LafayetteLady
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Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Northern New Jersey Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: cordeliasub I don't expect my child to tell me before she has sex. I also don't expect someone else to give her medication without my knowledge. Do people really have this much trouble understanding why a parent would have a problem with this, or is the need to be right just clouding comprehension. What about when the parent is the reason the kid needs the medication Sorry Daddy, you just got done raping me, but are you okay with me going to the drug store and getting a drug to make sure i dont get knocked up so you can rape me some more? Im the survivor of child rape, My mother Sold my virginity to get high, I got pregnant at age 12, and Wished to gods that this was available when i was that age, because then id be able to have children now.. Instead i have a very fucked up womb because i didnt know i was supposed to get a d&c after i miscarried and went into sepsis, Instead of pretty kids, I have parts of my insides not there and can never carry a child safely... the reality is, 11 year olds arent going to go to the hospital for a rape kit when MOST FUCKING ADULTS DONT.... how the fuck can you expect to hold a child to a standard most adults dont do? I went to get plan b 3 years ago when the condom broke, I was on birth control, and we used a condom, but to be 100% sure that i wouldnt have to go and get an abortion, (which my doctor said would be necessary if i got pregnant with the issues i had already) I went to get a simple little pill... I got a 15 minute lecture on how was i sure i wanted to take this route and was it right for the baby that could be growing inside of me.. I had to go to 4 pharmacies to get the fucking over the counter pill.. What makes you think this is going to change for people who dont have my tenacity? to little 11 year olds who have been raped, instead of getting the medication they might need, they will leave and still feel scared and alone and shamed... And what if they miscarry like i did, What if they also dont know that they need a D&C? What then? Are you okay with your kid never having children, because they couldnt go and get an over the counter medication? I do understand the point you are trying to make. However, there are a couple of problems with the thought process you are having. First of all, it is highly unlikely that "Plan B" is going to be getting commercials on television any time soon, so how many 12 year olds do you think are going to know about it? You likely would have been as unaware of Plan B as you were about the possible need for a D&C after a miscarriage (which is NOT always medically necessary by the way). Second, keeping the secret isn't exactly healthy, is it? Do you not think a pharmacist might question a 12 year old who is asking for this item? It isn't, after all, cough medicine. So a pharmacist seeing an 11 year old CHILD asking for Plan B might have a couple of questions for the girl, and rightly so. In which case, the authorities are going to become involved, and should be involved.
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