))) giving herself, her body, her mind and especially her heart to us and trusting us enough to do what ever we like to her, whether she likes it or not.

The women here who are defending being ( forced ) to do anything, sorry to say but you were merely raped by a weak little boy.

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24
I like this post!!!!
I will say though, some subs like forcefulness. the whole TAKE ME CAVEMAN THING. lol. Really a fine line to walk for doms, knowing all that inside stuff, especially when the sub doesnt want to have to say it, its just known. NOW THAT IS HOT HOT HOT.

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ORIGINAL: nek0s
That is sexy too. If someone has made me want him in the relationship sense, then once that has got going then force and direct language and orders are good. In fact I prefer to be told, not asked. I do not think I have ever been in a relationship for example when I've been asked if I want sex and that's great, works fine for me, but have always been with a man who cares for me and takes reasonable notice of what I need and how I am.

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24
I like this post!!!!
I will say though, some subs like forcefulness. the whole TAKE ME CAVEMAN THING. lol. Really a fine line to walk for doms, knowing all that inside stuff, especially when the sub doesnt want to have to say it, its just known. NOW THAT IS HOT HOT HOT.

I'm into the forceful stuff too...
It's not so much about the act itself but the willingness to engage in it and who you do it with.

Like i said, or at least was trying to , if i guy has to force a woman to submit he isn't a dominant male. A real dominant male knows how to make a woman willingly give him every thing and doesn't need to force her threw fear of mental or physical torment.

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ORIGINAL: Glittoris

You do realize that him forcing you to blow him, when you did not want to, is considered rape, don't you?

rape  

rape1 [reyp] noun, verb, raped, rap·ing.
noun
1.
the unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.
2.
any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.


And how the hell can you fall in love with someone you've seen only twice [and tried, multiple times, to force you to have sex with him]?

Girl, you are 19 and lonely, I get that. But jesus christ, walk away and find someone worthy of your submission!

He's a douche bag male looking to get laid, with or without your consent. Walk away now before it gets worse, which it will, dude, really, if this is how he acts when he's trying to get you to be involved with him, what the fuck will he do once you are involved, or [shudders], married???

Find a Dom who is on the same path as you, and has the same morals and values and rules as you, stop letting this piece of shit treat you like a second class citizen!

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ORIGINAL: cravelizzybabe

Yeah.... :/

I just need help.. he says those are his feelings.. but i feel pressured and he said i shouldn't but his feelings make me feel so. We only met two times... sex shouldn't be this big of an issue it puts me in a crappy situation.